IARainman
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My wife has gone through extreme periods of being hot and cold, not very much time of being just warm. In her early forties, she went through an extremely hot couple of months. She had been ice cold, then, due to changes in our relationship she turned into a fireball. We were fucking multiple times a day and she seemed to really get into having her tits handled roughly and being finger banged almost to fisting. That died, and she went cold again. Yes, we talked, and all she could say was she just wasn't interested. Then a few years ago she went into a brief hot spell again. She enjoyed oral, which she never really like much before and she'd do great things like masturbating for me. It's hard for her to cum, so I think there's a correlation with her frustration there. Stress and her body image seems to really impact her desire. Menopause is also impacting her, but she doesn't see it as a problem to address medically. That's her choice and I respect that. She acknowledges the need for intimacy for the three good of our relationship, but it never goes past talk. The last time we had sex was in early November, and that was out of some sense of duty and the sex was so bad I almost would rather she not bother. She seems to think if she can get me off then everything is good. I want her to enjoy it. She's working on losing some weight and getting fit, so I hope that leads to an increase in desire.
So, it's very mysterious.
So, it's very mysterious.