Hello , I am happy for the mods to move this post if I have placed it in the wrong section.
My question is to all who have a smoking fetish, when you first discovered you had the fetish how did it impact on your relationship with family members who smoked and or has it had an impact since?
For me it was back when i was teen, my mum had started smoking when i was 9 she would have been 27/28 at the time. At first I hated it being around her and her friends who smoked, i lost count of the amount if times I asked her to stop back then.
When i was maybe 13/14 one of mum's friends caught my attention when she came round one day, she was pregnant and still smoking. For some reason i found seeing her smoke excited me, i would try and catch sight of her when ever she called round just to see her smoke, over time i started to notice more women and even girls from my school smoking drew my attention and i would often think about them when alone in my room.
I started to find non smoking girls my age did not attract me the same way those who smoked did, and since then have really only dated women who smoke. My current partner is a smoker and i would not have her any other way.
i was in my mid 20s when i found out that mum only started smoking due to one of the guys she was dating back then encouraged her to start due to his fetish. i think finding this out changed my view on mum and her smoking, the idea of her starting when she did because of a partner getting her to do so i find appealing in so may ways, now some 30 years later after starting mum is a 2 pack a day smoker and still loves it. i find her love of smoking is infectious and i also love the fact mum talked my partner in to continuing to smoke when she considered quitting a few years ago
i think accepting my mum smoking also allowed me to appreciate not just younger women smokers but also older ones too.
My question is to all who have a smoking fetish, when you first discovered you had the fetish how did it impact on your relationship with family members who smoked and or has it had an impact since?
For me it was back when i was teen, my mum had started smoking when i was 9 she would have been 27/28 at the time. At first I hated it being around her and her friends who smoked, i lost count of the amount if times I asked her to stop back then.
When i was maybe 13/14 one of mum's friends caught my attention when she came round one day, she was pregnant and still smoking. For some reason i found seeing her smoke excited me, i would try and catch sight of her when ever she called round just to see her smoke, over time i started to notice more women and even girls from my school smoking drew my attention and i would often think about them when alone in my room.
I started to find non smoking girls my age did not attract me the same way those who smoked did, and since then have really only dated women who smoke. My current partner is a smoker and i would not have her any other way.
i was in my mid 20s when i found out that mum only started smoking due to one of the guys she was dating back then encouraged her to start due to his fetish. i think finding this out changed my view on mum and her smoking, the idea of her starting when she did because of a partner getting her to do so i find appealing in so may ways, now some 30 years later after starting mum is a 2 pack a day smoker and still loves it. i find her love of smoking is infectious and i also love the fact mum talked my partner in to continuing to smoke when she considered quitting a few years ago
i think accepting my mum smoking also allowed me to appreciate not just younger women smokers but also older ones too.
