MFM is the new FMF??

Gwanji16 said:

I agree with misshotndeep. Sexuality is fluid. I am not sure if there is a flavor of the month re mfm or fmf. I lean towards the latter but have participated in the former. Regardless of whatever version of threesomes you prefer, unless one establishes strict no touch rules, everybody is fucking and licking and sucking everybody else. That is just the way of the world, unless you choose to sit on a chair and jack off while someone is doing someone else, which is less fun. Do what comes (cums) naturally and enjoy, as long as all are willing participants. For guys who are interested in watching other guys fuck their ladies, that means you will likely see, if not taste and touch, a whole lot more cock than you have ever before. Just putting that out there. It's all hot!

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I never said sexuality was fluid. Mine is very firmly in place. I gain no joy from women. I actually am totally turned off by the softness of the female body. Especially breast. I have a thing for the firmness of the male body. The image of a hard cock throbbing and the anticipation in the eyes of a man.
My point was that at a certain maturity level some men realize that pleasure can be had through many forms of stimulation and societies rules on such are narrow. Liking a cock in your ass does not make you any less of a man. It just means you are free of the narrow minded thinking that prevails most of society in terms of sex.

Misshotndeep said:

I never said sexuality was fluid. Mine is very firmly in place. I gain no joy from women. I actually am totally turned off by the softness of the female body. Especially breast. I have a thing for the firmness of the male body. The image of a hard cock throbbing and the anticipation in the eyes of a man.
My point was that at a certain maturity level some men realize that pleasure can be had through many forms of stimulation and societies rules on such are narrow. Liking a cock in your ass does not make you any less of a man. It just means you are free of the narrow minded thinking that prevails most of society in terms of sex.

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Which suggests that, for some people, sexuality can be fluid (perhaps the better qualifier). I see what you are saying - preference (not everyone has to, or wants to have same sex sex) versus preconceived notions that being fucked by a guy or a girl makes you less of either. I think we are roughly on the same page.

Gwanji16 said:

Which suggests that, for some people, sexuality can be fluid (perhaps the better qualifier). I see what you are saying - preference (not everyone has to, or wants to have same sex sex) versus preconceived notions that being fucked by a guy or a girl makes you less of either. I think we are roughly on the same page.

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I think we are as well. While I have zero interest in same-sex interaction. I do not think those who are have anything wrong with them. I just happen to love the thought and sight of two men pleasing each other. If they were pleasing me to, I wouldn't complain. As I said it has been a kink of mine for a very very long time.

Ahhhhhh love the MFM

Plenty of cocks and mouths for Dee. They don't do each other just Dee. I wish they would though, I'd love it.

As someone who has been the F in a MFM and one of the F's in a FMF, I can say anyone who hasn't done either is missing out.

My husband was actually the one who sparked the suggestion of MFM. The ability to increase pleasure for myself, and to provide an even more complete experience and sensation for me made him determined to make it happen and became his biggest fantasy. That, and in his words 'showing me off'.

The fullness and the feelings, and the exhaustion is fairly exquisite.

Having been fortunate enough to experience both FMF and MFM. I would have to say that the MFM was way better than I thought even possible. Not only did my gf at the time experience 2 cocks at the same time, I was able to experience my first time sucking a cock.
The experience opened my eyes to another completely different set of sexual experiences that I had apparently been overlooking.

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LIZZIE1991 said:

As someone who has been the F in a MFM and one of the F's in a FMF, I can say anyone who hasn't done either is missing out.

My husband was actually the one who sparked the suggestion of MFM. The ability to increase pleasure for myself, and to provide an even more complete experience and sensation for me made him determined to make it happen and became his biggest fantasy. That, and in his words 'showing me off'.

The fullness and the feelings, and the exhaustion is fairly exquisite.

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Simply Beautiful!

screwher said:

That definitely my case. When I imagine my wife in a threesome it's not with me and another woman, as isn't he traditional cliche male fantasy. I fantasize my wife getting worked over by two big cocked studs.

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I agree. Have had the pleasure to watch her with 2 men a few times.

My fetish evolution started with missionary style [virgin seduction by an older girl], then doggy, then oral to me, then oral to her, then 69, then FMF, then MFM ............thus proving that missionary position is a stepping stone to perverted nasty sex addicktion.
What's the next step??

It's all about the MMF for me

I want is all fucking, sucking, and enjoying each other. I don't want to be left out so of course I'm bringing my strap on

I think there is also the other issue of practicality. In my experience it has been far easier to set up MFM's than FMF's, for a variety of reasons.

There is a fun edge to threesomes, and FMF's are mostly fantasies, whereas MFM's tend to be almost surprising spontaneous surprises. Why that is can be interpreted in a variety of ways.

For me though, no matter how it happens, having my cock down a woman's throat while she is writhing on another cock is always fucking awesome. Bonus points for us dirty talking about how much she is loving wallowing in her lust.

naughtoldperv said:

My fetish evolution started with missionary style [virgin seduction by an older girl], then doggy, then oral to me, then oral to her, then 69, then FMF, then MFM ............thus proving that missionary position is a stepping stone to perverted nasty sex addicktion.
What's the next step??

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What I enjoyed about them the most was the feeling that I was giving and sharing pleasure with whoever was with me at the time.

Any suggestions about the next step on the 'stairway to heaven'????

Having had two FMF experiences and some exploration into my bi side, I have been wanting to have a MFM for some time. I think it's going to end up being an encounter that happens in the spur of the moment. But I find myself fantasizing about giving in to whatever urge I have in the moment.

Another factor why I think I have evolved to MFM is that it gives me an outlet for the closet bi curious/gay part of my secret urges. Wouldn't think of going gay without a woman in the mix [yet?], but the idea of sharing a cock with my woman is a real turn on.

Mfm the new fmf

I agree that taste have changed. My thinking is it has to do with maturity and our male ego. When we are younger adult men we think we can last all night and climax multiple times for women. So for us in about early years we think we can handle pleasuring multiple women at once. For some this is possible.

As we get older we learn two things. First we love our wives immensely and are all about seeing them be pleasured. Taken to places of ecstasy and then some. Places we still can but the excitement of a new lover just enhances. Second we realize we can no longer last long enough to completely satisfy multiple women at one time. So we learn why try. Why not enjoy watching the love of our life get as much pleasure as possible, be there to watch it and to help in driving her to that place.

That's at least the way I think about it. Feel free to message me and we can chat about it or swap stories or fantasies about wife sharing

Thanks

Njhubby126 said:

I agree that taste have changed. My thinking is it has to do with maturity and our male ego. When we are younger adult men we think we can last all night and climax multiple times for women. So for us in about early years we think we can handle pleasuring multiple women at once. For some this is possible.

As we get older we learn two things. First we love our wives immensely and are all about seeing them be pleasured. Taken to places of ecstasy and then some. Places we still can but the excitement of a new lover just enhances. Second we realize we can no longer last long enough to completely satisfy multiple women at one time. So we learn why try. Why not enjoy watching the love of our life get as much pleasure as possible, be there to watch it and to help in driving her to that place.

That's at least the way I think about it. Feel free to message me and we can chat about it or swap stories or fantasies about wife sharing

Thanks

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I agree. Porn has men conditioned to think that a threesome with two women is all about the women doing all they can to pleasure the man. Unless the women are bi, the reality is that the onus is on the man to pleasure both women. Our male egos tell us we'd love to give it the old college try but ultra telly someone is going to be left unfulfilled. Two guys on one girl - everyone gets something.

there is a lot of MFM in 80's and 90's porn... we just have 5000% more options to view porn.

I've always thought FMF would be hot.. the girls I dated, When I asked them about 3sum's either said NO and looked at me funny, or thought for a min. then said Two guys sounds hot..

Even when I asked Mrs K... she first said...another girl..then quickly changed.. NO, another guy...

Got me thinking about the primal and evolutionary aspects of this issue:

A woman's loud expressions attracting other men to join.
The large proportion of sperm which are programmed not to fertilize but to take out other guys' sperm.
The man's helmet ridge designed to rake out the previous guy's semen.
The deepest deposit of the best quality sperm gets the egg.

All adds up, yeah?

suckonsimon said:

Got me thinking about the primal and evolutionary aspects of this issue:

A woman's loud expressions attracting other men to join.
The large proportion of sperm which are programmed not to fertilize but to take out other guys' sperm.
The man's helmet ridge designed to rake out the previous guy's semen.
The deepest deposit of the best quality sperm gets the egg.

All adds up, yeah?

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I really never thought of the physics of it all. I just think it would feel awesome.

Njhubby126 said:

I agree that taste have changed. My thinking is it has to do with maturity and our male ego. When we are younger adult men we think we can last all night and climax multiple times for women. So for us in about early years we think we can handle pleasuring multiple women at once. For some this is possible.

As we get older we learn two things. First we love our wives immensely and are all about seeing them be pleasured. Taken to places of ecstasy and then some. Places we still can but the excitement of a new lover just enhances. Second we realize we can no longer last long enough to completely satisfy multiple women at one time. So we learn why try. Why not enjoy watching the love of our life get as much pleasure as possible, be there to watch it and to help in driving her to that place.

That's at least the way I think about it. Feel free to message me and we can chat about it or swap stories or fantasies about wife sharing

Thanks

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The capacity was greater when I was younger but so were the misperceptions. I think I always knew that part of what other guys said was just bullshit and bravado but that becomes even more evident over time. As I matured I learned that the need to be super stud was not only unrealistic it was taking away from the experiences I did have and sometimes off putting to women. One lady in particular really helped me when I was constantly asking about my performance (just us not a three-way) - she basically said I was a very good lover but no she doesn't climax all the time, doesn't know any women who do and the need to worry about a man's ego takes away from the experience. Settle in, explore, take it for what it is without expectations (including your own performance) and it is always better.

That has been especially relevant for a mfm - I personally don't think one can be ready for the experience (especially if the woman is your wife or gf) if there is a need to be seen as performing. It is a given that if you do this enough times their will be a man who is bigger or lasts longer or gets her to a stronger climax.....maybe he is just a stud or maybe you are having an off night but no matter who you are it is gonna happen. And if you try to make sure it doesn't happen you are going to indulge in competition that is unhealthy for you and takes away from her experience. In the right setting with a good mindset a bit of competition can be fun but that isn't what I mean.

Not only did that woman's input give me a correction of my own attitude it gave me a wonderful appreciation of a confident assertive sexual woman.....and how idiotic it is to crave that yet expect her to be virginal. Which in turn led to an attraction to sexually desirous women. The idea of a woman willing to be with more than one man is now not a matter of finding one who is willing but of being deeply attracted to one who is wanting.

Meanwhile I think things go in a sort of opposite way for women. Society teaches them to be less accepting of their sexuality when they are young which gets tempered as they mature.

And as others have said we begin to love women in a way that makes us want to see them pleasured and over the last couple decades the notion of anything that might have any "gay" aspect to it has become less taboo.

So for me it is many factors that nudged me from the teenage fmf fantasy to the more practical and now far more titillating mfm experience. Or I guess I should say mmf.....whether or not the guys actually engage with one another I prefer to think of the experience as being open enough that such a limitation is unnecessary.

Porkwarrior said:

I think there is also the other issue of practicality. In my experience it has been far easier to set up MFM's than FMF's, for a variety of reasons.

There is a fun edge to threesomes, and FMF's are mostly fantasies, whereas MFM's tend to be almost surprising spontaneous surprises. Why that is can be interpreted in a variety of ways.

For me though, no matter how it happens, having my cock down a woman's throat while she is writhing on another cock is always fucking awesome. Bonus points for us dirty talking about how much she is loving wallowing in her lust.

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Yes.

MFM is easy to set up, and not only is it a MFM but it's a mini gang bang.

Yes yes and three times Yes.

I still like lesbian porn if i see it but I've not searched for it for years now.

But the thought of a 3 some with my wife and another guy, or 2 other guys and me just watching is a massive turn on.

But I'd never touch the other guy so this isn't a "coming out of the closet " in that sense

SlutAddicted said:

<snip> ... Or I guess I should say mmf.....whether or not the guys actually engage with one another I prefer to think of the experience as being open enough that such a limitation is unnecessary.

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SUCH a good read, the whole piece, SA! Thank you!

There does seem to be a lot more discussion of MFM threesomes than there used to be.

Maturity can change opinions, for sure. I'm seeing more women, of all ages, appear interested in the subject.

"Meanwhile I think things go in a sort of opposite way for women. Society teaches them to be less accepting of their sexuality when they are young which gets tempered as they mature."

I one 100% relate to that statement.