haurni
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I've recently read two reviews for a book called Not Gay: Sex Between Straight White Men (here and here). I haven't read it, and I don't know if it explicitly treats the supposedly-cis-het-male interest in trans women, but it does touch on issues of gay and straight identity, which seems to be a critical point. One reviewer addresses the role of disgust, and how man-on-man sex is somehow acceptable as long as the participants continue to express their distaste for anything gay (and don't, god help them, take any sort of subordinate, 'unmanly', position!). Thus all the jokes about how "It's not gay if you don't push back" or "if you don't kiss" or whatever (which in actuality just serve to circumscribe what's permissible for a straight man vs a gay man). So, while somewhat suspect, I think it still falls within the realm of 'acceptable straight behaviour' - as currently defined by our society - to like cock if it's attached to a woman.
It's interesting what mental contortions people will get themselves into to justify their sexual desires.
It's interesting what mental contortions people will get themselves into to justify their sexual desires.