CocksuckingSub81
Experienced
- Joined
- Jan 1, 2015
- Posts
- 52
I am a submissive female who has just begun exploring the lifestyle after years of denying my needs and desires. My only source of information has been stories. I have become an online sub to a married man. I wonder if anyone else has any experience with this? While i desire to be completely and totally submissive sexually, he has started giving me commands that have nothing to do with sex. And while I recognize that he is giving me these commands to try to protect me, I feel that I must maintain some boundaries in order to protect myself emotionally. Being newly submissive, I feel especially vulnerable and already have begun to feel a connection with him. I do not feel I can allow him to control other aspects of my life and maintain the distance and perspective that I need.
Today he ordered me to find a social event to attend or a group to join this weekend. (I am new to the area and haven't met many people yet.) He became very angry when I told him that I had only agreed to submit sexually. He told me I had to use my safe word if I felt I could not obey him. I tried to explain to him that I needed to keep some distance, but he was insistent that I must either obey or use my safe word. I did not agree because I felt that if I used a safe word, it was acknowledging that he had the right to control other aspects of my life.
Any input????
Today he ordered me to find a social event to attend or a group to join this weekend. (I am new to the area and haven't met many people yet.) He became very angry when I told him that I had only agreed to submit sexually. He told me I had to use my safe word if I felt I could not obey him. I tried to explain to him that I needed to keep some distance, but he was insistent that I must either obey or use my safe word. I did not agree because I felt that if I used a safe word, it was acknowledging that he had the right to control other aspects of my life.
Any input????