SexyBlonde2015

Hi everyone!

It's strange how emotions can hit you without warning. I picked up the death certificates for my dad today. No big deal, right? Burst into tears when I got back into the car. Surprised me.

Ekserb....you are so right. No matter what people say or what their profile shows, until one is in bed you never know exactly what will happen. Plus, everyone thinks swingers play with everyone they meet for hours on end at the drop of a hat. That it's one endless orgy. This couldn't be further from the truth. In almost 5 years, I can say that there are 3 men that I really enjoyed playing with and want to do so again.

It's becoming more about the fun open flirty environment over the actual sex.

Crash....Yes, they are pretty experienced.

Here are some more black....lol... guess I need to say nude. The black disappeared!

http://imgur.com/a/WnWpf

Very nice. It looks like you were enjoying the moment with your hand on your pussy
 
That is more than annoying and you have every right to be angry. Communication is so important yet it seems like people will lie to push their own agenda. We put a toe into the Lifestyle once and it was a bit of a disappointment to say the least. We were explicitly clear with the other couple, who we had met socially a few times prior to trying to play, that we were only interested in we watch you, you watch us. No 'well maybes' or 'if it clicks' but explicitly 'we want to get naked and have sex with our own partners while we watch each other'. Well we start getting naked and boom, these people are expecting full swap. WTF? What did you think once we started we would toss our limits out the window?

As you would expect it ended poorly. It honestly soured us on the idea of trying again. I completely agree that this should be about YOU. You're sexy as fuck and from reading your stories a very interesting and funny individual.
 
Good morning everyone!

Bob_Waters.... I'm so sorry you had that experience. I'm also sorry it ruined the lifestyle for you.. The best I can offer for advice is laugh it off and realize not everyone is that way.

We have met the most wonderful and caring people that we consider our best friends in the lifestyle. Our friendships have transcended the lifestyle...we know their kids, parents and share vanilla times with them as well.

Early on, we had an experience with a couple we call "divide and conquer". They said she was bi and wanted to be with a woman. As soon as we got naked, she turned to me and said "by the way, I don't like women". Seriously. They took us to a room with 2 blow up mattresses on the floor. She took MrSB to one and he took me to the other. It was laughable how bad the sex was. The guy I was with screamed a primal scream that shook the windows when he came. Scared me and MrSB to almost to death! MrSB couldn't get hard with her. It became clear that he wanted sex with me and used her as bait. Plus she looked LOTS better with clothes on.

The best part of that night was the next day. We talked for hours about the experience and since I had been the one on the websites looking at couples' profiles, I told him he needed to get more involved so he's sure he's attracted to the woman.

MrSB summed it up like this: it was like taking a Lexus into the shop for maintenance and given a 1972 Ford Pinto as a loaner.

So bottom line, even the bad experiences are good in that it gets us to talk and change our expectations and what we want and to be more definitive about it all. The good has far outweighed the laughable.

But boy do I have stories! lol

This next set of photos should (maybe?) appeal to the voyeur. We live in a very private neighborhood so I went outside the front door naked. I took them through my screen door looking outside. Hope you like.

http://imgur.com/a/nTFco
 
Good morning everyone!

Bob_Waters.... I'm so sorry you had that experience. I'm also sorry it ruined the lifestyle for you.. The best I can offer for advice is laugh it off and realize not everyone is that way.

We have met the most wonderful and caring people that we consider our best friends in the lifestyle. Our friendships have transcended the lifestyle...we know their kids, parents and share vanilla times with them as well.

Early on, we had an experience with a couple we call "divide and conquer". They said she was bi and wanted to be with a woman. As soon as we got naked, she turned to me and said "by the way, I don't like women". Seriously. They took us to a room with 2 blow up mattresses on the floor. She took MrSB to one and he took me to the other. It was laughable how bad the sex was. The guy I was with screamed a primal scream that shook the windows when he came. Scared me and MrSB to almost to death! MrSB couldn't get hard with her. It became clear that he wanted sex with me and used her as bait. Plus she looked LOTS better with clothes on.

The best part of that night was the next day. We talked for hours about the experience and since I had been the one on the websites looking at couples' profiles, I told him he needed to get more involved so he's sure he's attracted to the woman.

MrSB summed it up like this: it was like taking a Lexus into the shop for maintenance and given a 1972 Ford Pinto as a loaner.

So bottom line, even the bad experiences are good in that it gets us to talk and change our expectations and what we want and to be more definitive about it all. The good has far outweighed the laughable.

But boy do I have stories! lol

This next set of photos should (maybe?) appeal to the voyeur. We live in a very private neighborhood so I went outside the front door naked. I took them through my screen door looking outside. Hope you like.

http://imgur.com/a/nTFco

Holy hell! Love this set... love that sexy woman on the patio... damn. Here I was going to try to be productive today. LOL.
 
Good morning everyone!

Bob_Waters.... I'm so sorry you had that experience. I'm also sorry it ruined the lifestyle for you.. The best I can offer for advice is laugh it off and realize not everyone is that way.

We have met the most wonderful and caring people that we consider our best friends in the lifestyle. Our friendships have transcended the lifestyle...we know their kids, parents and share vanilla times with them as well.

Early on, we had an experience with a couple we call "divide and conquer". They said she was bi and wanted to be with a woman. As soon as we got naked, she turned to me and said "by the way, I don't like women". Seriously. They took us to a room with 2 blow up mattresses on the floor. She took MrSB to one and he took me to the other. It was laughable how bad the sex was. The guy I was with screamed a primal scream that shook the windows when he came. Scared me and MrSB to almost to death! MrSB couldn't get hard with her. It became clear that he wanted sex with me and used her as bait. Plus she looked LOTS better with clothes on.

The best part of that night was the next day. We talked for hours about the experience and since I had been the one on the websites looking at couples' profiles, I told him he needed to get more involved so he's sure he's attracted to the woman.

MrSB summed it up like this: it was like taking a Lexus into the shop for maintenance and given a 1972 Ford Pinto as a loaner.

So bottom line, even the bad experiences are good in that it gets us to talk and change our expectations and what we want and to be more definitive about it all. The good has far outweighed the laughable.

But boy do I have stories! lol

This next set of photos should (maybe?) appeal to the voyeur. We live in a very private neighborhood so I went outside the front door naked. I took them through my screen door looking outside. Hope you like.

http://imgur.com/a/nTFco

I love how open and direct you are, about your experiences, SB! *EG* Love the pictures of your smoking hot body too! :devil::devil::rose:
 

Ekserb....you are so right. No matter what people say or what their profile shows, until one is in bed you never know exactly what will happen. Plus, everyone thinks swingers play with everyone they meet for hours on end at the drop of a hat. That it's one endless orgy. This couldn't be further from the truth. In almost 5 years, I can say that there are 3 men that I really enjoyed playing with and want to do so again.

It's becoming more about the fun open flirty environment over the actual sex.

Yeah, that's the way we treated it near the end: it was just fun to be able to say anything to anyone else at the party without someone losing their mind over the lack of social mores.
 
Love the voyeur photos. Those, to me, are far more erotic than the plain nudes. (And I like the use of natural light way more than the flash you've used in other images.)
 
Good morning everyone!

Bob_Waters.... I'm so sorry you had that experience. I'm also sorry it ruined the lifestyle for you.. The best I can offer for advice is laugh it off and realize not everyone is that way.

We have met the most wonderful and caring people that we consider our best friends in the lifestyle. Our friendships have transcended the lifestyle...we know their kids, parents and share vanilla times with them as well.

Early on, we had an experience with a couple we call "divide and conquer". They said she was bi and wanted to be with a woman. As soon as we got naked, she turned to me and said "by the way, I don't like women". Seriously. They took us to a room with 2 blow up mattresses on the floor. She took MrSB to one and he took me to the other. It was laughable how bad the sex was. The guy I was with screamed a primal scream that shook the windows when he came. Scared me and MrSB to almost to death! MrSB couldn't get hard with her. It became clear that he wanted sex with me and used her as bait. Plus she looked LOTS better with clothes on.

The best part of that night was the next day. We talked for hours about the experience and since I had been the one on the websites looking at couples' profiles, I told him he needed to get more involved so he's sure he's attracted to the woman.

MrSB summed it up like this: it was like taking a Lexus into the shop for maintenance and given a 1972 Ford Pinto as a loaner.

So bottom line, even the bad experiences are good in that it gets us to talk and change our expectations and what we want and to be more definitive about it all. The good has far outweighed the laughable.

But boy do I have stories! lol

This next set of photos should (maybe?) appeal to the voyeur. We live in a very private neighborhood so I went outside the front door naked. I took them through my screen door looking outside. Hope you like.

http://imgur.com/a/nTFco

OH yes, I remember that photo shoot. I was in the bushes taking pictures. Sorry I broke your cactus plant. But man, does a prick on the prick ever hurt. OUCH!
 
Good morning everyone!

Bob_Waters.... I'm so sorry you had that experience. I'm also sorry it ruined the lifestyle for you.. The best I can offer for advice is laugh it off and realize not everyone is that way.

We have met the most wonderful and caring people that we consider our best friends in the lifestyle. Our friendships have transcended the lifestyle...we know their kids, parents and share vanilla times with them as well.

Early on, we had an experience with a couple we call "divide and conquer". They said she was bi and wanted to be with a woman. As soon as we got naked, she turned to me and said "by the way, I don't like women". Seriously. They took us to a room with 2 blow up mattresses on the floor. She took MrSB to one and he took me to the other. It was laughable how bad the sex was. The guy I was with screamed a primal scream that shook the windows when he came. Scared me and MrSB to almost to death! MrSB couldn't get hard with her. It became clear that he wanted sex with me and used her as bait. Plus she looked LOTS better with clothes on.

The best part of that night was the next day. We talked for hours about the experience and since I had been the one on the websites looking at couples' profiles, I told him he needed to get more involved so he's sure he's attracted to the woman.

MrSB summed it up like this: it was like taking a Lexus into the shop for maintenance and given a 1972 Ford Pinto as a loaner.

So bottom line, even the bad experiences are good in that it gets us to talk and change our expectations and what we want and to be more definitive about it all. The good has far outweighed the laughable.

But boy do I have stories! lol

This next set of photos should (maybe?) appeal to the voyeur. We live in a very private neighborhood so I went outside the front door naked. I took them through my screen door looking outside. Hope you like.

http://imgur.com/a/nTFco



I would so like to be your UPS man, stopping at your house each day
even if you did not have a delivery......

sexy, hot pics, thank you so much for sharing

MM
 
Hi everyone!

Well this is funny. The wife of the couple I was talking about texted me today. She basically said they really enjoyed meeting us and were very attracted to us. She would like to keep in touch and wants me to be a mentor of sorts. So I said sure!

Maleman...My ups driver is a nice guy! He's seen me in tank tops with no bras on. I give him homemade turtles I make every Christmas.

Skowt...that was YOU? Dammit, I loved that cactus!

Ekserb...thanks! I do too but am still learning the new camera. I need to get my studio light and play with the lighting. If I"m not using the flash, the image is too dark for inside shots.

Overbatum.... Don't believe so. Our front entry is very private and there are no house fronts or driveways across from us. I'm pretty cautious.

Thank you to everyone who posted a comment!

I'm back on the stairs....
http://imgur.com/a/l32X1
 
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Hi everyone!

Well this is funny. The wife of the couple I was talking about texted me today. She basically said they really enjoyed meeting us and were very attracted to us. She would like to keep in touch and wants me to be a mentor of sorts. So I said sure!

Maleman...My ups driver is a nice guy! He's seen me in tank tops with no bras on. I give him homemade turtles I make every Christmas.

Skowt...that was YOU? Dammit, I loved that cactus!

Ekserb...thanks! I do too but am still learning the new camera. I need to get my studio light and play with the lighting. If I"m not using the flash, the image is too dark for inside shots.

Overbatum.... Don't believe so. Our front entry is very private and there are no house fronts or driveways across from us. I'm pretty cautious.

Thank you to everyone who posted a comment!

I'm back on the stairs....
http://imgur.com/a/l32X1

Good Evening Mrs. SB. Just wanted to say that I am sorry for your loss. I haven't said much on your posts because I feel I am just mostly lurking on your page, but I feel obligated to say thank you for your posts and your respectfully erotic and classy showings. As I said. Thank you for the pleasure of viewing your beauty and your sensual sharing. Please keep enjoying what you do to help the rest of us enjoy you as well. :rose:
 
Wow, I'm so glad I stumbled upon your thread. You're absolutely stunning!
 
Thanks

Just a quick thank you for your willingness to share yourself with all of us. And to note that from the last photo it appears that you were seriously getting into the session. Wish I had been there to help with any cleanup needed!
http://imgur.com/a/l32X1
 
Hi everyone!

Well this is funny. The wife of the couple I was talking about texted me today. She basically said they really enjoyed meeting us and were very attracted to us. She would like to keep in touch and wants me to be a mentor of sorts. So I said sure!

Maleman...My ups driver is a nice guy! He's seen me in tank tops with no bras on. I give him homemade turtles I make every Christmas.

Skowt...that was YOU? Dammit, I loved that cactus!

Ekserb...thanks! I do too but am still learning the new camera. I need to get my studio light and play with the lighting. If I"m not using the flash, the image is too dark for inside shots.

Overbatum.... Don't believe so. Our front entry is very private and there are no house fronts or driveways across from us. I'm pretty cautious.

Thank you to everyone who posted a comment!

I'm back on the stairs....
http://imgur.com/a/l32X1

What a beautiful and sexy woman!!! :devil::rose::rose:
 
SB....Thank you for all the sexy sets at home. I love being the voyeur peeking through your screen door, but also seeing you on the staircase. The last set in particular is so arousing. Did you continue playing on the stairs until you climaxed? Have you ever had sex on the stairs? I couldnt help but imagine pleasing you orally while you reclined there and spread your legs!
Sure wish we were closer and in your circle of swingers. :rose:
 
Hi everyone!

Well this is funny. The wife of the couple I was talking about texted me today. She basically said they really enjoyed meeting us and were very attracted to us. She would like to keep in touch and wants me to be a mentor of sorts. So I said sure!

Maleman...My ups driver is a nice guy! He's seen me in tank tops with no bras on. I give him homemade turtles I make every Christmas.

Skowt...that was YOU? Dammit, I loved that cactus!

Ekserb...thanks! I do too but am still learning the new camera. I need to get my studio light and play with the lighting. If I"m not using the flash, the image is too dark for inside shots.

Overbatum.... Don't believe so. Our front entry is very private and there are no house fronts or driveways across from us. I'm pretty cautious.

Thank you to everyone who posted a comment!

I'm back on the stairs....
http://imgur.com/a/l32X1

more beautiful photos
 
Good morning!
Thank you! I really appreciate your comments.

I've mentioned that I'm also on another site. What continues to amaze me is these are basically porn sites. But the warmth and friendships that can arise are amazing. We all have baggage to deal with. Most of the time we keep things to ourselves. On these sites, there is so much more openness and sharing than I ever dreamed possible. I would never have guessed it would be that way.

Thank you for your pm's and comments about my dad's passing, the death cert and all the emotions that go with that. It means a lot.

These coffee pics I took yesterday are not the best. I was experimenting with the camera and am not happy with how they turned out.

Something tells me you don't mind being guinea pigs as I experiment? lol I'll get better, I promise!

ummmm.....if you have been able to tell already, I am a bit of a perfectionist. MrSB says I'm nutty ocd. I prefer discerning. lol...ok, maybe a little nutty ocd. But I'm not as bad as he is with keeping the tupperware organized!


I didn't not have an orgasm on the stairs. I moved to my comfy bed and had a very nice one with my favorite vibrator called Athena.

http://imgur.com/a/IeoBJ
 
Incredibly sexy.
But let's face it, well organized tupperware can be a real turn-on for you chicks. Not to mention us guys doing the laundry or cleaning the kitchen.
 
Good morning!
Thank you! I really appreciate your comments.

I've mentioned that I'm also on another site. What continues to amaze me is these are basically porn sites. But the warmth and friendships that can arise are amazing. We all have baggage to deal with. Most of the time we keep things to ourselves. On these sites, there is so much more openness and sharing than I ever dreamed possible. I would never have guessed it would be that way.

Thank you for your pm's and comments about my dad's passing, the death cert and all the emotions that go with that. It means a lot.

These coffee pics I took yesterday are not the best. I was experimenting with the camera and am not happy with how they turned out.

Something tells me you don't mind being guinea pigs as I experiment? lol I'll get better, I promise!

ummmm.....if you have been able to tell already, I am a bit of a perfectionist. MrSB says I'm nutty ocd. I prefer discerning. lol...ok, maybe a little nutty ocd. But I'm not as bad as he is with keeping the tupperware organized!


I didn't not have an orgasm on the stairs. I moved to my comfy bed and had a very nice one with my favorite vibrator called Athena.

http://imgur.com/a/IeoBJ

What I really like is your natural look. Even though the photos are posed they don't really look it. I just love to see your nipples poking through your top in this set.
 
Hi everyone!

Well this is funny. The wife of the couple I was talking about texted me today. She basically said they really enjoyed meeting us and were very attracted to us. She would like to keep in touch and wants me to be a mentor of sorts. So I said sure!

Maleman...My ups driver is a nice guy! He's seen me in tank tops with no bras on. I give him homemade turtles I make every Christmas.

Skowt...that was YOU? Dammit, I loved that cactus!

Ekserb...thanks! I do too but am still learning the new camera. I need to get my studio light and play with the lighting. If I"m not using the flash, the image is too dark for inside shots.

Overbatum.... Don't believe so. Our front entry is very private and there are no house fronts or driveways across from us. I'm pretty cautious.

Thank you to everyone who posted a comment!

I'm back on the stairs....
http://imgur.com/a/l32X1

I'll just sit here and stare at you there on the stairs.
 
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