sprincess1990
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- Oct 5, 2014
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So... When I first starting exploring BDSM, I thought what interested me was simply the exchange of power...
I figured my submission stemmed centrally from a need to please others, and a desire to let go of my control.
More recently I've been looking into the sadist/masochist element of BDSM. What's really interested me is how uncommon it is to talk to someone who considers themselves a true sadist. Someone who genuinely takes pleasure in inflicting actual bodily pain on another person. I've met plenty of Dom/me s who enjoy being in control... Plenty who enjoy humiliation... But I'm not sure I've really spoken to someone who enjoys genuine, controlled infliction of pain on another person.
I don't really know yet if I'm actually masochistic or whether it's something that just intrigues me... But I'm interested in understanding whether sadism is common in BDSM and I just happen to have not spoken to the right people, or if it's actually just more of a common misconception of the BDSM lifestyle, and a more unusual element...
And if any one happens to stumble upon this post that considers themselves sadistic... What is it about inflicting pain that you enjoy? That's probably a really rubbish open question... But.. It's out there now
Princess xx
I figured my submission stemmed centrally from a need to please others, and a desire to let go of my control.
More recently I've been looking into the sadist/masochist element of BDSM. What's really interested me is how uncommon it is to talk to someone who considers themselves a true sadist. Someone who genuinely takes pleasure in inflicting actual bodily pain on another person. I've met plenty of Dom/me s who enjoy being in control... Plenty who enjoy humiliation... But I'm not sure I've really spoken to someone who enjoys genuine, controlled infliction of pain on another person.
I don't really know yet if I'm actually masochistic or whether it's something that just intrigues me... But I'm interested in understanding whether sadism is common in BDSM and I just happen to have not spoken to the right people, or if it's actually just more of a common misconception of the BDSM lifestyle, and a more unusual element...
And if any one happens to stumble upon this post that considers themselves sadistic... What is it about inflicting pain that you enjoy? That's probably a really rubbish open question... But.. It's out there now
Princess xx
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