Scentofawoman
shifting my paradigms
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Money makes love comfortable. I think it comes to communication about money.
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I wouldn't kick you out of bed or the house!!!
And now we see southerncharm77's real motive appear before us Lol
I don't know that there's a right answer for that?
I guess I didn't answer the question, but to me it's like "Which came first, the chicken or the egg?" There's no good answer
Even if I ate crackers in bed??? Haha
For me hands down...LOVE it is...
But honestly, It is indeed hard to be objective when you have an abundance of one or both...
Poppadog- I was asked to provide or leave....
I've recently been made aware of a tricky situation that makes me ask myself- when considering your happiness and a future together- which is more important- Love or Money?... and which is EASIER to find???? Just curious as to the responses ill get....
Money makes love comfortable. I think it comes to communication about money.
Quoted for truth...
I believe that love, however unconditional, is hard to maintain if you do not have consensus about your attitude to money...it's a fundamental in life and cannot be ignored...if you have wildly differing beliefs about either, then there is an inequality that oftentimes cannot be overcome which will eventually destroy love no matter how true, deep or unconditional...
Way to kill a mood
You're right but all the money in the world will not buy you happiness if there is no love.
M
Way to kill a mood
You're right but all the money in the world will not buy you happiness if there is no love.
M
Not my intention to kill the mood...I can add a picture of a fluffy kitty to counterbalance if you like...
It depends on your definition of happiness to be frank...some people would find that the lack of fear that often comes with a degree of financial security might equate to a degree of happiness...
...but as someone who is deeply in love, I agree...but then I have worked all my life to ensure my own security and neither of us depend on the other financially so it's easy for me to seperate the two...if our circumstances change, I'd like to believe that our feelings wouldn't but in the face of the struggle to survive, all love is irrevoceably affected...it's why the communication mentioned previously and consensus is so important...
Fair point but is there not an argument that the opposite scenario will ultimately result in the same??
You can be short of money and happy but having the resources to feed the spirit is also fairly vital.
I dream of being a professional footballer but realistically speaking it ain't gonna happen! Doesn't mean I can't sustain the dream in my own head.
Nothislady- that is a perfect response and I will use some of that when I explain why I'm not going to stay. Choosing self respect should always be first.In my opinion, and with due respect, being given an ultimatum like that means that the love was one sided to begin with.
You didn't choose love or money--you chose self respect.
Love doesn't ask you to choose.
Fortunes may be won and lost a dozen times over.
Love is much harder to find and harder to lose but once lost it is far harder to win again.
I like this answer also.In my opinion, and with due respect, being given an ultimatum like that means that the love was one sided to begin with.
You didn't choose love or money--you chose self respect.
Love doesn't ask you to choose.
Fortunes may be won and lost a dozen times over.
Love is much harder to find and harder to lose but once lost it is far harder to win again.
Ok - funny people- Im NOT an axe murderer....
He makes a very good living and was asking me to bring the same to the table.... Even though I would be leaving my job and relocating 1200 miles. In my opinion I could certainly pay my fair share- never needing a dime of his money... What I don't understand is why the high bar and just what am I expected to finance? The whole situation is very strange to me.