Married but bi curious. Am I alone?

lustatopia said:

Well, obviously a married guy having cock sucking fantasies is imaging gay sex. But the difference is that married guys who have gay sex fantasies are not necessarily gay in the sense that they are not the full monty gay. They often still want and need to retain heterosexual relationship(s). This is where the bisexual tag comes into play.

Strictly speaking to be bisexual means to be able to be sexually aroused by either men or women, but the circumstances under which such arousal can occur may vary dramatically.

For instance, I am often aroused when I see a hot babe at the grocery store. As a man, I naturally want to look her up and down. (I usually refrain from it out of fear of being offensive, of course.) However, I almost never look at guys while in the mall shopping. I don't "see" guys like that. I can attend a poker game with my buddies from work and never once think, hey, wouldn't it be fun if we all ditched the card game, got naked and fuck?

But put me in at the right bar after a few drinks on the right night and I might well find myself making out with a guy and later going down on him big time. I've been sucking cock all my life.

I am not going to fall in love with a guy and want to marry him. I love my wife and am happily married. Fortunately, she knows I am bisexual and it turns her on, so we share the totality of our sexual lives together.

Bisexuals are capable of having both gay and straight sex, no matter what the identity they present at work or school or to their families.

As for nature versus nurture: For me it is both. By nature I was a super horny kid who was always jacking off and starting circle jerks when I could. So later when someone much more experience taught me about cock sucking, I was OK with it, even though I wasn't really attracted to the male body and worried about being beat up or worse if caught out as queer. I always loved girls. But I was so horny that male to male sex aroused me too. Later, as I became more experienced I began to really appreciate the special kind of feeling only another guy can give. It's a very different sort of love than what a woman can provide.

I remember being in college trying to pick up girls at the local nightclubs. If that failed, and it did more often than not, then there were late late night scenes where I could always get gay sex.

Being bisexual is the best of both worlds. I can't imagine being exclusive gay or straight.

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mrdiscreetshh said:

It sounds more exciting to have a discreet male bisexual friend to indefinitely blow each others brains out rather than a fuck buddy, you have a guaranteed a hungry cock sucker wanting to either recieve and give. Most females aren't that intrigued by thoroughly pleasuring a cock. It's rare. But a thirsty man knows exactly what to do and will do it anywhere everyday!
Sigh....where are you buddy, I haven't found you :/

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PleasePeesMe said:

or know someone in Tasmania who would like to be sucked, ask them to PM me. Please.

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Imaverycuriousguy said:

I am in this boat, paddle in hand and my wife knows of my curiosity and supports the "fantasy". I want to dip the paddle and see where it takes us.

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DennisB said:

We wonder if any of the wives support their hubby's bi desires? If the shoe was on the other foot, most, but not all, men would jump at the chance to watch or even join in with their wives and another girl. Is it the other way around? We want to say no because men are more sexual than woman but on this site, i would say that it is pretty equal; the women on here have an equal if not higher sexual libido than men.
Has anyone asked their wives about this desire being scratched??

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deelite45 said:

I would love to explore my bi-curious side at least once... I would love to suck a cock. Just for the experience. and then, who knows!

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deelite45 said:

I would love to explore my bi-curious side at least once... I would love to suck a cock. Just for the experience. and then, who knows!

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SeeMyCarrie said:

I have not been with a man, but my wife pegs me regularly with varous strap-on cocks and I love it. I hunger to experience the real thing, but it seems so complicated to set it up and ensure safety. I wish I could just post a hotel room number and wait there ass-up.

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1960curious said:

That is how it starts, Just trying your first one and then you will want more!

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