Wife Swapping / Sharing / Foursome

SunnySundays said:

Hey all

Not sure if this is the right place to post this - apologies if not and Mods feel free to move if necessary!

Recent events have got me wondering about Wife Sharing / Foursomes / Group Activities etc...

Me and my wife are in our young 30s and some friends of ours, also in their young 30s, seem like they may be heading towards suggesting some "group" activities together. There have been some jokes made, initially made whilst drunk, but now made much more frequently and without alcohol's involvement! These "jokes" also seem to be getting very specific.

They are an attractive couple and there are elements of the idea that are somewhat of a turn on, but I can't seem to shake the ideas of jealousy and the thought that it was just be very awkward for everyone from that moment onwards!

I've read some threads on here where guys / gals are hugely turned on by the thought of their spouses having sex with others...

So, given this is the sexuality and fetish board, I thought I'd ask what aspects of Wife Sharing / Wife Swapping / Foursomes / Group Sex are a turn on?

For those who actively participate in such activities or have previously... How did you start out? Did you have any concerns / fears that turned out to be unnecessary or were they right???

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4yourpleasureiam said:

Been there done that. Not the jealousy part but the sharing. I do not like the term wife swapping as that makes it sound as if it is only for the husbands enjoyment to fuck some one other than their wife. When we did it we sat with our friends and set some ground rules The rule was if anyone did not feel comfortable then it was a no go . For us it was a good experience and we did continue until our friend had a accident and was not comfortable after that. I do think it is something the women really need to control. I also thing that in my case the wives set it up. I went along because my wife had never been with another man and the friend had been trying to seduce me for a few months. It can be fun if all agree 100%

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SubmissiveMom said:

I first took part in a threesome with my ex hubby at his request and after much chat I agreed and we planned an evening where I would hostess for them in underwear as they watched a porn video x the video was one of a woman playing hostess to her hubby and friend while they watched a porn video, lol x

Was so much fun and I had the most wonderful sex, pleasing and pleasuring both at the same time, was amazing x one thing leads to another and I ended up in a MMMF foursome, which was even more amazing but began to doubt if he loved me anymore x

Then the Swinger scene. parties, I loved the sex and the attention of all the guys but not him, he started to get a bigger turn-on from watching me satisfy gangs of strangers and I just didn't love him anymore x

Next, I fell in love with one of the 'strangers' who was fucking me, we started meeting privately and hubby found out x No more hubby, now ex and he blames me, lol x

I enjoyed every experience, no matter how extreme and learned a lot sexually, loved the attention and the thrill of so many guys wanting me x

Its fun and adventurous to get involved in this scene but takes a very strong and devoted guy to watch his woman suck and fuck other guys without getting jealous and once the jealousy creeps in it's all over, so think carefully x x x

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SunnySundays said:

Hey all

Not sure if this is the right place to post this - apologies if not and Mods feel free to move if necessary!

Recent events have got me wondering about Wife Sharing / Foursomes / Group Activities etc...

Me and my wife are in our young 30s and some friends of ours, also in their young 30s, seem like they may be heading towards suggesting some "group" activities together. There have been some jokes made, initially made whilst drunk, but now made much more frequently and without alcohol's involvement! These "jokes" also seem to be getting very specific.

They are an attractive couple and there are elements of the idea that are somewhat of a turn on, but I can't seem to shake the ideas of jealousy and the thought that it was just be very awkward for everyone from that moment onwards!

I've read some threads on here where guys / gals are hugely turned on by the thought of their spouses having sex with others...

So, given this is the sexuality and fetish board, I thought I'd ask what aspects of Wife Sharing / Wife Swapping / Foursomes / Group Sex are a turn on?

For those who actively participate in such activities or have previously... How did you start out? Did you have any concerns / fears that turned out to be unnecessary or were they right???

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4yourpleasureiam said:

Been there done that. When we did it we sat with our friends and set some ground rules The rule was if anyone did not feel comfortable then it was a no go . For us it was a good experience and we did continue until our friend had a accident and was not comfortable after that. I do think it is something the women really need to control. I also thing that in my case the wives set it up. I went along because my wife had never been with another man and the friend had been trying to seduce me for a few months. It can be fun if all agree 100%

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