eroticman61
Really Really Experienced
- Joined
- Apr 30, 2012
- Posts
- 497
great story. eventually the trust will return. keep the fires burning!!!!I have cheated. Well I guess it depends on what you consider cheating. I got a blowjob from a one nighter, I definitely consider that cheating. The guilt almost killed me, I confessed the very next morning. We are still together although I now live with the constant surveillance, guilt, regret and fear of her doing it to me.
The one positive, I cheated because I felt very ignored, unloved, undesired, and my sex life as a married guy was non-existent. After the incident, my reservations are gone. I've been totally honest about my desires and fantasies and my wife is suddenly more than willing to comply. I’ve gone from face to face passion-less sex to the two of us sucking a dildo while making love so maybe there is some gain from the situation.