Bachelor and bachelorette parties and cheating

[gtnlynn]

We are more flexible. Condoms are desirable but not essential, and sex isn't restricted to a one-night stand. We have both had sex with mutual friends but in a swinging scenario, and we love to talk but not every detail, just the notable things outside the norm.

It worked for us. She had sex with others in our 30's and none since turning 40.

 

[luckyseven]

It worked for us. She had sex with others in our 30's and none since turning 40.

That's the important bit - if it works for you, then no issue. I always thought it was good for our relationship to give my wife some sexual freedom and have no issues with her having sex with other guys. But, like you, I do enjoy her telling me about her adventures.

 

[gtnlynn]

That's the important bit - if it works for you, then no issue. I always thought it was good for our relationship to give my wife some sexual freedom and have no issues with her having sex with other guys. But, like you, I do enjoy her telling me about her adventures.

My wife ha a lot of sex her first two years in college, which I suspected, but which she denied. I'm glad she lied at the time because I might have done something stupid like leaving her. When she told me about it after we married, she emphasized that it was just sex, no romantic attachments. That made me willing to let her do it later. Now I can enjoy the stories from college and more recently.

 

[luckyseven]

My wife ha a lot of sex her first two years in college, which I suspected, but which she denied. I'm glad she lied at the time because I might have done something stupid like leaving her. When she told me about it after we married, she emphasized that it was just sex, no romantic attachments. That made me willing to let her do it later. Now I can enjoy the stories from college and more recently.

We enjoy telling each other about our adventures—it often leads to a great night in bed, when we can recreate those memories!

 

[gtnlynn]

We enjoy telling each other about our adventures—it often leads to a great night in bed, when we can recreate those memories!

Same here. Lynn and I started dating when we were 15 but did not have sex with each other until our wedding night. That was my call, not hers. She was ready sooner.

 

[luckyseven]

Same here. Lynn and I started dating when we were 15 but did not have sex with each other until our wedding night. That was my call, not hers. She was ready sooner.

We didn't wait for our wedding night; my wife was much more experienced than me. I still don't know how many men she has been with, but it was in double figures before we met!

 

[BiDrew42]

I had sex at my bachelor's party so I guess I'm in the 36%. I also had sex at a friend's bachelor party with one of the other male guests.

 

[gtnlynn]

We didn't wait for our wedding night; my wife was much more experienced than me. I still don't know how many men she has been with, but it was in double figures before we met!

Since we started dating at 15, Lynn only had sex one time before we met. Her number in college was probably 10 or 12 men.

 

[luckyseven]

Since we started dating at 15, Lynn only had sex one time before we met. Her number in college was probably 10 or 12 men.

But probably most were just sexual one-night stands and nothing else. Women have similar needs as men, so it is really no big deal if your sexual history is well into double figures provided there is no deceit or jealousy. There is a difference between simple sexual pleasure and love.

 

[gtnlynn]

But probably most were just sexual one-night stands and nothing else. Women have similar needs as men, so it is really no big deal if your sexual history is well into double figures provided there is no deceit or jealousy. There is a difference between simple sexual pleasure and love.

True. Lynn made sure her "dates" knew about me and that their sex was just for fun. She dumped them if they got serious. Some were one-nighters and other relationships went on for weeks.

 

[luckyseven]

True. Lynn made sure her "dates" knew about me and that their sex was just for fun. She dumped them if they got serious. Some were one-nighters and other relationships went on for weeks.

That is how my wife approached it, a girls want to have and sometimes with variety.

 

[luvslingerie200]

Not that it matters, but this article was published last May and surveyed 6000 people. Most of the activities admitted to were “chaste” (their word): 33% cited lap dances, for example, though 11% said they slept with someone, 9% in a threesome.

IMO a lap dance is NOT cheating

 

[gtnlynn]

That is how my wife approached it, a girls want to have and sometimes with variety.

Yes. Since my wife and I only saw each other once or twice a month, it was only fair to let her date others. We finally stopped it during her junior year, and she didn't date anyone else. So she didn't have any sex from then until our wedding night, almost two years later.

 

[luckyseven]

Yes. Since my wife and I only saw each other once or twice a month, it was only fair to let her date others. We finally stopped it during her junior year, and she didn't date anyone else. So she didn't have any sex from then until our wedding night, almost two years later.

You have recognised your wife had and still has sexual needs. All too often men don't and wonder why when things go wrong.

 

[hiker283]

My wife ha a lot of sex her first two years in college, which I suspected, but which she denied. I'm glad she lied at the time because I might have done something stupid like leaving her. When she told me about it after we married, she emphasized that it was just sex, no romantic attachments. That made me willing to let her do it later. Now I can enjoy the stories from college and more recently.

My story with my wife is somewhat similar to yours. From the summer after my junior year until graduation I was in Indiana and she was back at the college we both met at. She ended up having sex with a guy she was spending time with that summer and then others during her senior year. I found out after we had been married some years when he college friend and senior year roommate let something slip when she was visiting us.

 

[gtnlynn]

My story with my wife is somewhat similar to yours. From the summer after my junior year until graduation I was in Indiana and she was back at the college we both met at. She ended up having sex with a guy she was spending time with that summer and then others during her senior year. I found out after we had been married some years when he college friend and senior year roommate let something slip when she was visiting us.

Sometimes it's good not to know. I finally asked her after we had been married a couple of years and she told me all about her sex life in college. It was fun since she was mine and all the other guys only had memories.

 

[HereForFun85]

I always thought the idea of my now wife getting wild at her Bachelorette party was super hot. She is normally pretty conservative, and thinking about the stuff you see in porn and what not is suuuuch a turn on.

 

[FlirtyWordy]

I'm so turned on by stories of brides-to-be cheating on their man, the closer to the wedding day, the better. Too bad there isn't a lot of porn or stories about that scenario.

 

[camburliyn]

IMO a lap dance is NOT cheating

Yeah, but it definitely needs to have a follow-up. Otherwise, it's not interesting when you've aroused and nothing happens afterward

 

[MichiganBiker27]

My very conservative ex-wife had her very slutty cousin arrainge a male stripper for her Bachelorette party. Ex-wife was not pleased ... slutty cousin ended up fucking him.

 

[screwher]

My very conservative ex-wife had her very slutty cousin arrainge a male stripper for her Bachelorette party. Ex-wife was not pleased ... slutty cousin ended up fucking him.

I would like one day for my wife and I to renew our vows. She would never want a bachelorette. But I like the idea of maybe hiring a male stripper for our own private party. A few days before our ceremony, he comes to our place. Seat my wife in our living room. Then he strips for her. Completely naked. His cock in her face and everything. And for a couple bucks extra, Mrs. Screwher and him continue the party up in our bedroom.