FantasyGir1
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BTW Keri ... LOVE the new avatar. I'm changing mineagain soon. LOL.
Thanks, Bella! I was happy when I found it! Can't wait to see yours!
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BTW Keri ... LOVE the new avatar. I'm changing mineagain soon. LOL.
Group hug for Keir; she could use it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Soooo thankful she landed safely and is Home safe and sound! I bet you're counting down the hours already and I'm thrilled for you both!
I understand your way of doing things. And I certainly don't believe the Daddy should do things first all the time. That's how it started (mostly cause he's 2hrs ahead of me) and seemed to fizzle quickly. But it's hard to send a text to someone you love (and set an alarm so I can send it before I know he has to leave for work) and not hear anything back for hours. If it's once in a while, no biggie, but it seems that it's becoming more and more regular.
There's more than just the communication, but I won't get into it here.
But thanks to all for the feedback so far!
Keri
Keri i'm so sorry to hear about this. It's a hard situation but if you are the only one making the effort and you've talked about your issues with him and it hasn't changed it for more then a few hours......well I don't think it's heading in a good place because I don't think you can do anything else.
Thank you everyone for the concern. I'm safe and sound. Just had to play nice with everyone and catch up before coming and letting my other family know i'm ok.
As Daddy said ours is a more unique situation but he texts me whenever he can and he sneaks them in even when he shouldn't. And I need that, it let's me know that i'm on his mind and important to him. It makes me feel loved and special.
I hope all that makes sense. I have horrid vertigo going on.
Soooo thankful she landed safely and is Home safe and sound! I bet you're counting down the hours already and I'm thrilled for you both!
I understand your way of doing things. And I certainly don't believe the Daddy should do things first all the time. That's how it started (mostly cause he's 2hrs ahead of me) and seemed to fizzle quickly. But it's hard to send a text to someone you love (and set an alarm so I can send it before I know he has to leave for work) and not hear anything back for hours. If it's once in a while, no biggie, but it seems that it's becoming more and more regular.
There's more than just the communication, but I won't get into it here.
But thanks to all for the feedback so far!
Keri
Thank you to all Daddies and baby girls out there for your support. TT has arrived in Australia and has passed customs and is now at her house. Which means.......... 3 more sleeps till she's in my arms again arms again arms again arms again!!!!!! Not that excited or anything.... BIG GRIN
Keri i'm so sorry to hear about this. It's a hard situation but if you are the only one making the effort and you've talked about your issues with him and it hasn't changed it for more then a few hours......well I don't think it's heading in a good place because I don't think you can do anything else.
Thank you everyone for the concern. I'm safe and sound. Just had to play nice with everyone and catch up before coming and letting my other family know i'm ok.
As Daddy said ours is a more unique situation but he texts me whenever he can and he sneaks them in even when he shouldn't. And I need that, it let's me know that i'm on his mind and important to him. It makes me feel loved and special.
I hope all that makes sense. I have horrid vertigo going on.
How did I miss this one....DOH! Glad you are home safe and sound!
Wow off Lit for a few hours and had to go back a page to catch up again
Sis TT glad your home safe and sound . . . hope your vertigo passes quickly
TT - So glad to hear that you're home safe and sound - sorry to hear about the vertigo. It's only happened to me once flying but the time that it did was awful. Fortunately a little nap managed to bring everything back to an even keel again.
How did I miss this one....DOH! Glad you are home safe and sound!
TT, so happy you made it home!! Hope you are feeling better after a good nights rest in your own, comfy bed!
Keri..I'm sorry. You know that I love you and I am here for you. We ALL are! Call me ANYTIME!! I love you!!
I agree with everyone else that it MUST be give and take for it work..like any relationship. I can be quite needy and sometimes demanding, but I always tried/try to make their efforts worth it so Daddy feels as special as he makes me feel. Lots more to say on this, but I would just be an echo.
I know how you feel and I'm beginning to question some things too. The texts seem to be getting fewer and farther between. He says he loves me and adores me, and but words only go so far. We've also discussed this, so he knows how I feel. I can see ways he's really trying to prove, but other ways it's getting worse. On top of that I'm a very physical person and with him in Chicago and me in Seattle (with no plans to visit any time soon in the works), that's a bit discouraging as well.
I desperately want this to work, but how long do I hang on? He's my first Daddy so I love him dearly and he holds a pretty special place in my heart.
Thank you to my wonderful family for all your support. Daddy and I talked at length tonight about so many things, and I feel like a lot of kinks were worked out. Thank you to those of you who helped me to realize that it isn't always feasible to talk constantly throughout the day, every day.
In talking, I learned a LOT about myself. Or rather, things I learned years ago but never had to to admit to it. It was extremely hard to admit to both myself, and to Daddy, but at the same time it was kind of freeing.
Anyway, I know this is a vague description of what happened, but I truly believe if we keep communicating the way we did tonight, we can make it!
Thank you again for all your support and encouraging words!
Keri
Thank you so much, Peaches for all your encouragement, kind words, and support!"Sending you (((Hugs))) and "
Daddy C, What I discovered last night was something I learned 7 or 8 years back in counseling. It’s never been a real big issue, but the more Daddy and I texted, the more I realized I was doing the exact thing I learned to watch out for! To make a long story short, I’ve had this hole in me that I’ve desperately been trying to fill and expected Daddy to fill the entire thing. In reality, I’ve been unhappy with my life for quite some time, so I had to really examine ME and why I’ve been unhappy. I’ve got a lot of things to work on, but I no longer expect one person to completely fill that void. And you're right, life is far too short to worry about a lot of this stuff! We're still new together, he's my first Daddy, so not only am I learning, but we're learning together!Don't you Hate it when someone else sees the truth about yourself before you do....? I'm glad you guys are sorting things out. We've had our 'discussions' over time and i feel that we've both learnt a lot about ourselves and each other. Have faith in you and your daddy babygirl. Life is too short to worry like that.
Cookie, can’t WAIT to talk to you about how YOUR evening went, and to give you more details regarding my conversation with Daddy! Hurry up and get down from Walmart!!! Love you more!Keri..can't wait to talk to you later!!! Sorry I fell aslseep last night. Love you lots!! Add my hugs & 's to Peaches!
Daddy Stan, I know you were mostly referring to the weather, but your first statement rings so true about every relationship on here being different. I’m so glad I asked for others advice last night, because I realized that not everyone texts 24/7. As great as that would be, in Daddy’s line of work, it just isn’t possible.Just as different as the relationships are here, so are the choices of morning "wake-me-ups"....