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John Blackhawk
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well any tasks you give this "cyber sub" should be backed up with emailed photographic evidence.
MeekMe
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Why do you need to test this person and why would you want to destroy their stated boundaries? Limits and boundaries exist for a reason. You two should probably talk about what it is you both expect.
John Blackhawk
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Well let's see
There's the ever popular "choose what your cyber sub wears" which can be worked any number of ways.
One i did with a former subbie of mine is have her write something small and naughty on her inner thigh and email you the picture before work and then email another picture after work. Which can easily be done with or without panties.
Have her go try on outfits in different clothing stores and as she tries on an outfit to email you a picture of her in the outfit if she has a phone.
If she's stuck at home for a day have her remain in her undergarments and have her email pictures of herself at random times.
There's the ever popular "choose what your cyber sub wears" which can be worked any number of ways.
One i did with a former subbie of mine is have her write something small and naughty on her inner thigh and email you the picture before work and then email another picture after work. Which can easily be done with or without panties.
Have her go try on outfits in different clothing stores and as she tries on an outfit to email you a picture of her in the outfit if she has a phone.
If she's stuck at home for a day have her remain in her undergarments and have her email pictures of herself at random times.
Thank you, and for the person who asked about pushing boundaries, I don't plan on pushing boundaries, this is a test of submission.
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SissySalina
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May a sissy inquire what sex your sub is?
There are different task depending on the sex of the one carrying out the task.
There are different task depending on the sex of the one carrying out the task.
Oh,right. I uh...don't remeber putting that to be honest. Course I'm jacked up on like six kinds of meds right now.
RunningJib
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A suggestion
As a suggestion:
Of course, you could instruct her to do some figgin
I was told I was evil by one sub
As a suggestion:
- Instruct your sub not to shave
- Have her go to Walmark and purchase 'grannie' panties and wear for the same week. Bonus points if they save "Monday," Tuesday," etc.
Of course, you could instruct her to do some figgin
I was told I was evil by one sub
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Yeah, she is a female, or I'm hoping to find one that is a female, I have had no luck so far, but am looking my ass off.
Nezhul
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First suggestion - if you are not always in your clear mind because of meds - DON'T take a sub.
Thing is, a Dominant is not someone who gets his orderes obeyed.
It's someone who's first and foremost takes RESPONSIBILITY not only for him/herself, but for the Submissive's wellbeing. The extent of such responsibility is defined by the scope of your games.
Now, if you can't even remember what you have written, and you can't explain why you have written a pretty alarming and disturbing thing about breaking boundaries - You should NOT be a dominant.
You will just the same way order something to your sub that you didn't mean, and risk getting them hurt.
Sort yourself before your sub.
Learn to control yourself, before even attempting taking control over someone else. Watch some porn where professionals do it for you in the meantime.
On topic: you can't test anyone in cyber. They write what they want to write, and, frankly, if you manage to find a sub who's comfortable sending you pictures as proof - you are a one-in-ten-million who happened to have lucked out and find such rare fish. I don't doubt they exist, but honestly - it's like one in a thousand subs who will even consider doing pictures on cyber before knowing you for half a year.
So no. It'll be only text messaging, and thus you have nothing else but their word for it. Which equals to not being able to test anybody reliably.
For all you know, you'll be chatting with a 50-year-old fat bearded guy with a sweaty T-shirt, who will be called Tracey and claim he's a college student with C-cups and a lean body.
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Bramblethorn
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This is a bad idea and you should abandon it.
BDSM is not a contest. There's no prize for being the FIERCEST DOMLY DOM THAT EVER DOMMED, and the only prize you get for "completely destroying" somebody or violating their boundaries is the possibility of a visit from the cops.
There was a fun little movie called "Muriel's Wedding" about a woman who's obsessed with planning her wedding. She's worked out every detail... except for who she's going to marry. Bit ridiculous, right? See where I'm going with that?
Subs are people, and people aren't interchangeable. What makes one sub ecstatic may be a boundary violation for another and boring for yet another. Trying to plan for the hypothetical sub who you haven't yet met is of limited usefulness.
^^^ all of this.
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sissy will offer some advice: until you get your head straight do not try a sub.
You really do not understand the Dom/sub relationship. The sub depends on the Dom and it seems you are not dependable right now.
lilcuriouscatt
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You can't plan what you are going to do with a sub when you don't even know them yet. And I have never liked the term "breaking them in". They are not animals to be forced into submission.
But training is a more appropriate phrase, because the beginning of the relationship is a time for both of you to learn. I have never even thought of doing a scene with a sub until I know what their limits are, what they desire, and how they see themselves as subs. Understand their past sexual history, as you need to be aware of any trauma or past hurts.
I have doubts as to whether or not you have the right mindset to be a dominant.
But training is a more appropriate phrase, because the beginning of the relationship is a time for both of you to learn. I have never even thought of doing a scene with a sub until I know what their limits are, what they desire, and how they see themselves as subs. Understand their past sexual history, as you need to be aware of any trauma or past hurts.
I have doubts as to whether or not you have the right mindset to be a dominant.
