So I have been a Dom for most of my adult life but like some I was introduced to this lifestyle as a sub. I do not like the sub role do to my personality type. I need advice though from other Doms. and from subs as will if they like. My sub has brought up some fantasies that she has about being the Dom or top. this makes me very uneasy do to that I as I have said do not like being the submissive. any advice on how to handle this would be very helpful. I do not want to tell her no and take away her interest in this relationship or in this life style but I can't really bring myself to let her be the one in control.