lovecraft68
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Let me state up front, I'm married but we are not sexually monogamist, although we don't have an open marriage. I'll leave you to figure that out all by yourself.
This is just your opinion, we all know the saying about opinions. Many couples are not sexually monogamist and still have successful long term relationships, many sexually monogamist couples get divorced.
Only between fifteen to eighteen percent of divorce cases are due to sexual infidelity. In cases involving cheating by the wife, most cheated because her relationship was already broken, staying in her marriage do to children and financial reasons. In most of these cases the wife had an affairs for emotional intimacy and support rather than sexual satisfaction, although I'm sure the sex was a bonus.
Research done about the success of AshleyMadison.com found that most women who used the site did so because of her emotionally broken marriage. Who knows maybe some marriages were saved because Ashley Madison allowed the wife to discreetly seek the emotional and physical intimacy she needed while getting her marriage back on track. Maybe some marriages were saved because her husband was just a god awful fuck but she loved the guy anyway. It could be she's married to a man like you, one who believes in serial monogamy, but she can't live that life, Ashley Madison gives her a way to stay sane and keep her marriage.
Preach your morals all you want dude but it doesn't mean we all have to live by your rules. In my opinion there are times when cheating is morally acceptable, just like there are times when lying is the only moral choice.
Just a side note to some of you here about the term Real Men.
According to surveys and the experiences of many of my straight and bi girlfriends, not all 'real men' sexually satisfy their wives. Put that in your pipe and smoke it the next time you complain about not getting enough sex at home.
The only thing I will say about your post is...
A woman will get emotional support from a cheating dog she met on ashleymadison? Are you kidding?
Sex sure. Who knows maybe some decent conversation, but emotional intimacy?
Got news for you. Half if not more of the men posting on AM are single. They say they are married just so they can use the site as a sex hookup which is what it is.
Emotional security, oh, man.