curvestotheleft
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- Jan 4, 2014
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I'm a 47 year old male and have just met a fabulous lady. We both enjoy sex with one another, but I'm having problems achieving and maintaing a hard-on. To her credit, her outstanding oral skills allow me to ultimately have an orgasm, but most times do not make me hard enough for sexual intercourse. Out of 7 bedroom romp sessions during the week, I may get hard enough to have actual intercourse only once or twice.
Since she enjoys receiving head (something her past partners had no interest in at all), I'm able to take care of her. Through a combination of oral and digital stimulation I've even helped her squirt for the first time ever. We've quickly learned how to work together so she can do so on a regular basis.
It's still not the same as being able to have intercourse like I want, and she deserves.
This is a new challenge for me, and we both believe it may be stress-related (recent breakup for me, house on the market, job search, etc). I have yet to go to a doctor about these issues, but may be forced to do so if I can't resolve them on my own. Watching NFL games on Sundays it's easy to get the impression that every man in America over the age of 40 is having trouble getting and keeping an erection!!!
Has anyone (or their partners) had similar experience with symptoms like these?
How did you address them (self treatment or doctor visit first)?
Did you choose medication (cialis, viagra) or some other means of 'straightening' things out?
It's actually a coincidence that my lady introduced me to his board, since she's previously submitted stories here. Hopefully I'll find help which will allow me to take our bedroom activities to an even higher level.
I look forward to your feedback/help.
Since she enjoys receiving head (something her past partners had no interest in at all), I'm able to take care of her. Through a combination of oral and digital stimulation I've even helped her squirt for the first time ever. We've quickly learned how to work together so she can do so on a regular basis.
It's still not the same as being able to have intercourse like I want, and she deserves.
This is a new challenge for me, and we both believe it may be stress-related (recent breakup for me, house on the market, job search, etc). I have yet to go to a doctor about these issues, but may be forced to do so if I can't resolve them on my own. Watching NFL games on Sundays it's easy to get the impression that every man in America over the age of 40 is having trouble getting and keeping an erection!!!
Has anyone (or their partners) had similar experience with symptoms like these?
How did you address them (self treatment or doctor visit first)?
Did you choose medication (cialis, viagra) or some other means of 'straightening' things out?
It's actually a coincidence that my lady introduced me to his board, since she's previously submitted stories here. Hopefully I'll find help which will allow me to take our bedroom activities to an even higher level.
I look forward to your feedback/help.