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as a sub sissy the denial is expected since it is not for my pleasue
Sometimes making the sub cum is pleasurable for the Domme. Especially when it is on her terms or when she decides. The pleasure the sub feels is overshadowed by the fact the orgasm came at an inopportune time, he was not ready for it, he had no control over it, etc. So it is not always a given that orgasm equals pleasure for the sub. And as mentioned earlier there are different types of orgasms as well, like assgasms, prostate orgasms, some which do not involve ejaculation.
I know a Domme who sometimes makes her "sub sissy" ejaculate hands free from pegging when the sub is specifically told NOT to, it leads to a lot of humiliation and punishment. It is not pleasurable for the sub, but a big turn on for the Domme to get the sissy to lose control like that. This is just one example.
Denial can be used as a tool for humiliation.
ES
I don't know a woman who wears chastity belts. I agree with bone, that they all look very uncomfortable, especially for cleaning after toilet. Have seen pics of pierced pussies. May be this could be an alternative.
I find this topic fascinating, as someone who rarely he an orgasm I think it must be wonderful to actually know that you are being denied. I just don't expect an orgasm so can't really be denied
For me the turn on is not orgasm denial but orgasm control.
She controls when I cum and it is usually after she has cum several times. Part of her control of me does include edging and prolonged teasing. But she also delights in making me cum, seeing my reaction, listening to my moans, and watching my spurts. Sometimes she makes me cum very fast, sometimes slow, sometimes in unique ways I never expect. But it is always under her control. I am denied control over my own orgasms.
ES
I find this topic fascinating, as someone who rarely he an orgasm I think it must be wonderful to actually know that you are being denied. I just don't expect an orgasm so can't really be denied
Just stumbled onto this video of a pretty girl teasing a guy. She seems to understand how to get him very close to cumming.
https://de.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5afa2b90c21b2
It’s amazing when used to train a submissive and to keep them that way. A simple form of it can be done in reverse by not allowing the person to cum during play until you tell them to. You keep making it a longer time until it’s easy for them to become trained to cum only on your command. It can be extended by having them edge often while watching or thinking about something of your choosing
mmmm, Isn't he a good boy! You know I've never really been comfortable dominating sexually before, but the loving sensuality of all this is making me want to find a willing boy to tease till he can't bear being any other way. In fact I've had one partner who love to be edged for hours, and I realise now I'd been milking him all bar he'd choke his balls if he sussed in time. He made such delicious noises
My favourite so far https://www.youporn.com/watch/12540529/ruined-orgasms/]
It’s amazing when used to train a submissive and to keep them that way. A simple form of it can be done in reverse by not allowing the person to cum during play until you tell them to. You keep making it a longer time until it’s easy for them to become trained to cum only on your command. It can be extended by having them edge often while watching or thinking about something of your choosing
That's what dominants like, to keep our full attention 24/7 and what better way than to put us on the edge of orgasm and keep us there?
Carrot or stick at the end of the day
Cause us to focus while on edge, driven crazy with lust and a desire to please.... Or by threat of pain/no orgasm.[/QUOTE
Helping us to learn better and do tasks correctly the first time
Carrot or stick at the end of the day
Cause us to focus while on edge, driven crazy with lust and a desire to please.... Or by threat of pain/no orgasm.[/QUOTE
Helping us to learn better and do tasks correctly the first time
Very much so. Caged today, at work. All I can think about is making mistress happy
Carrot or stick at the end of the day
Cause us to focus while on edge, driven crazy with lust and a desire to please.... Or by threat of pain/no orgasm.[/QUOTE
Helping us to learn better and do tasks correctly the first time
I know everyone is different but I don't get motivated by this Carrot and Stick approach. I can certainly see how some do. I find myself always motivated to please my woman, yes even as a sub. I don't have to be caged, denied orgasm, or promised a reward. I feel really bad if I am not pleasing her and her words of encouragement as well as look of satisfaction on her face are what make me happy.
However, I when I am trying to endure pain, like making it through a certain number of spanks, flogging, or canning, a reward does help for me to endure it for her.....even though I would do it anyway because it is something that pleases her.
I have seen the "theme" of most men are useless after orgasm which I think is one reason "orgasm denial" is employed. I don't agree. I think I feel the same for my woman before and after an orgasm---though if she edged for a while, teased me, etc, I may be out of breath or even exhausted for a bit. I still want to please her and am very motivated to do so.
ES
That's what I'd have thought but... I have to take tablets which dull the urge, but when I suddenly wasn't allowed to touch/be touched or cum I went craaazy horny and affectionate. Maybe it's just my 'forbidden fruit' personality though.