creampieluvr79
Really Really Experienced
- Joined
- May 3, 2009
- Posts
- 448
I agree with Maizie29! My wife would never force me to do anything that I didn't want either. My wife never took that attitude that she's done, so I should be REQUIRED to as well... If you're really not into it, don't do it!Personally, if you really want to do it, great. But the people that are on here saying things like "If I'm expected to do it so can he"....well frankly that pisses me off. I agree that if you're in a committed and happy relationship you should want to make each other as happy as possible and fulfilling fantasies is part of that. BUT my husband would NEVER force me to do anything I didn't want to do (unless being forced was part of the fantasy ) If you can't bring yourself to do it, don't. I'm sure she can think of some other fantasy you can live out for her. Trust is more important than you're being uncomfortable and stressed over it. Someday maybe it will just happen, but she should understand your feelings and they should mean more to her than her fantasy.
The difference for me was, I was the one who wanted it, but couldn't follow through once I came. It's one thing if you're asking her to force you to do it. It's another thing entirely if that's not your thing and she's trying to force it on you. Unless, like Maisie said, being forced to do things that you don't want to do is part of the fantasy...
If you're seriously interested in doing it, you'll make it happen.