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One can only hope that today be a better day.
How may I be of assistance?
How may I be of assistance?
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Blushing Bottom said:One can only hope that today be a better day.
How may I be of assistance?
bb
thank you for your concern
I am afraid no one but me
can do anythign about stuff
it is times like this that old resentments come to surface
and that tells me I have not taken as good care of them as I thought
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X3Richard49 said:bb
thank you for your concern
I am afraid no one but me
can do anythign about stuff
it is times like this that old resentments come to surface
and that tells me I have not taken as good care of them as I thought
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another of my freinds died
Harry Browne was twice canadate for president
disciple of Ayn Rand
and my friend
his books "Why Government Doesn't work" and "How I found Freedom
in an Unfree World" are master peices
lady_kat has shared with me that her cancer clinic wants
her in a hospice .... but she is staying home ...
Harry Browne was twice canadate for president
disciple of Ayn Rand
and my friend
his books "Why Government Doesn't work" and "How I found Freedom
in an Unfree World" are master peices
lady_kat has shared with me that her cancer clinic wants
her in a hospice .... but she is staying home ...
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it is difficult to be of an age in which those around you pass on.
It sounds as though you have had good friends...truly a gift. Look to the gifts in times like these.
QUOTE=Richard49]another of my freinds died
Harry Browne was twice canadate for president
disciple of Ayn Rand
and my friend
his books "Why Government Doesn't work" and "How I found Freedom
in an Unfree World" are master peices
lady_kat has shared with me that her cancer clinic wants
her in a hospice .... but she is staying home ...[/QUOTE]
It sounds as though you have had good friends...truly a gift. Look to the gifts in times like these.
QUOTE=Richard49]another of my freinds died
Harry Browne was twice canadate for president
disciple of Ayn Rand
and my friend
his books "Why Government Doesn't work" and "How I found Freedom
in an Unfree World" are master peices
lady_kat has shared with me that her cancer clinic wants
her in a hospice .... but she is staying home ...[/QUOTE]
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Denises husband and his family plus the church there are on the death watch
Jeff has not went to work the las couple of days
and I have not been able ot reach her by email or phone
here is the last post Karen made for her
WEDNESDAY, MARCH 08, 2006 08:21 AM, CST
Denise's husband and sister-in-laws show great dedication to her. She is weaker and sleeps much of the time, yet sometimes she still is able to show her determination and make us know what she needs. She has had periods of restlessness, but now she has some liquid pain medication which seems to be making her more comfortable. She had been sleeping comfortably for over two hours when I left at 2:00 A.M. this morning. Please continue to pray earnestly for Denise's comfort and peace and for her family. Thanks so much, Karen
http://www.caringbridge.org/cb/inputSiteName.do?method=search&siteName=denisestafford
Jeff has not went to work the las couple of days
and I have not been able ot reach her by email or phone
here is the last post Karen made for her
WEDNESDAY, MARCH 08, 2006 08:21 AM, CST
Denise's husband and sister-in-laws show great dedication to her. She is weaker and sleeps much of the time, yet sometimes she still is able to show her determination and make us know what she needs. She has had periods of restlessness, but now she has some liquid pain medication which seems to be making her more comfortable. She had been sleeping comfortably for over two hours when I left at 2:00 A.M. this morning. Please continue to pray earnestly for Denise's comfort and peace and for her family. Thanks so much, Karen
http://www.caringbridge.org/cb/inputSiteName.do?method=search&siteName=denisestafford
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[/QUOTE]Blushing Bottom said:it is difficult to be of an age in which those around you pass on.
It sounds as though you have had good friends...truly a gift. Look to the gifts in times like these.
QUOTE=Richard49]another of my freinds died
Harry Browne was twice canadate for president
disciple of Ayn Rand
and my friend
his books "Why Government Doesn't work" and "How I found Freedom
in an Unfree World" are master peices
lady_kat has shared with me that her cancer clinic wants
her in a hospice .... but she is staying home ...
I am not sure I have had so many good friends
but i have had fellow combatants that believe in freedom
know that we are NOT a democrocy but rather
a Democatic consituational republic
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Richard49 said:
Richard,
Respectfully its close . Its wonderful that Lady Kat's family have rallied to offer her a final control in being at home as is her choice. I should hope She feels no physical pain. There is simply no need of it at this stage with good palative care.
I was wondering if perhaps You might consider sharing some of the essence that made Lady Kat so special to You. Not all of us have participated long enough on the Lit Boards to have 'known' her. Or perhaps You might recommend a Thread that You believe serves Lady Kat well in representing her.
If I have in any manner over stepped my mark in addressing You Richard in regards to the abovementioned please accept my apologies in advance.
With kind regards and genuine attention
@}-}rebecca----
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@}-}rebecca---- said:
Those that have taken the time to get to know me and this thread
know I will "attempt" to answer any question
This thread is about the humaness of us folks
especially us Doms
Denise (lady_kat) and i met here on Lit
she was/is married but wanted to feel the submissive side of life
she also found she enjoyed pain
any who
she and I shared our everyday life
seldom did a day go by that we did not exchange email
we became business partners in marketing herbs
before that we were sort of phone and online Daddy Dom and daughter submissive
She was always there for me
she held my cyber/phone hand as I went through the Rachel shit
and many other things that happened here on lit to me
Long before she got sick we talked about spiritual issues
When she was first Dxed with cancer
I was the first she told
Jeff was not real supportive untill just recently
She started mainstream proticol and the paw paw herb program
I can not remember the time frame but she went into remission
we praised God
and she went back to work
I think it was 3-4 months later she was in pain and was told the cancer
was back ..... and health wise she went down hill .... she also found her realtionship with Jesus ... I am pround ot have been part of that ...
untill just a few days ago we still talked and/or emailed daily
she also hung on to her joy in Jesus
the women around her are women from the church/congragation where she had found a home .... over the last many monthd they took her to appointments and stayed with her and brought her home...
She is full of love and compassion
she loves cats and her nieghbors got upset with her because she feed the strays
she loved the birds ... feed them and decorated her yard so as to attract them
we often shared bird and squrrel stories
she understands the short comings of people and is forgiving
check out her posts on Literotica
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Richard your kindness is heart warming. The account you give of lady_kat is glowing and from the heart. She knows how lucky she is to have you as a friend don't ever forget that.
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I dont know how many people believe in the power of prayer but one of the forums that lady_cat used to post at is having a prayer day for her and her family tomorrow. Not difficult to do, just add them to your thoughts during the day.
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I'm just going to update from lady_cats site because Richard is not here
With a very heavy heart, I need to tell you that Denise left us to go back to her Father this morning. I will write more later. Take care, Karen
http://www.caringbridge.org/cb/viewHome.do
With a very heavy heart, I need to tell you that Denise left us to go back to her Father this morning. I will write more later. Take care, Karen
http://www.caringbridge.org/cb/viewHome.do
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Kajira Callista said:I'm just going to update from lady_cats site because Richard is not here
With a very heavy heart, I need to tell you that Denise left us to go back to her Father this morning. I will write more later. Take care, Karen
http://www.caringbridge.org/cb/viewHome.do
TY KC for updating us all.
I will continue to be in prayer for her family for comfort, strength and peace.
Richard, I am sorry. I shall keep you in my prayers as well.
I didn't know Denise that much, only a little from the posts she made here, yet even in the small amount I did know her, she encouraged and touched my spirit. If I had to sum up my thoughts and feelings for Lady Kat...it would be...
She was an example of living courage and a constant source of joy to those around her.
When I stop and think on that, I realize what a tremendous testimony she leaves behind, but even more importantly, I see it as a reward she will carry through all eternity. She fought a good fight and she ran the race God put before her with perserverance. Rest in peace Denise.
