You can now call me the bionic single Dom

[raven2]

I am in one of my mood
where I tell people to go to hell
I am glad there is a recovery meeting tomorrow
the Satuday meetings about getting along with others better

Fucking VA
nothign getting better with them
I think there are only two brain cells in the whole government
and they belong to a union
so one is always on coffee break

Sorry about the PIA. It is very frustrating when people whose job it is to take care of you just make things harder.

 

[Richard49]

yesterday, Monday, the Drs gave Denise a matter of days to live
they told her they might be able to keep her alive till next Monday

 

[Kierae]

Oh my - so sorry to hear about Denise (I am assuming that is Lady Kat). She has fought so hard and struggled to live life to its fullest. I hope she can find some peace. Her and her loved ones will be in many prayers.

 

[FurryFury]

That's so tragic. I don't know what to say.

Fury

 

[raven2]

My deepest sympathies.

 

[Richard49]

Oh my - so sorry to hear about Denise (I am assuming that is Lady Kat). She has fought so hard and struggled to live life to its fullest. I hope she can find some peace. Her and her loved ones will be in many prayers.

yes Denise is lady_kat

 

[Bandit58]

yesterday, Monday, the Drs gave Denise a matter of days to live
they told her they might be able to keep her alive till next Monday

She has fought for a long time, she has earned the rest....I will miss her. Even when she was in so much pain she never gave up. A wonderful, brave lady

 

[RJMasters]

yesterday, Monday, the Drs gave Denise a matter of days to live
they told her they might be able to keep her alive till next Monday

I am deeply sorry Richard. My prayers will be with her. She will finally know that peace which passes understanding. She has a place prepared...if it were not so, He would not have said it. My prayers will be with you as well.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

yesterday, Monday, the Drs gave Denise a matter of days to live
they told her they might be able to keep her alive till next Monday

The Road Not Taken
by Robert Frost

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,

And sorry I could not travel both

And be one traveler, long I stood

And looked down one as far as I could

To where it bent in the undergrowth;



Then took the other, as just as fair,

And having perhaps the better claim,

Because it was grassy and wanted wear;

Though as for that the passing there

Had worn them really about the same,



And both that morning equally lay

In leaves no step had trodden black.

Oh, I kept the first for another day!

Yet knowing how way leads on to way,

I doubted if I should ever come back.



I shall be telling this with a sigh

Somewhere ages and ages hence:

Two roads diverged in a wood, and I--

I took the one less traveled by,

And that has made all the difference.


Posted with respect for you Richard and to your friend Denise.
@}-}rebecca----

 

[alice_underneath]

yesterday, Monday, the Drs gave Denise a matter of days to live
they told her they might be able to keep her alive till next Monday

Richard,

I do not believe in God or Heaven. But I do believe in the concept of death as perfect peace.

For this reason, I do not grieve for the ones who die. I grieve for the ones who live.

I understand your pain, Richard. One of the great agonies of life is the loss of a very dear friend.

You have my sympathy, Richard. I am sorry you are suffering this way.

Respectfully and sincerely,

Alice

 

[Kajira Callista]

yesterday, Monday, the Drs gave Denise a matter of days to live
they told her they might be able to keep her alive till next Monday

I think she touched many hearts with her strength through all this. She will remain in my prayers

 

[catalina_francisco]

yesterday, Monday, the Drs gave Denise a matter of days to live
they told her they might be able to keep her alive till next Monday

I hope she does not suffer through this last battle, and that you will be OK given you have been a great support and friend to her throughout.

Catalina

 

[Galene]

yesterday, Monday, the Drs gave Denise a matter of days to live
they told her they might be able to keep her alive till next Monday

I wish I had been a better friend to her. I couldn't take her suffering, Richard, I cowered. In a way I envy the peace and oblivion she's headed to.

 

[Richard49]

I spoke to Denise today

for those that do not know
we have never meet
though we meet here on Lit

she was having a very difficult time breathing
but was moving forward on plans that had been made for tonight

Her husband, Jeff, is to be baptized
and she plans on being there

In her post to me last night she said
wait
here is that part of her post

"i got some absolutely brutal news yesterday given me by the onc who is standing in for my own oncologist. she literall measured my times in days. telling me that she could keep me alive till at least next monday.
nice, eh?

and for a period of hours i went into shock, and let ol sly nick put a wedge into my closeness to the Lord.
and letting him lie to me also. giving him much more power over me than was needed. i let him rob my joy Richard ;-(

i think jeff fell for it too. he was crying. *shaking head* that damn devil. and me of little faith to allow this to happen. only God determines when He takes me home.

not me, and certainly not the lying devil."

I guess I have never had sence enough to cower from anyone or anything
but
I know I will miss her as a freind and partner in many things

 

[Richard49]

I talked to Denise today
it was after she had three transfusions
but before the pain killers

She had some fight back

 

[Kajira Callista]

I talked to Denise today
it was after she had three transfusions
but before the pain killers

She had some fight back

Are you letting her know we are all praying and rooting for her?

 

[Blushing Bottom]

I did not know Denise but my thoughts are with you Richard. It is the survivors who suffer longest.

I talked to Denise today
it was after she had three transfusions
but before the pain killers

She had some fight back

 

[Richard49]

Are you letting her know we are all praying and rooting for her?

I sure have
and let her know there are messages here

 

[Richard49]

I did not know Denise but my thoughts are with you Richard. It is the survivors who suffer longest.

Her screen name here on Lit is lady_kat

there are a # of posts on this thread from her

Thank you for your thoughts for me

 

[Kajira Callista]

I sure have
and let her know there are messages here

such a good boy

















runs away

 

[Richard49]

such a good boy

runs away

Grabs you and swings you over my knees........

 

[Kajira Callista]

Grabs you and swings you over my knees........

HA! it worked

 

[Richard49]

HA! it worked

ok kc
what worked?

 

[Richard49]

bandit and gill are no longer welcome here
for as long as this thread remains

remember I said that when lady_kat passes
I will ask that my id and threads be eliminated

 

[Richard49]

been a suckie day
and noting to with VA
WoW

in NA one of our traditions says
"our leaders are but trusted servants"
some of us under our breath say
"twisted serpents"

Every organzation has "leaders"
some are voted in
some appointed
some annonited

Today one of my "church leaders"
an elder and I had a final show down
it did not feel good but his abuse had finally got the full of me

tonight I called lady_kat and she went down my throat
it is the first time she and I have ever had harsh words
and ya know
I still do not know what I did

anyway
the closure of this thread maybe sooner than I thought

I told ff I would write more about how I went into training etc
but ya know
what I have posted has gotten all bent out of shape
and since this shit ill not be here long
I see no point