Would you sleep with someone if . . . ?

[KillerMuffin]

Would you sleep in the same bed with someone -- not sex, just snoozing -- if you knew that person had a crush on you or carried a torch for you and you liked them, but just not that way and probably never would either?

The what if scenario carries a shared room for the evening with one double bed.

 

[metal_minx]

Would you sleep in the same bed with someone -- not sex, just snoozing -- if you knew that person had a crush on you or carried a torch for you and you liked them, but just not that way and probably never would either?

The what if scenario carries a shared room for the evening with one double bed.

yes, because i am self absorbed and crave any attention i can get

 

[Pixie]

No, not if I can avoid it.

 

[Kitte]

This would take some serious thought, I wouldnt want to mislead... but at the same time two in a bed is so much more fun then one. But I guess in the end I would have to say no, becaue no matter how many times you told them it could never be the way they wanted it to be, something in their heart would never catch on.

 

[Astro]

Had it happen, aint pretty so no - they get the bed, not the first time I will sleep on the floor.

 

[sabbathstorm]

No I wouldn't put myself in that situation. That would just be asking for trouble and confuse things even worse.

 

[Rex1960]

been there done that hated it
wouldn't do it again
Rex

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Yes, I guess if you are friends it shouldn't be a problem. Maybe for them, but not for you.

 

[Jewelz]

yeah probably. although, hubby might not like the idea.

 

[Wiggles]

It would depend on the person. Are they emotionally secure enough to deal with our friendship status?

Not every person with a crush is hopelessly in lust. I've had crushes on people, and had oppurtunities like this. I didn't take it for more than it was worth (sharing warmth), and it didn't effect our relationship.

If they don't know your feelings, or can't resist the temptation, then don't try it.

 

[amelia]

i wouldn't because i know how it feels to long for someone that doesn't want you back

 

[Mistress]

Yes, I guess if you are friends it shouldn't be a problem. Maybe for them, but not for you.

Yep.

 

[InnocentAngel81]

It happened to me maybe two or three years ago the night before thanksgiving my friends invited me to sleep over their apartment around 1 am because I was all alone for thanksgiving. It turns out I was going to sleep on the pull out bed, and my friends older brother was supposed to sleep on the floor because he didnt want to walk home, next thing I know he tells me to move over and that he would stay on his side. I was watching something on tv and the next thing I know he kissed me out of nowhere. I gave kinda nervous laugh and basically ignored it, i think he bit me once but i layed on my side and went to sleep, it seems like it's a once a year type thing with him that he has to attempt something. I woke up the next morning and his arm is around me. and as usual he acts like nothing happens in front of his friends or family... it used to be because his dad has a problem with black people, but when I showed up one day looking for his sister his dad started hitting on me whenever his wife was not in the room that was kinda creepy

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: Would you sleep with someone if . . . ?

yes, because i am self absorbed and crave any attention i can get

Now why does that not surprise me?

 

[Svedish_Chef]

i wouldn't because i know how it feels to long for someone that doesn't want you back

You know my life? Fuck.

 

[metal_minx]

Re: Re: Re: Would you sleep with someone if . . . ?

Now why does that not surprise me?

coward...show your av

 

[amelia]

You know my life? Fuck.

i do...with my whole being

 

[MissTaken]

*sidestepping minx's troll*


Yes, I could do that , but only because I am so direct with people in those situations that there could be no doubt that our sleeping together was a matter of necessity, frienship or companionship...not love.

 

[Kitte]

i wouldn't because i know how it feels to long for someone that doesn't want you back

That too I guess that is where my whole theory on no matter what you tell them, something in their heart doesn't quite get it.

 

[metal_minx]

*sidestepping minx's troll*


Yes, I could do that , but only because I am so direct with people in those situations that there could be no doubt that our sleeping together was a matter of necessity, frienship or companionship...not love.

troll? unfortunately, i'm being honest

 

[glamorilla]

i wouldn't because i know how it feels to long for someone that doesn't want you back

Me too.

 

[MissTaken]

troll? unfortunately, i'm being honest

No, MM ...I was talking about the unregistered poster who quoted you and commented.

Of course, they may have simply had a problem logging in...



Not you mm....nope.

 

[MissTaken]

That too I guess that is where my whole theory on no matter what you tell them, something in their heart doesn't quite get it.

I can't argue with that thinking and have been there, too.

Some of my fondest memories were platonic sleeping arrangements with an unrequitted love.

Ahhh but that was me, so many years ago!

 

[metal_minx]

No, MM ...I was talking about the unregistered poster who quoted you and commented.

Of course, they may have simply had a problem logging in...



Not you mm....nope.

please, give me some credit...i'm not the desperate

 

[Hamletmaschine]

I made this mistake once. Never again.