Would love some feedback on this

[JSub1967]

My wife of 23 years and I were discussing ways to make our sex life interesting again. We rarely have sex, so we need something. She suggested getting a hot guy to "do both of us"! While this is my top fantasy, I'm afraid I'll feel less of a man if it happened. I'm also afraid it would ruin our marriage. She knows I like to be submissive, however she's not dominant and has no interest in playing that way. She's very sexy and men love her, so I don't think she would have a problem attracting someone, but I'm afraid I would be jealous.

Thoughts?

 

[Stella_Omega]

You will never be less of a man because you like to take the receptive role sometimes. You will, obviously, have to work out your jealousy issues. You don't get to get fucked and not her.

 

[swimguyzipper]

My wife of 23 years and I were discussing ways to make our sex life interesting again. We rarely have sex, so we need something. She suggested getting a hot guy to "do both of us"! While this is my top fantasy, I'm afraid I'll feel less of a man if it happened. I'm also afraid it would ruin our marriage. She knows I like to be submissive, however she's not dominant and has no interest in playing that way. She's very sexy and men love her, so I don't think she would have a problem attracting someone, but I'm afraid I would be jealous.

Thoughts?

My girl and I have shared a guy a few times and it was truly incredible the first time I had a small tinge of jealously . We talked and the next time was very much better . If you talk and really be open about what you need from your wife to not feel jealous and her be honest with you about what she needs from you . You can have incredible times sharing a guy with each other . Take your time and find a guy that is right for you both .. Being a sub does not diminish your being a man . Find somebody that can be respectful and go from there . Talk with your wife more if it still doesn't feel right don't do it .
Good luck

 

[joelafayette]

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[Sasha69]

you'll never know unless you try, and it's her idea, you might like it and make some new friends in the end, no pun intended! at worst, it won't agree with you at all, and your wife will just have to live with that. you could always tell her to go find her own jazz, you can find yours, then compare notes!