Why?

[Debbie]

It's like a game.

It's like when a new woman pops up and all the men swarm like a pack of piranha.

You can tell when a man is fishing.

Who showed you their worm?

op, as ltr said. Some men are like this.

Thankfully there are some really lovely men who don't play mind games.

 

[CandiCame]

Seriously?

You've never noticed?

I never noticed that either.

Also... I don't think any guys do that who are over the age of... I dunno, 14?

That's a middle school complaint. Adults don't have time for stupid shit like that. You want a relationship, you date people you trust. You don't trust them don't date them. That's it. Simple. The appeal of bullshittery mindgames is never very strong and wears off by the late teens. If a person is still doing that into adulthood, they fall by the wayside fast and usually either 1: realize they're immature and get better or 2: never realize it and make 'freindzone' memes without realizing that the people reblogging are doing so to make fun of them in the comments. They don't get laid, so I'm unsure why you let them fuck you.

 

[desireinyellow]

I never noticed that either.

Also... I don't think any guys do that who are over the age of... I dunno, 14?

That's a middle school complaint. Adults don't have time for stupid shit like that. You want a relationship, you date people you trust. You don't trust them don't date them. That's it. Simple. The appeal of bullshittery mindgames is never very strong and wears off by the late teens. If a person is still doing that into adulthood, they fall by the wayside fast and usually either 1: realize they're immature and get better or 2: never realize it and make 'freindzone' memes without realizing that the people reblogging are doing so to make fun of them in the comments. They don't get laid, so I'm unsure why you let them fuck you.

I am sorry but you must live in a very different world because that is not true in this one... I have encountered several men RL and on-line that are this way. Perhaps I do look for the wrong ones and I do need to change but that does not take away the fact that yes there are grown men that delight in doing this to women.

 

[lovetoread]

I never noticed that either.

Also... I don't think any guys do that who are over the age of... I dunno, 14?

That's a middle school complaint. Adults don't have time for stupid shit like that. You want a relationship, you date people you trust. You don't trust them don't date them. That's it. Simple. The appeal of bullshittery mindgames is never very strong and wears off by the late teens. If a person is still doing that into adulthood, they fall by the wayside fast and usually either 1: realize they're immature and get better or 2: never realize it and make 'freindzone' memes without realizing that the people reblogging are doing so to make fun of them in the comments. They don't get laid, so I'm unsure why you let them fuck you.

All people play games to some extent, but more so on lit.

Men and some women tend to think they can do whatever they want, married or no, on this site.

Most of the time it's just a game, these people have no intent whatsoever in having a real relationship.

 

[richard_daily]

All people play games to some extent, but more so on lit.

Men and some women tend to think they can do whatever they want, married or no, on this site.

Most of the time it's just a game, these people have no intent whatsoever in having a real relationship.

You're assuming that the goal of people on here is to "have a relationship", which is kind of odd.

This isn't a dating site.

 

[pete]

I have been chasing the man who ignores me and ignoring the man who is chasing me. Karma is biting me in the ass. Now two people are hurting.

so maybe it's time to just be on your own, focus on yourself and stop putting efforts towards men?

it'll be ok

 

[Debbie]

You're assuming that the goal of people on here is to "have a relationship", which is kind of odd.

This isn't a dating site.

Yet there have been a fair few who have interacted here, met and become couples.

I can feel the love of literotica.

 

[richard_daily]

Yet there have been a fair few who have interacted here, met and become couples.

I can feel the love of literotica.

There are people who meet at the grocery store and become couples. That doesn't make the grocery store anything but a grocery store.

 

[BotanyBoy]

Why do men want to play with a women's affections. Gain her trust and concern, draw out her emotions then treat her as if she doesn't matter? I truly don't understand what is to gain from it...
Any answers?

I can't bring myself to ruin most women's lives...so unless they are scummy like me I tend to break it off and run. It's better for them anyhow, I'm a piece of shit, but not such a piece of shit that I would drag another person into the hell I call my life.

That is my rational thought...

Emotionally? I want to be with someone better than me....100% in conflict with my rational assessment of dating. Sometimes the emotional desire over runs the rational assessment that I indeed...do NOT deserve to be with a woman of any substance beyond a crack whore/trailer park princess.

What is to gain? She might not be so great so I won't feel horrible about ruining some poor girls life, if she's not totally junkied out I might be able to have a little tard some day.

HAHAHA like that shit will happen......You are right, nothing to be gained but a fucking head ache.

 

[Debbie]

There are people who meet at the grocery store and become couples. That doesn't make the grocery store anything but a grocery store.

For sure.

Literotica is more than an erotic/porn site.

This place does have a personals section you know.

The stories are an added bonus and free too.