Make it make sense

[Trash_Panda_1994]

For a bit of background information. I am a 31 year old Jamaican born woman that has been raised in America. I'm married to a white man only a few months older than me (big shocker to my family. They thought it would be a man much older or a woman)

I've lived in NYC, Florida and California. I've spent time in Georgia, Alabama and Louisiana.

One thing that has been the same no matter where I go or how old I am is the draw I see that older men have towards me. The biggest group being older white men.

Granted, I was and am attracted to older men. I just don't understand why they're attracted to me.

Or rather why older white men are so drawn to black women.

 

[GuaMan085]

Well im not white myself but from my own personal observations, older white men and really white men in general "tend" to be attracted to women of color or darker skin women. I live in a major city and its definitely not uncommon to see white guys old or not with darker or brown skin women i.e. Mexican, Filipinas, Indian, black so on.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

If I had to guess I would say perhaps you just paying attention to the older white men. And the reason why they are probably pay attention to you is maybe you are just a good looking woman

 

[Trash_Panda_1994]

Both of those can be true.

Granted I don't think I've paid extra attention to one race. I see it the same way I see gender. If I'm attracted to you then outside packaging isn't as important.

However it could just be because I'm pretty idk. Or what some weirdly like to call "exotic" not a fan of being called that though

 

[Trash_Panda_1994]

im juat using this to vent at this point. But why is it that it's so hard to find good quality rp partners into the same stuff I am??

Granted my kinks can be a bit much but still.

 

[T_2K_59]

For a bit of background information. I am a 31 year old Jamaican born woman that has been raised in America. I'm married to a white man only a few months older than me (big shocker to my family. They thought it would be a man much older or a woman)

I've lived in NYC, Florida and California. I've spent time in Georgia, Alabama and Louisiana.

One thing that has been the same no matter where I go or how old I am is the draw I see that older men have towards me. The biggest group being older white men.

Granted, I was and am attracted to older men. I just don't understand why they're attracted to me.

Or rather why older white men are so drawn to black women.

As an "older man" (60+), I have always been atracted to beautiful woman, not matter what their skin color is. So, for me, it isn't the color of their skin, it is their beauty that does it for me.

 

[razor33a]

You may be noticing it more, like when someone is talking about a car to buy and they see them all over suddenly. Are they only looking or approaching/flirting? You may be "exotic" for that locale or just them. You could also just be a very attractive woman? I know when it comes to ethnicities I find certain characteristics more or less attractive, not very partial to pale redheads for example. As an older white, mostly, guy I find more types and ages of females attractive that at 22 years old I wouldn't have noticed.

 

[Trash_Panda_1994]

Fair could be but who knows