Why?

[desireinyellow]

Why do men want to play with a women's affections. Gain her trust and concern, draw out her emotions then treat her as if she doesn't matter? I truly don't understand what is to gain from it...
Any answers?

 

[Tryharder62]

Only scuzballs do that. There are nice guys out there. Sometimes you have to look hard but it's worth it. The ones who act like you describe have no self esteem so they get some by cutting away at someone elses. Dumb butts. LOL

 

[rosco rathbone]

Might as well ask a kitty why it pretends not to notice the wounded mouse trying to crawl away. It's our nature.

 

[desireinyellow]

Might as well ask a kitty why it pretends not to notice the wounded mouse trying to crawl away. It's our nature.

I am learning and seeing that you are right.

 

[Killswitch]

Why do men want to play with a women's affections. Gain her trust and concern, draw out her emotions then treat her as if she doesn't matter? I truly don't understand what is to gain from it...
Any answers?

To see the titties, of course.

You showed him the titties, didn't you.

*shakes head*

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Pick a better class of guy.

 

[RobDownSouth]

Another Miles conquest goes bad.

Very sad.

 

[Boxlicker101]

Why do men want to play with a women's affections. Gain her trust and concern, draw out her emotions then treat her as if she doesn't matter? I truly don't understand what is to gain from it...
Any answers?

Men do the first things you mention so women will be willing to have sex with them. Sex is a really fun thing, and most men have no trouble detaching the physical pleasure from the emotions involved. The second part of what you say is the real nature of most men, because they think of the woman in question as being the latest in what they hope you will be a long succession.

Of course, there are gold-digging women who just want from men whatever they can get, such as money and jewels. If the men can afford it, no harm-no foul.

There are men who are looking for Ms Right and, when they find her, their actions will be much different. Ideally, all men and all women should feel the same way, that sex is fun, although much better with Ms or Mr. Right but, until such a person comes along, they should enjoy themselves and try to avoid doing any harm.

 

[richard_daily]

Why do men want to play with a women's affections. Gain her trust and concern, draw out her emotions then treat her as if she doesn't matter? I truly don't understand what is to gain from it...
Any answers?

Why would you assign this experience to all men?

I could just as easily turn the tables and say: "All women play games", and it wouldn't be any more true than your statement.

If you find yourself with emotionally unavailable guys, it's probably something of your own doing. Either you enjoy it, you are drawn to it, or you crave it in some way.

 

[John_Whittaker0826]

Why do men want to play with a women's affections. Gain her trust and concern, draw out her emotions then treat her as if she doesn't matter? I truly don't understand what is to gain from it...
Any answers?

Not all men do this, to begin with. Im sure there are some, but I'm also sure its not the majority. Maybe, it has something to do with those you've picked to let get close. I'm not trying to point the finger here, but suggesting that you look at it from another perspective.

Players will be players whether male or female.

Good luck sweetie.

 

[desireinyellow]

To see the titties, of course.

You showed him the titties, didn't you.

*shakes head*

I have no problem showing them without an emotional attachment. They are not who I am only what I have.

 

[desireinyellow]

Another Miles conquest goes bad.

Very sad.

No not miles thank god!

Not all men do this, to begin with. Im sure there are some, but I'm also sure its not the majority. Maybe, it has something to do with those you've picked to let get close. I'm not trying to point the finger here, but suggesting that you look at it from another perspective.

Players will be players whether male or female.

Good luck sweetie.

Your right not all men do.

 

[lovetoread]

No not all men, but a hell of a lot of lit men do this.

 

[Adre]

No not all men, but a hell of a lot of lit men do this.

Really?

 

[lovetoread]

Really?

It's like a game.

It's like when a new woman pops up and all the men swarm like a pack of piranha.

You can tell when a man is fishing.

 

[Adre]

It's like a game.

It's like when a new woman pops up and all the men swarm like a pack of piranha.

You can tell when a man is fishing.

Hmm. I tend to drop my bait in the trusted old fishing holes.

 

[richard_daily]

It's like when a new woman pops up and all the men swarm like a pack of piranha.

They do?

I guess I'm out of the loop.

 

[neci]

you let them. loneliness clouds your vision, and you jump at the ones that bite.

 

[Squibbs]

Why do men want to play with a women's affections. Gain her trust and concern, draw out her emotions then treat her as if she doesn't matter? I truly don't understand what is to gain from it...
Any answers?

Stop being a cunt and men will respect you.

 

[lovetoread]

They do?

I guess I'm out of the loop.

Seriously?

You've never noticed?

 

[Seasidegal]

I have been chasing the man who ignores me and ignoring the man who is chasing me. Karma is biting me in the ass. Now two people are hurting.

 

[neci]

I have been chasing the man who ignores me and ignoring the man who is chasing me. Karma is biting me in the ass. Now two people are hurting.

so stop. obviously neither of them are for you.

 

[richard_daily]

Seriously?

You've never noticed?

No I haven't. To get my attention on here, a woman has to be funny, well-spoken, some kind of weird sex pervert, or all three.

 

[RobDownSouth]

No not miles thank god!

Glad to see you have standards.

 

[Aquagal]

Why do men want to play with a women's affections. Gain her trust and concern, draw out her emotions then treat her as if she doesn't matter? I truly don't understand what is to gain from it...
Any answers?

Are we talking Lit boyfriend?