Make it make sense

[Trash_Panda_1994]

For a bit of background information. I am a 31 year old Jamaican born woman that has been raised in America. I'm married to a white man only a few months older than me (big shocker to my family. They thought it would be a man much older or a woman)

I've lived in NYC, Florida and California. I've spent time in Georgia, Alabama and Louisiana.

One thing that has been the same no matter where I go or how old I am is the draw I see that older men have towards me. The biggest group being older white men.

Granted, I was and am attracted to older men. I just don't understand why they're attracted to me.

Or rather why older white men are so drawn to black women.

 

[GuaMan085]

Well im not white myself but from my own personal observations, older white men and really white men in general "tend" to be attracted to women of color or darker skin women. I live in a major city and its definitely not uncommon to see white guys old or not with darker or brown skin women i.e. Mexican, Filipinas, Indian, black so on.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

If I had to guess I would say perhaps you just paying attention to the older white men. And the reason why they are probably pay attention to you is maybe you are just a good looking woman

 

[Trash_Panda_1994]

Both of those can be true.

Granted I don't think I've paid extra attention to one race. I see it the same way I see gender. If I'm attracted to you then outside packaging isn't as important.

However it could just be because I'm pretty idk. Or what some weirdly like to call "exotic" not a fan of being called that though