why?

[Real Mccoy]

i am a perfectly normal hetrosexual (or am i?) but i have a one off fantasy of sucking some blokes cock and anal sex, this scares disturbs me a little. but i think given the oppertunity i would do it. why do i feel this way i am certainly hetrosexual.

 

[Queersetti]

i am a perfectly normal hetrosexual (or am i?) but i have a one off fantasy of sucking some blokes cock and anal sex, this scares disturbs me a little. but i think given the oppertunity i would do it. why do i feel this way i am certainly hetrosexual.

I think you are experiencing a normal curiosity.

It's significant to me when straight men who are troubled by such fantasies express them in terms of actions, not attraction.

Being gay is more than just liking to suck cock or engage in any other sexual activity, it's about an entire orientation towards men in an emotional as well as physical way.

In my opinion, it likely that your fantasies indicate you may have a bisexual streak in you.That is normal!

 

[Tom Bishop]

why

I didn't even know I was curious Till a young man and I were Talking late at nite a little drunk One thing led to another and now I found I am sub with this man Kinkyer with him then when I am with a women and Enjoy are new found friendshop Just sorry it took so long to act on
Bishop

 

[Etoile]

i am a perfectly normal hetrosexual (or am i?) but i have a one off fantasy of sucking some blokes cock and anal sex, this scares disturbs me a little. but i think given the oppertunity i would do it. why do i feel this way i am certainly hetrosexual.

I was really tempted to respond that this was an abomination and he'd better pray to God for redemption but then I realized the humor wouldn't be received well. Oh well.

Mccoy, don't worry. This is normal. Even if you act on it, you are experimenting - it doesn't mean you're gay or even bi. If everybody who had ever had a same-sex encounter ONCE was gay, we'd have more gays than straights in this country.

 

[deaflepperd]

i am a perfectly normal hetrosexual (or am i?) but i have a one off fantasy of sucking some blokes cock and anal sex, this scares disturbs me a little. but i think given the oppertunity i would do it. why do i feel this way i am certainly hetrosexual.

Have you ever had an experience, even as a child, where you were forced to touch another guy? Sometimes these fantasies stem from childhood abuse.

 

[SweetCherry]

Re: Re: why?

Have you ever had an experience, even as a child, where you were forced to touch another guy? Sometimes these fantasies stem from childhood abuse.

*biting tongue*

I'm so not gonna touch that comment.

 

[ExistentialLuv]

Re: Re: Re: why?

*biting tongue*

I'm so not gonna touch that comment.

*Ditto*

 

[brinkeedinkee]

Re: Re: Re: why?

*biting tongue*

I'm so not gonna touch that comment.

well, allow me...deaf....try somefin like www.psychologyisus. or something like that. Don't make someone feel dirty for having a curiousity. Doesn't mean he was molested when he was younger.
aaaack. But then again, a belief is a belief. Own it, just don't push it off onto others.

 

[Cigan]

Re: Re: why?

Have you ever had an experience, even as a child, where you were forced to touch another guy? Sometimes these fantasies stem from childhood abuse.

You may not touch it, but I will. I just gave up on this argument in another thread and here it is again. Can we try not to jump to the abuse conclusion? Generally if someone had that happened and remember it then they aren't gonig to be completely bewildered about having bi-sexual fantasies. In fact it has been my experience with my friends who have been through sexual abuse that it's the first thing they think of whenever they experience any even remotely odd sexual fantasies. So if someone comes here asking the question, let's leave the abuse issue out of the conversatioin unless they are secure enough with it to offer such information in their thread.

 

[SweetCherry]

Re: Re: Re: Re: why?

well, allow me...deaf....try somefin like www.psychologyisus. or something like that. Don't make someone feel dirty for having a curiousity. Doesn't mean he was molested when he was younger.
aaaack. But then again, a belief is a belief. Own it, just don't push it off onto others.

Heh. The mood I've been in the past few days, had I touched that comment, I'd have ripped his throat out and smeared myself in the blood that spurted everywhere.

Hence, my choice to stay silent.

 

[brinkeedinkee]

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Heh. The mood I've been in the past few days, had I touched that comment, I'd have ripped his throat out and smeared myself in the blood that spurted everywhere.

Hence, my choice to stay silent.

I got ur back Sweet

 

[thickspear]

People in the world at large keep their sexual preference as a personal, private matter. So it's no wonder that a person having a desire/curiosity for something different begin to question themselves and etc.

If people with desire for, or curiosity about "deviant or perverted" activities could be identified by an obvious sign most people would have it and I'd feel sorry for the ones who didn't.

Perhaps I'll wear a sign which reads "perv on board".