Why do older men become bi-curious?

[Jeniinnylons]

Lack of sex is why

 

[lvs2lck]

Lack of sex is why

Possibly, but that goes against what for years we've been told about men's sexual prime in their 20's and women's in their 40's. There has to be more to it?!?!

 

[Wash12]

Possibly, but that goes against what for years we've been told about men's sexual prime in their 20's and women's in their 40's. There has to be more to it?!?!

Maybe you've always been curious and it's just been building up to this point. Also society has become more lenient and accepting in the past few years. Could you now feel like you can express yourself?

 

[Y_Diner]

I've def. come to it late in life, but the suddeness has astounded me. I started with cross dressing, and it's just gone from there. I'm selective and safe, and yes Craigslist can be frustrating, but it still works....and at least I find there is far less fakes and 'phishing' on the m2m side of Craigslist. Answer a buncha ads. Someone will want to meet. Worried about safety? Start with a public coffee shop meeting.

I'm loving all parts of it, guess I'm a verse..... I've posted pics in other threads.

In the decades I was totally into women, I always loved making a woman cum, as often as she could take it. Maybe that 'oral' -ness has something to do with it.

I've corresponded with some on here, but nothing has cum of it, which is a little surprising. Everybody likes to visit New Orleans!

 

[Doogiedoogie]

Thanks. Love your dress

 

[Y_Diner]

Thanks. Love your dress

$6 from China. Ebay.

 

[luckyseven]

I am in my sixties now and although the wife’s sex drive has diminished I am still going strong and loving it. My wife and I haven't had sex in over 2 years. I've played with my cock for 50 years and thought it might be fun to play with another. I don't worry about it, and when a chance came to stoke someone else's cock, I did, and found that I enjoyed it.

 

[TomBoner]

I honestly believe during the 60's and 70's when I was growing up the social pressures to not have m2m sex were so strong that nobody would admit to wanting it. I mean, I experimented with a few guys back then but it was very few and not something you ever talked about. When I got into the late 80's I started experimenting more and now with places like this or other places it's perfectly fine to have bi-desires. Society just is more accepting of it because somehow we people started realizing it doesn't really make a shit of difference.

 

[hikingman37]

I honestly believe during the 60's and 70's when I was growing up the social pressures to not have m2m sex were so strong that nobody would admit to wanting it. I mean, I experimented with a few guys back then but it was very few and not something you ever talked about. When I got into the late 80's I started experimenting more and now with places like this or other places it's perfectly fine to have bi-desires. Society just is more accepting of it because somehow we people started realizing it doesn't really make a shit of difference.

Your right. And I want to thank you for all the great pictures you post here.

 

[TomBoner]

Your right. And I want to thank you for all the great pictures you post here.

No problem my man. I enjoy it myself.

 

[windyboy]

I would love to find an older guy who would introduce me to the ways of sex with two men

 

[Epifanio]

beyond the sensual feelings of pleasure from having another suck your cock, what emotions does it provide. Do you feel more dominant?

Dominant? No. Confident, yes. That I am looking to connect with a compatible partner/companion from time to time would nice.

 

[blubyuf6]

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[prowood]

Do you know what led you to the GLBT forum and the "Why do older men become bi-curious?" thread?

Great question. I know why I stopped in. Had serious desires for m2m for several years but the right situation has not presented itself...yet. I stopped in to see what others experiences have been. Seams there are a lot like mine.


Do love to chat with other likeminded and express desires and dreams. That always seams to really get my blood flowing to all the right places.

 

[crash197177]

As I get older, but not exactly old, I find myself simply allowing myself to have fun. And finally getting through my head that the only thing that is the end of the world is the end of the world.

 

[EroticMasseur]

I've experienced this attraction, fascination whatever you call it. I'm straight in the sense that I do not experience any attraction to men in a romantic sense. I started out thinking about this over a long period of time and then recently started giving guy's I met on the internet prostate massage and JO. Giving pleasure seems to be a big part of it. My most intimate experience came when I met an asian guy for prostate massage. The first time I gave it to him, he was bent over and I reached around to finish him off. As I watched his petite, hairless behind tensing up with my finger in him and finally his involuntary pumping as he ejaculated I was surprised at how attracted I was. He had a small, cut, very hard penis and he came rapidly in a few spurts. I found myself thinking that I wanted to suck him. Wasn't sure I could but couldn't shake the feeling. We met a second time and I ended up giving him a prostate massage, finishing him with my mouth. It was my first time I had ever had a man's penis in my mouth. When he came I actually swallowed. I was surprise and euphoric at the same time to know that I could do it and enjoy it. I sucked him off one more time before he stopped emailing me. Probably guilt issues. He's the only guy I've ever sucked. Seems like some kind of chemistry has to be in place for me to want to do it. Wouldn't mind finding someone to do that again.

 

[dacoach44]

I was amazed at my first sissy. As she was riding my cock, I admired her hard little flopping cock, and just had to suck it. Soooo sweet tasting. Not easy to find the right situation.

 

[timburrtwo]

My story/experience...

I would love to find an older guy who would introduce me to the ways of sex with two men

I find myself (at 68) often dwelling on this same wish. Up until I was in my late 40's I'd always thought of myself as exclusively heterosexual. Males had never attracted me, while females always did. It came as quite a shock to me when I began having fantasies of sexual contact with other men. It was many years before I acted on the urges, but I am glad I did. I am happily married, and our sex life is pleasant enough, but there is a missing dimension to my own individual sex life. I have dabbled in m2m sexual activity with a few guys, all in their 50's to 70's, and would have liked to continue in a regular "friendship" with a couple of them whom I found very compatible, but everyday demands on time and the problem of distance precluded that happening. Those with whom I was most compatible shared my life-long crossdressing fetish. It was a real treat to be with them "dressed", and I do so wish I could find someone else to share time with on a regular basis. Getting back to the beginning... I think that if I had been lucky enough to meet a nice gay or bi older mentor in my early life who recognized my potential and cultivated my fetish, that life would have been very different for me.

 

[sandy_folsom]

For those who have been with other men, how often does it result in anal sex as opposed to blow jobs or hand jobs.

The reason I ask is that the smell of, for the lack of a better term, "stinky butt" turns me off. When I was with a TG girl, even though she was clean and her bedroom was clean, every so often I would catch a whiff of the "stinky butt" smell and would turn me off.

Also, I think more preparation would be needed for anal sex. An enema perhaps? Kinda takes away from spontaneity. BTW I have this thing where when I shower, I wash my ass with the expectation that I might have anal sex even though I am still a virgin down there. Weird huh?

 

[Y_Diner]

BTW I have this thing where when I shower, I wash my ass with the expectation that I might have anal sex even though I am still a virgin down there. Weird huh?

Nope. Playing with my ass in the shower, using my fingers to open myself up, seeing that I could and that I opened up easy....all help make me ready to get fucked. When I finally was, it didn't hurt at all, and was wonderful.

Enemas, yes! Doesn't mean you're going to have anal sex, just make it part of your prep for someone to cum over....

And for all you curious wannabes....i was strictly into women for decades until this last Halloween (but always very oral. I've just learned to wanna lick all genitals!). Being older frees one up. Call it hedonistic expansionism. My joking word for it is 'seen-ager' as in senior teenager! Want to find someone gentle and kind for your first experience? Visit me in New Orleans. It's Mardi Gras season!

 

[maxwellq]

I'm in my early 70s, happily married, and I fantasize constantly about sucking a cock. I'm not attracted to men - nothing about them interests me except what's between their legs. I love to wear panties (I'm wearing a nylon and lace pair now) and spend more time than I should scouring tumblr for pics and videos of hard cocks in sheer panties.

I haven't a clue about why I've come to feel this way, and I don't think I'll ever act out my cock sucking fantasies. Ah, if only my wife were to grow a cock. . .

It's the same for me. I do not "love" men. Do not consider myself gay nor even bi, just a voyeur, exhibitionist and wanker. But the sight of a good looking cock, in or out of panties, is a source of arousal and pleasure.

 

[Y_Diner]

It's the same for me. I do not "love" men. Do not consider myself gay nor even bi, just a voyeur, exhibitionist and wanker. But the sight of a good looking cock, in or out of panties, is a source of arousal and pleasure.

I agree that labels are confining, and given too much weight, but if you're a guy, and a 'good looking cock, in or out of panties' arouses you, you are NOT completely heterosexual.

Forget societal pressure. Go for what turns you on!

 

[Joso]

Been playing with my ass since I was 11 and still haven't feng a real hard cock in my ass but dream about cock all the time, sucking it and being fucked. Wish it was safer Therese days I would be on my knees with my mouth open and asspussy lubed.

Get a dildo, about 6 inches or so. I've never had anal with a guy, but jacking off while using a dildo is VERY intense.

Joso

 

[Chicago69]

That's the hard part, finding a buddy with the same interests... and safe and discrete

This has been the issue with me. I'd love to try an experience with another guy, but I get weary when a guy is willing to mess around without even knowing much about you. Without knowing if you're safe or not.

If I met someone and we got along, trusted each other, and played safe, I'd be willing to try a lot.

 

[bottomshooter]

This has been the issue with me. I'd love to try an experience with another guy, but I get weary when a guy is willing to mess around without even knowing much about you. Without knowing if you're safe or not.

If I met someone and we got along, trusted each other, and played safe, I'd be willing to try a lot.

Me too but if I run across the right guy, I'd be willing to try alot as well