Why do older men become bi-curious?
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I think it may be because guys like blowit post suck great shaved cock pics!!
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I agree with this. I get pleasure in playing with my wife's things as well, and it's great to fantasize about doing that with another married guy. No e post.
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I think it's because older guys finally have enough life experience to know sucking another dick doesn't make you less of a man. I've never felt like less of a man because I was with another man. I still felt like me.
Why thank you. But I want to be one giving head to a nice cock.
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Don't know either....however....
I don't have an answer to why us older guys become bi-curious, I just know that I have...lol
I think for me, part of reason may be that I've always enjoyed being pleasured orally by my wife and I've watched her with my cock in her hands and in her mouth for so long now and seeing the smile on her face and how much she enjoys it, I just thought one day, "I wonder if I would enjoy the sensation of sucking another man's cock as much as she does"....with that thought, I've enjoyed entertaining the idea of sucking cock and look forward to actually doing it sometime soon. I'm sure I'd enjoy myself immensely
As for anal sex, same thing...it's something many females enjoy and I just figure I would too. I've played with anal toys for sometime now and have really enjoyed the feelings of various size toys in my ass, so I'd love to feel the real thing inside me.
Lastly, fantasy thinking is fun and having others enjoy watching me on camera pleasure myself is too, but doing it (both sucking and being fucked) for real would be awesome!....and for me, the answer to "why" is as simple as "because I can"....right?
I don't have an answer to why us older guys become bi-curious, I just know that I have...lol
I think for me, part of reason may be that I've always enjoyed being pleasured orally by my wife and I've watched her with my cock in her hands and in her mouth for so long now and seeing the smile on her face and how much she enjoys it, I just thought one day, "I wonder if I would enjoy the sensation of sucking another man's cock as much as she does"....with that thought, I've enjoyed entertaining the idea of sucking cock and look forward to actually doing it sometime soon. I'm sure I'd enjoy myself immensely
As for anal sex, same thing...it's something many females enjoy and I just figure I would too. I've played with anal toys for sometime now and have really enjoyed the feelings of various size toys in my ass, so I'd love to feel the real thing inside me
.Lastly, fantasy thinking is fun and having others enjoy watching me on camera pleasure myself is too, but doing it (both sucking and being fucked) for real would be awesome!....and for me, the answer to "why" is as simple as "because I can"....right?
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maybe its because the older we get the less we care what others think. We've already lived, we went to college, we finally found the job that will take us to our retirement, we bought the house, got married (probably already got divorced) , children, we lived our life.
We now dont care what others think. What others think now will not effect our lives. So why not?
We are always on the receiving end and see how much our female partners enjoy being on the giving end so why not? Control thing? Maybe but I think its more of getting full pleasure from sex. Both sides of it.
Who cares what others think!
We now dont care what others think. What others think now will not effect our lives. So why not?
We are always on the receiving end and see how much our female partners enjoy being on the giving end so why not? Control thing? Maybe but I think its more of getting full pleasure from sex. Both sides of it.
Who cares what others think!
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Feeling the same thing ..
I also started wearing panties at a young age and fortunately my wife was agreeable with including them in our sex life. And it was great, but as we all know good things come to an end. She really doesn't have the desire much anymore.
And I have definitely fantasize about being with another male lingerie lover..
But, it will have to be just that as I am in this marriage for the long hall.
One good thing is when do have sex, she is verbally including my fantasy of another man in lingerie. That will have to do..
I also started wearing panties at a young age and fortunately my wife was agreeable with including them in our sex life. And it was great, but as we all know good things come to an end. She really doesn't have the desire much anymore.
And I have definitely fantasize about being with another male lingerie lover..
But, it will have to be just that as I am in this marriage for the long hall.
One good thing is when do have sex, she is verbally including my fantasy of another man in lingerie. That will have to do..
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Maybe we were in a different era. Feelings were suppressed. Any curiosities we had are now accepted and we wish we could make up for lost time.
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I agree
When I reached adolescence, you were straight or gay. It never occurred to me I could try both. And I'll never get those years back.
When I reached adolescence, you were straight or gay. It never occurred to me I could try both. And I'll never get those years back.
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An erect penis has fascinated me since I first laid eyes on it. It is, afterall, quite a striking image. With the Internet, more pics are available now with some of them being so beautiful, it stirs things inside me I did not know existed .
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Lots of interesting answers on this thread. I, like many, don't have an answer tot he original question but have to admit that my own orientation has become more flexible over the years. I never saw anything wrong with being gay or bi, it just wasn't for me (well, except for that one time, but that's another story). Now I find the idea of sucking a cock to be intriguing. I've always liked anal and oral play and, so I guess it's just an expansion of my sexual horizons to include the other half of the population.
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A few years ago, maybe more than a few, I asked my wife to describe how it was when she was taking care of me orally. She escribed the pleasure, then asked 'why, are you thinking about trying it?'. I of course said no! No way!
I wish I had been truthful . . .
In the same situation I was truthful and said yes. The idea didn't and doesn't gross her out but she still hasn't offered her consent for me to go ahead.
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My wife did give her consent. While I did not have gay sex often, did really enjoy it. The surprise was how much sex with my wife I proved., both for her and me.
Mine initially gave consent stating she didn't want to know about it. Changed her mind and wanted the details. Then withdrew consent almost denying she had approved in the first place. These changes of approval took place in conversations over many months as I raised the subject occasionally just to check I had her consent. Drives me crazy with it to say the least.
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Steam Room desires bring back such fond memories.
Older men have always held my attention.
But lately, even more so.
Someone please tell me how I open and allow messages.
Thanks
Steam Room desires bring back such fond memories.
Older men have always held my attention.
But lately, even more so.
Someone please tell me how I open and allow messages.
Thanks
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Love steam rooms, can be so much fun!!
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Great thread! Thank you to the OP!
I guess I fit right in here. ;o) That's a nice feeling.
Though I sometimes thought about guys when I was younger, I didn't "fall" for them the way I fell for women. (Looking back, I had a habit of falling for women who were far away---I wrote lots of passionate letters and had very little in-person contact, though there was some.
When I thought about guys it was always sudden and overwhelming. Total horn-dog thoughts, just being the biggest slut ever. And soon as I came, it was all over. I didn't think much about it at other times.
Now, though, I think about it more and think there's a rightness to it for me. Still exploring....
Eager to chat.
I guess I fit right in here. ;o) That's a nice feeling.
Though I sometimes thought about guys when I was younger, I didn't "fall" for them the way I fell for women. (Looking back, I had a habit of falling for women who were far away---I wrote lots of passionate letters and had very little in-person contact, though there was some.
When I thought about guys it was always sudden and overwhelming. Total horn-dog thoughts, just being the biggest slut ever. And soon as I came, it was all over. I didn't think much about it at other times.
Now, though, I think about it more and think there's a rightness to it for me. Still exploring....
Eager to chat.
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Maybe male menopause, regression back to 'child / adolescence' experiences or curiosity.
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Steam Room part 2
I guess I got an early start in this being raised Catholic.
Learning to respect older men at an early age helped me become the man I am today.
Visiting the Y to go swimming was especially enjoyable for me.
I did not realize until I got there tho that it was male only and swim suit optional.
Memories I shall always cherish.
ChosenOne2
I guess I got an early start in this being raised Catholic.
Learning to respect older men at an early age helped me become the man I am today.
Visiting the Y to go swimming was especially enjoyable for me.
I did not realize until I got there tho that it was male only and swim suit optional.
Memories I shall always cherish.
ChosenOne2
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