Why did i become bi?

[Travler99921]

By saying bi does that mean that you’re actually attracted to men now? You said you like seeing cocks in the locker room, are you attracted to the man or just the cock? Do you want to make out with the man or just suck his cock?
If you aren’t attracted to men and only cock is that bi? I don’t know.

I have no romantic feelings toward men. I can be impressed by a well developed male body, but it is only the male genitals that arouse me. On the other hand, many parts of the female body are sexually arousing to me.

 

[Rodlicker57]

I don’t really know what to think if my sexuality. All I know is I get as excited and aroused when I see a nice Cock as I do see a beautifully curved sexy woman. My tendencies have shifted some towards the love of Penis. I seem to be more and more turned on by the thoughts of mutual blowjobs and frotting. I love to be in a setting where men are nude!

 

[Jeph77]

I have no romantic feelings toward men. I can be impressed by a well developed male body, but it is only the male genitals that arouse me. On the other hand, many parts of the female body are sexually arousing to me.

I feel much the same way, though I can't say I don't find other areas of the male body arouse me, and it's not at all the Adonis quality that affects me. A plump dad-belly or man titties heaving in the throes of the pleasure you're doing to him is more of a turn on than I expected. I like the openness of nudity in a sexual context. A hard cock, objectively, has many similarities with the feminine form.

 

[188743]

I am 62 and have thought about cock for as long as I can remember. I am not sure that there is a reason why I get excited about gay or bisexual men. All I know is that the idea of sucking a nice cock or getting fucked in the ass is a huge turn on. One day maybe I will make my fantasies come.true.

 

[Greytruck]

I am 62 and have thought about cock for as long as I can remember. I am not sure that there is a reason why I get excited about gay or bisexual men. All I know is that the idea of sucking a nice cock or getting fucked in the ass is a huge turn on. One day maybe I will make my fantasies come.true.

It’s a great fantasy.. even better reality

 

[saintcero]

It’s a great fantasy.. even better reality

The taste and smell of semen flooding your mouth. The sound and impact of your Top releasing his load inside your wanton butt. I don’t know why I became bi but I know why I stay bi.

 

[Vitriolhack]

By saying bi does that mean that you’re actually attracted to men now? You said you like seeing cocks in the locker room, are you attracted to the man or just the cock? Do you want to make out with the man or just suck his cock?
If you aren’t attracted to men and only cock is that bi? I don’t know.

Same sex attraction is fluid and changes over situations and circumstances. So, while being strongly attracted to women and to some degree also attracted to penises does not make you bisexual it does make you more bisexual than someone who is 100% only attracted to women and their genitalia.

Laws of attraction are interesting.

 

[Vitriolhack]

I am 62 and have thought about cock for as long as I can remember. I am not sure that there is a reason why I get excited about gay or bisexual men. All I know is that the idea of sucking a nice cock or getting fucked in the ass is a huge turn on. One day maybe I will make my fantasies come.true.

Fantasies are just that, fantasies. They can be a great window and a way to experience new feelings or deal with existing ones only implicating your mind.

Should fantasies become reality? Only you can answer that. Sometimes, the fantasy is hotter that the reality.

Hope this helps

 

[Vitriolhack]

I don’t really know what to think if my sexuality. All I know is I get as excited and aroused when I see a nice Cock as I do see a beautifully curved sexy woman. My tendencies have shifted some towards the love of Penis. I seem to be more and more turned on by the thoughts of mutual blowjobs and frotting. I love to be in a setting where men are nude!

Good for you for understanding yourself and what makes you “tick”.

 

[nostuff]

By saying bi does that mean that you’re actually attracted to men now? You said you like seeing cocks in the locker room, are you attracted to the man or just the cock? Do you want to make out with the man or just suck his cock?
If you aren’t attracted to men and only cock is that bi? I don’t know.

If in addition to men, I want to fuck women with hot bodies but have no interest in the individuals (i.e., Sarah Palin), would that mean I'm not bi?

Or what if I'm a hermit who comes out of my cave just long enough to fuck somebody regardless of gender before returning to my cave (heaven forbid)? Am I straight, bi or gay?

Labeling my sexuality doesn't offend me; it helps me better understand who I am. But I think you're digging too deeply into the weeds, my friend. If you enjoy both cock and pussy without emotional attachment to one or the other, I would call it being bi. But for those who are troubled by labels, who cares? Just enjoy yourself with whomever you can.

 

[Escierto]

Same sex attraction is fluid and changes over situations and circumstances. So, while being strongly attracted to women and to some degree also attracted to penises does not make you bisexual it does make you more bisexual than someone who is 100% only attracted to women and their genitalia.

Laws of attraction are interesting.

True. I never would have imagined being a bottom to a beautiful woman with a cock.

 

[beemerma99]

I was about 50. I was curious way earlier but after my marriage ended and I decided to explore my bi side.

 

[paulman999]

I was about 50. I was curious way earlier but after my marriage ended and I decided to explore my bi side.

How’s that working out so far?

 

[Spurtulator]

I think the days of AOL chat rooms was a catalyst for a lot of men. Surfing around late at night, looking for fun chat, it was hard to find women in those rooms. A guy sends you an instant message, and a little chatting pouts some ideas in your head. Then you find yourself surfing for some bi and gay porn and you go down the path.

 

[Vitriolhack]

True. I never would have imagined being a bottom to a beautiful woman with a cock.

Mmm, what a deliciously hot suggestion!

 

[Vitriolhack]

I think the days of AOL chat rooms was a catalyst for a lot of men. Surfing around late at night, looking for fun chat, it was hard to find women in those rooms. A guy sends you an instant message, and a little chatting pouts some ideas in your head. Then you find yourself surfing for some bi and gay porn and you go down the path.

I remember those days as well as the early Yahoo chats.

One must have at least some latent curiosity to go out and seek same sex adventure.

And that’s ok!

 

[none2_none2]

Same sex attraction is fluid and changes over situations and circumstances. So, while being strongly attracted to women and to some degree also attracted to penises does not make you bisexual it does make you more bisexual than someone who is 100% only attracted to women and their genitalia.

Laws of attraction are interesting.

"Laws" of same sex attraction are no different than opposite sex attraction they can be fluid or not, they can change over situations/circumstances or not. It more depends on the mindset of the personality of the person evaluating their own sexuality.

With bisexuality the definition is so hard to pin down. I think this weird obsession of some men who claim to be "str8, but crave cock" more means that they are definitely not str8 more than it means they are not bi. Since Bi sometimes is a catch all label for what is not purely str8 and not purely gay, if one has to label themselves, bi is closer to a matching label for those men who "love cock, but not men" than gay or str8 labels are for them.

My own definition of bi is the possibility of an individual to be both romantically and sexually interested in an individual of either sex. As to men who "love cock, not men", i simply see it as a personality flaw that allows them to separate the human being from their sex organs. We all have the propensity to have personality flaws. This is simply a flaw in the sexuality realm. Believe it or not, "crave cock, not men" seems very similar to the extreme end of the homosexual lifestyle culture that was more visible before the AIDS epidemic. A life where cock/cum worship was all that mattered. The human man behind the cock was insignificant and marginalized. Sex became no more significant than a trip to the bathroom to relieve one's self. You can still find that subculture within the gay community, but it isn't as prominent as it once was.

 

[tristantrotsky]

The taste and smell of semen flooding your mouth. The sound and impact of your Top releasing his load inside your wanton butt. I don’t know why I became bi but I know why I stay bi.

A couple of very convincing reasons here, I would have thought!

 

[Spurtulator]

I remember those days as well as the early Yahoo chats.

One must have at least some latent curiosity to go out and seek same sex adventure.

And that’s ok!

Doesn't everyone have at least the smallest molecule of curiosity?

The AOL chat room days were so much fun, especially if you were working from home.

 

[rc1989]

I feel much the same way, though I can't say I don't find other areas of the male body arouse me, and it's not at all the Adonis quality that affects me. A plump dad-belly or man titties heaving in the throes of the pleasure you're doing to him is more of a turn on than I expected. I like the openness of nudity in a sexual context. A hard cock, objectively, has many similarities with the feminine form.

Only one man did I feel emotional attraction too as well as a physical. He was much older with a bit of a belly and a little heavy. He knew I was mostly into pleasing him and that was fine with him and me. I'm that way with most guys. I want to make them feel good and later on I'll get off thinking about sucking them off or jacking them off.

 

[Jeph77]

Only one man did I feel emotional attraction too as well as a physical. He was much older with a bit of a belly and a little heavy. He knew I was mostly into pleasing him and that was fine with him and me. I'm that way with most guys. I want to make them feel good and later on I'll get off thinking about sucking them off or jacking them off.

So true it's a distraction getting pleasured while you're doing him. It's too much.

 

[passn3r0tic]

face fuck

I had an experience a few days ago where I encountered a straight guy and things just took off from there. We started talking, and the more we talked, the harder we both got. We found a dark place and I got on my knees and damn near threw up when he came down my throat. Then I came and ate mine too.

 

[liqueur]

Why did i become bi?
I was about 55 when I developed a sexual attraction to men... I know this has happened to other men. Do you have an explanation?

I have no science to prove my theories, but I don't believe that anyone “becomes” bi. I believe we are all born bi.

Cultural conditioning in our formative years, hormone levels, pure chance and opportunity, and who knows what-all else all have their parts in determining whether or not and how much this aspect of our sexuality gets expressed in our teenage years. Somewhere in there, over and above simple testosterone, the biological imperative to reproduce takes charge as well, and becomes a very powerful factor.

For those of us who don't become open to the MM side of our sexualities before our middle years, various things happen at that point. Hormone levels begin to subside. They may drop only slightly; not enough to be of any concern as far as the medical world is concerned. Bear in mind that scientists have only the shallowest surface understanding of how hormones affect our personalities. Half a percentage point away from “normal” might have a profound effect on one person and be negligible with the next. Meanwhile, the imperative to reproduce has either already been satisfied, or begins to feel less imperative.

But perhaps more than anything else, our maturity level increases to the point where we feel less constricted by cultural conditioning, and freer to think for ourselves about what would be good and what would be fun. And through all these changing factors, gradually for some and suddenly for others, the bi side of our sexuality is allowed to emerge and be expressed.


Myself? I had urges towards queer sex before I even hit puberty. Those urges came as early as my first understanding of what sex is, and that came very early for me, growing up on a farm. But my cultural conditioning was so strong that I was tormented with those impulses to the verge of suicide, and unable to act on them until I was well into my 40s. Healing (very slowly) began at virtually the moment I made the conscious decision that I was going to explore this part of my sexuality and my personality.

 

[headshaker]

I had a friend in my teens and another friend in my twenties that I would fool around with. Having sex with both of them was awesome. I got married, but for all these years I missed those guys, I miss sucking her cocks. Now I just watch gay porn sometimes have gay phone sex with guys I meet here. I still love my wife, but miss gay sex.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I don’t really know what to think if my sexuality. All I know is I get as excited and aroused when I see a nice Cock as I do see a beautifully curved sexy woman. My tendencies have shifted some towards the love of Penis. I seem to be more and more turned on by the thoughts of mutual blowjobs and frotting. I love to be in a setting where men are nude!

Mutual blowjobs is the best most intimate connection that friends can ever achieve