Why did i become bi?

[MikeBauer]

Hi Mike, I am a bit like you. I have always worn small G Strings. On holidays by the pool or beach my wife would wear a modest bikini I would be next to her in one of my skimpy G Strings. I loved looking at men and women in small swimwear the smaller the better, nice breasts and maybe a cameltoe, but always got turned on with a guys bulge. Seeing the outline of his cock in a wet pouch and if he had a G String on I was hard. When my wife stopped coming to the nude beach with me I went on my own but moved down the beach to the gay section wearing my G Strings, that's how I started out.

And how did it continue?

 

[SissyBrandi19]

I was about 55 when I developed a sexual,attraction to men. Before that I was totally straight. I have no idea why I changed. I noticed when showering after a workout I started getting excited by the cocks I was seeing. With in about 2 years I was sucking cock.

I have no idea why this happened. I was married, and it was not a sexless marriage. I did not become gay, but I needed cock as much as I needed straight sex. It was not a hormone problem.

I know this has happened to other men. Do you have an explanation? I am content being bi, and have no desire to be straight or gay. Im am curious as to why I changed.

Well, I didn't want to tell you but...one time after gym class when we were all showering? I found one of your pubic hairs and just as a joke, I took it and said a little, ohhhhhhhhhh....magic spell? I seriously didn't think it'd take but...color me embarrassed! I'm just glad it worked out! Look, we evolve. I would guess there was a time in your life when you didn't find ANY person...sexually attractive. Then you did...you found MANY people attractive and they probably all shared one trait - sex - that really doesn't predict much I mean, there's tremendous variance within the category of human female. So you became sexually attracted or potentially, to 50% of the world's population. That's a lot of people and lot of variance! And then...you just...increased the variance the type of person you find attractive! I'm not sure what the mystery is. Maybe the TRUE mystery is why we let culture and society make us feel guilty about things our body tells us it likes? Like oh, I'm a guy I can't like guys! Why? Um...because the Catholic Church? Oh boy...um, sit down a sec and let me tell you a little something about the Catholic Church...

 

[storypost603]

right out of high school had my one and only m/m experience we both sucked each other off and from that day I knew I really wanted to do it again. I got married and I have not yet done that and it has been 40 years but I have dreamed it, thought about it, relived that one time. I know it will happen again. I cant wait.

 

[GoodTimesOnly87]

I blame porn for my curiosity. Lol. Went off to college, the whole world opened up to me, and gradually started to really enjoy all kinds of porn, including gay porn. Wound up experimenting with a close friend and have enjoyed it since.

 

[Lemmetri]

I think I became bi because I was afraid to admit that I'm gay. So I'm married to the love of my life and my best friend and would never want to change that but if I had been honest as a young curious man I prefer see with men.

 

[Sexynmarried]

I became bi when I had a sexual experience with a friend in high school. That was about 20 years ago. I dated girls/women after that experience and I’m now married to a woman. I love my wife and I’ve been with her for 14 years. But I can’t shake the fact that there’s something missing and it’s cock. We’ve discussed bringing in a man but we both agreed that it would complicate our relationship and we don’t want to have an open relationship.
So here lies the issue for me. I love my wife and everything about her. When we are away from each other during the day…I think about getting fucked by a cock, sucking a cock, and being used. If anyone has any advice or would care to message back and forth about this, let me know. I’m at a loss right now.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I became bi when I had a sexual experience with a friend in high school. That was about 20 years ago. I dated girls/women after that experience and I’m now married to a woman. I love my wife and I’ve been with her for 14 years. But I can’t shake the fact that there’s something missing and it’s cock. We’ve discussed bringing in a man but we both agreed that it would complicate our relationship and we don’t want to have an open relationship.
So here lies the issue for me. I love my wife and everything about her. When we are away from each other during the day…I think about getting fucked by a cock, sucking a cock, and being used. If anyone has any advice or would care to message back and forth about this, let me know. I’m at a loss right now.

We should grab lunch…

 

[Sexynmarried]

We should grab lunch…

I would love to. Where are you from? I’m in Ohio.

 

[storypost603]

I became bi when I had a sexual experience with a friend in high school. That was about 20 years ago. I dated girls/women after that experience and I’m now married to a woman. I love my wife and I’ve been with her for 14 years. But I can’t shake the fact that there’s something missing and it’s cock. We’ve discussed bringing in a man but we both agreed that it would complicate our relationship and we don’t want to have an open relationship.
So here lies the issue for me. I love my wife and everything about her. When we are away from each other during the day…I think about getting fucked by a cock, sucking a cock, and being used. If anyone has any advice or would care to message back and forth about this, let me know. I’m at a loss right now.

I had the same thing happen but it was 40 years ago. I think about it every day and really want to do it again.

 

[1OldFaithful]

Did anyone even know what being bi-sexual was 30+ years ago? If a guy was ever suspected of playing around with another guy he was was called queer, but I thought it was just exciting as fuck!!

My buddy and I would look at his dad's Playboys and Hustlers and tell lies to each other about how we played with our girlfriend's tits and fingered their pussy's, and the two of us would jack off together, sometimes helping each other squirt.

Those days are long passed and yet every once in a while the opportunity arises to have a cock in my mouth. Being in the swing lifestyle it has turned out a few of the male halves of couples are bi as are their wives. My wife is bi so we tend to meet more often with those couples.

 

[Far1957mer]

For me, the curiosity began early, so I started to experiment with my fingers, carrots, candles, anything shaped long and thin. Then I was able to afford to by a cock shaped dildo and I began sucking this and drilling my ass with it, I soon had to have a bit more girth and length.......To this day, I have not had the real thing but I hope to very soon. My wife can never know, she would never understand my desire to suck a cock and take one in my ass. If she found out, I'd be homeless. I have had to hide my toys too, she does not like them in the bedroom. Writing this has made me horny so off to my toy box to suck one cock shaped toy as I take another in my ass....MMMMMMMMM!!!!!!!!

 

[Gemini1985]

I became bi when I had a sexual experience with a friend in high school. That was about 20 years ago. I dated girls/women after that experience and I’m now married to a woman. I love my wife and I’ve been with her for 14 years. But I can’t shake the fact that there’s something missing and it’s cock. We’ve discussed bringing in a man but we both agreed that it would complicate our relationship and we don’t want to have an open relationship.
So here lies the issue for me. I love my wife and everything about her. When we are away from each other during the day…I think about getting fucked by a cock, sucking a cock, and being used. If anyone has any advice or would care to message back and forth about this, let me know. I’m at a loss right now.

Hey so just throwing this out there because I'm curious. Recently divorced, married for 15 years. I have had an experience or two with trans women but part of me just wants to drop and swallow a cock if I'm being honest. I'm in Cincinnati fyi

 

[Sexynmarried]

Hey so just throwing this out there because I'm curious. Recently divorced, married for 15 years. I have had an experience or two with trans women but part of me just wants to drop and swallow a cock if I'm being honest. I'm in Cincinnati fyi

I sent you a PM. I hope that was ok.

 

[Vitriolhack]

I'll have to be careful how I write this but I was flashed by a guy when I was younger, nothing else happened as I was able to leave the situation and go on my way, but from then on I did wonder what caused me to think over and over on that experience. As I got older (over 18) I found that getting a girlfriend was tricky as I was new to a city where I had no natural social circle (I hadnt been to school there and had no social network outside of my job).

I started to go out to pubs and clubs in the evenings and found myself often in the company of more mature men. One such regular haunt had me striking up a friendship with a group of older guys, and one in particular offered me a comapionable walk back to his flat after a particularly heavy nights drinking.

He flattered me and asked on my dating status (then single, and a virgin), before offering me a blowjob. Although nervous, I was intrigued as it wasnt going to be anything more, and like most 18 year-old guys was happy to bust a nut at the drop of a hat. I certainly enjoyed the release.

Shortly afterwards I started dating a girl about my age, who I met via a bar job, and started my assumed straight acting persona in life. It was only about 25 years later that those memories returned, and over time I found that I couldnt ignore them as easily as perhaps I could have in the throws of the sexual headonism I experienced in my early 20's.

I had to re-visit my past memories and find out. The fascination was still there, and as I expored more I relised that I had never been entirely straight. Ever.

Thank you for sharing part of your life. Quite a journey.

 

[Vitriolhack]

Honestly I think it's lack of sex at home and then add on top that affairs with a woman ruin marriages because they will be the first ones to let the cat out of the bag.
Men keep their bi sexuality to themselves unless it's faceless talk like here

While I don’t disagree with you, there is social stigma around bisexual men.

For Bisexual women, even straight”ish” women find it cute or hot when seing 2 women together. Bisexual Men rarely enjoy the same treatment.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Did anyone even know what being bi-sexual was 30+ years ago? If a guy was ever suspected of playing around with another guy he was was called queer, but I thought it was just exciting as fuck!!

My buddy and I would look at his dad's Playboys and Hustlers and tell lies to each other about how we played with our girlfriend's tits and fingered their pussy's, and the two of us would jack off together, sometimes helping each other squirt.

Those days are long passed and yet every once in a while the opportunity arises to have a cock in my mouth. Being in the swing lifestyle it has turned out a few of the male halves of couples are bi as are their wives. My wife is bi so we tend to meet more often with those couples.

Sex is a banquet on which we feed, we should be open to sampling every delicacy on the menu...

 

[CdKimMajick]

I was about 55 when I developed a sexual,attraction to men. Before that I was totally straight. I have no idea why I changed. I noticed when showering after a workout I started getting excited by the cocks I was seeing. With in about 2 years I was sucking cock.

I have no idea why this happened. I was married, and it was not a sexless marriage. I did not become gay, but I needed cock as much as I needed straight sex. It was not a hormone problem.

I know this has happened to other men. Do you have an explanation? I am content being bi, and have no desire to be straight or gay. Im am curious as to why I changed.

I knew in my teens I was bi. From the first time a guy fucked me I knew that was exhilarating and felt so good

 

[liqueur]

I was about 55 when I developed a sexual,attraction to men. Before that I was totally straight. I have no idea why I changed. I noticed when showering after a workout I started getting excited by the cocks I was seeing. With in about 2 years I was sucking cock.

(I apologize if I'm repeating what others have already said. I don't have time right now to read through all these pages)

I don't know the answer, but I do know this is a pretty common experience. So my suspicion is that it's a hormonal thing, even though the doctors will always tell you your testosterone is “within normal levels.” I say this both because it seems to be a common experience, and also a common age for it to occur.

That said, I don't think anyone “becomes” bisexual. I think we are all potentially bisexual, and age and maturity (and maybe the decreasing biological pressure to create children) all work together to allow this laten bisexuality to come to the surface.

 

[gary04]

I became bi because it's the only way I can get a blowjob.

 

[paulman999]

I became bi because it's the only way I can get a blowjob.

I understand that

 

[HawkeyeA1]

I am like you except I was in my 60's when I became curious

More like early the 70s for me.

 

[dodgeboy2]

I was about 55 when I developed a sexual,attraction to men. Before that I was totally straight. I have no idea why I changed. I noticed when showering after a workout I started getting excited by the cocks I was seeing. With in about 2 years I was sucking cock.

I have no idea why this happened. I was married, and it was not a sexless marriage. I did not become gay, but I needed cock as much as I needed straight sex. It was not a hormone problem.

I know this has happened to other men. Do you have an explanation? I am content being bi, and have no desire to be straight or gay. Im am curious as to why I changed.

I don't think you changed, I think you may have had something inside you that has slowly revealed itself. I think almost all if not everyone has a bit of gay, bi & straight inside them for most I think one or more takes hold, i.e. the straight becomes prevalent and you consider yourself straight, the gay prevalent and you consider yourself gay, if bi is the prevalent one you are bi, I think sometimes one of those tendencies pushes itself into the forefront and you begin to have those excitements you seem to have. Does it make you go from straight to gay/bi I'm not sure but it makes you question why you suddenly feel as you feel, for me I say you haven't changed your mind has just brought forward some new and exciting emotions and urges leaving it up to what we all have choice to move forward and experience what inner desire your mind has or ignore it and leave yourself to wonder what may have been.

 

[mrdiscreetshh]

I don't know if I became like this over time or was born to discover it but I love cock!

 

[Cabeza]

I think I sucked dick before I became bi. I messed around with a few guys, mostly when I was a bit drunk, and only years later came to accept that I was attracted to people of all genders.

 

[Cardinal]

I was about 55 when I developed a sexual,attraction to men. Before that I was totally straight. I have no idea why I changed. I noticed when showering after a workout I started getting excited by the cocks I was seeing. With in about 2 years I was sucking cock.

I have no idea why this happened. I was married, and it was not a sexless marriage. I did not become gay, but I needed cock as much as I needed straight sex. It was not a hormone problem.

I know this has happened to other men. Do you have an explanation? I am content being bi, and have no desire to be straight or gay. Im am curious as to why I changed.

By saying bi does that mean that you’re actually attracted to men now? You said you like seeing cocks in the locker room, are you attracted to the man or just the cock? Do you want to make out with the man or just suck his cock?
If you aren’t attracted to men and only cock is that bi? I don’t know.