Why are married men attracted to me?

[Lovepotion69]

Now, I've always seen funny patterns of who I tend to go for, or who goes for me.

When in Sweden: Only foreigners notice me, and for whatever reason it's mainly black men. If the men are Swedsih, their surnames are always Andersson.....

In England: In general mainly Indian and African men like me.

And generally I tend to always meet men who have some connection to Computing/Engineering/IT. LOL

Now there's a new phenomenon coming into my life. I've had two married men within my class liking me. The first one actually made a pass and shocked me by kissing me. He's from West Africa, married and with three kids. The second one has never made a pass, but we've flirted a lot more and I know he's interested (but more disciplined than the African guy!). This one is from Pakistan, married and with two kids.

Of course I've made it clear to both that I don't get involved with men that are taken.

Why am I suddenly attracting married men????

/LP

 

[Weevil]

because you're easy.

 

[Lovepotion69]

because you're easy.

He He
Then I would have slept with the African man straight away...

 

[Synnerman]

Seems to me darlin you can remove the word married from the equasion. I think men in general will always find you attractive as long as you present yourself as you do. That is to say you come across sexy and some pick up on that.

As for seeing patterns, maybe you are only noticing the married ones and not the others. Or not, just a thought.

 

[Lovepotion69]

Seems to me darlin you can remove the word married from the equasion. I think men in general will always find you attractive as long as you present yourself as you do. That is to say you come across sexy and some pick up on that.

As for seeing patterns, maybe you are only noticing the married ones and not the others. Or not, just a thought.

Synnerman,
I'm happy if I come across as attractive. I'm happy if ANYONE likes me.

Just find it funny it's all of a sudden married men...and that some actually act on it... Puts me in a weird position at times...

/LP

 

[Synnerman]

Synnerman,
I'm happy if I come across as attractive. I'm happy if ANYONE likes me.

Just find it funny it's all of a sudden married men...and that some actually act on it... Puts me in a weird position at times...

/LP

I believe if you like yourself you put that out to the world and people will respond to that. As far as them being married or not, you handled that perfectly in explaining your preference. Of course the fact that you attracted them in the first place is a feather in your cap to start with. Enjoy it and know you are attractive and wait for the one you want..