Who else likes CNC and BDSM?

[cascadiabound]

I've never participated in a CNC scenario, but it does feature occasionally in fantasy or verbal role play/or when he tells me that he's going to subject me to a CNC scene as a way of getting me all amped up. I know it does something to me because when we fall down that rabbit hole together I get obscenely aroused and the sex is absolutely banging.

I think I'd want to feel physically forced. Blackmail situations aren't really my jam. But manhandle me, tie me up, disorient me to where I am and who else is present, gag and/or blindfold me as a part of it and make me feel the helplessness of the scene, maybe throw in free use elements, sprinkle in fear (cut my clothes off with a knife, connect pain to my arousal), multiple men, exposure or risk of exposure, etc and it all seems to wrap me up in giving it all over after squirming and straining and objecting and more.

I think I fantasize about these kinds of elements at times to take the teeth out of memories and past history. If it's all with consent inside of a safe framework even if it feels very terrifying in the moment, it can help me reclaim myself and also revel in the deep tender aftercare immediately after which I can reframe every moment in a new and better way

 

[lil_jenni]

I think I fantasize about these kinds of elements at times to take the teeth out of memories and past history. If it's all with consent inside of a framework even if it feels very terrifying in the moment, it can help me reclaim myself and also revel in the deep tender aftercare immediately after which refrain every moment in a new and better way

Same for me, although I don't think of it as aftercare with Hubby. It's returning to the loving relationship we always have from the intense session I needed at that time. That reality, although it was very hard for me to accept I was worth it (and I still feel that way sometimes), is what makes CNC truly therapeutic and satisfying.

I had done some CNC prior to Hubby, as well as milder forms of giving up control in a controlled way. But those times were more about easing a buildup of pressure than a true release. Having that person I trust with everything be the one to whom I give control has enabled a true release when I need it.

 

[subbyclarajane]

Like I’m not a sub/slave but I sure do like being used and fucked like a rag doll while also having a ball gag shoved in my mouth and all of my holes used. Hard. Being tied up or tied down is extremely hot and one of my favessssss!

I’ve never been gangbanged but I sure would love to be fucked till I black out and woken up to more cock.

ummmm yes same.

 

[subbyclarajane]

So... my gf and I have been through "situations". I wouldn't call mine violent, but hers were. She's been describing desires that are CNC, and she really gets off on it. I'm pretty... hesitant... given my history and hers. I don't want to overdo it, but I'm also very gentle and I don't get off on being rough. But I really do all I can to give her what she wants.

Any thoughts on easing toward it? A safe word has been part of our play for a while. But I guess I'm looking for a progression.

(per the above, though, I do like to be roughed)

 

[milfylata]

So much to experience. Never had a bdsm or similar encounter - closest was my hands being tied with a scarf and me sucking him off. Leaving this comment here so that I can follow the forum and read all your experiences!

 

[DorothyParker99]

love this post. hard same. lol
love being tied up or down. when Im in the mood, if he catches me in the right moment the CNC is my favorite. love roughness & use that is alongside his knowing how much I need it. I havent done a gb either. I'm curious about it though and like being 'threatened' with it. haha

also wonder if I could do a gb if it is *for* the person I'm with, because thats the part that gets me hot, not wanting to admit I want it, but doing it for his pleasure. whewwww

 

[Goldenh123456789]

love this post. hard same. lol
love being tied up or down. when Im in the mood, if he catches me in the right moment the CNC is my favorite. love roughness & use that is alongside his knowing how much I need it. I havent done a gb either. I'm curious about it though and like being 'threatened' with it. haha

also wonder if I could do a gb if it is *for* the person I'm with, because thats the part that gets me hot, not wanting to admit I want it, but doing it for his pleasure. whewwww

Exactly this Ms DorothyP ! In the mood I love CNC.. and I’m usually in the mood. I’ve had a few experiences that could be called gangbang, and lots of rough and violent encounters. The loss of control gives an indescribable feeling, and doing it for him so he can reclaim later (after loaning me out for 24 hours) is a great feeling

 

[_Peach_]

*raises hand*

 

[ClockworkFox]

Er, has anyone told sexysluttyyyy about this thread? Because she'll be kicking herself. Or is she too busy gangbanging in dark alleyways with da big-cocked bruddahs? Come in, please, sexysluttyyyy ...

 

[BusinessBarbie]

No matter how much therapy I have, there’s always a place in my head and between my legs for the CNC fantasies lol

 

[ChuckWolf]

Done this.

A fun variation is the "wrestling" scenario, where you're both wrestling and one of you dominates and "pins down" the other, with the winner getting to do stuff to the "loser".

 

[MikeForYourWife]

Wow, such an incredible collection of sexy women with a desire to be used. As the Beach Boys song goes, “ I wish you all could be California girls”

 

[Aznlilwhr]

love this post. hard same. lol
love being tied up or down. when Im in the mood, if he catches me in the right moment the CNC is my favorite. love roughness & use that is alongside his knowing how much I need it. I havent done a gb either. I'm curious about it though and like being 'threatened' with it. haha

also wonder if I could do a gb if it is *for* the person I'm with, because thats the part that gets me hot, not wanting to admit I want it, but doing it for his pleasure. whewwww

I’d love that as well

 

[MikeForYourWife]

The more I read, the more I want to give each and every one of you the experience you desire. Always open to chat here or send me a dm if your interested in discussing your fantasy or experiences on the subject.

 

[Samantha47]

Like this?

https://pt.pornhub.com/gif/27224801

Love to experience that

 

[jd_sw]

I think BDSM is most fun when it has a little of CNC in it for the dom to keep pushing the sub's edge.

 

[Samantha47]

No matter how much therapy I have, there’s always a place in my head and between my legs for the CNC fantasies lol

You sound perfect for me

 

[EoghanDubhara]

No matter how much therapy I have, there’s always a place in my head and between my legs for the CNC fantasies lol

Well said!! I totally agree. I fantasize about cnc daily.

 

[Samantha47]

I've dreamed about experiencing that

 

[Liberia]

@Dominique84

 

[NIKAlit96]

I enjoy BDSM but not the dark side of BDSM. I am not into pain or the too taboo. CNC interests me some of it was the right situation and mood. And my boyfriend has talked about free use and I would like to explore that some.

 

[LaceyPeach24]

I think it's no coincidence that people who have experienced traumas or violence or issues of control and vulnerability, whether directly or observed, then fantasise about elements of CNC, to feel it's reclaiming of control or safety within their sexuality. A re-empowerment of sorts. Also the amount of threat or perceived threat experienced in daily life as women, can also manifest in this way too.

The difference between a violent sexual act and CNC is very much the consent element. That's what appeals. Best that all aspects are discussed prior in writing, with boundaries, hard limits and safe words being clear. To protect all involved.

 

[Lustygirl23]

Me! lol shocking I know

 

[40sBiCuckCple]

My wife has really wild rape dreams and has enjoyed several pre arranged CNC “events”. She prefers to be kidnapped and taken out in the woods…very hot.
(BTW….not in anyway condoning violence that is non-con.)

 

[KatieKulka32]

In my fantasies - I enjoy a lot of CNC and BDSM.

IRL - slowly working to open up to more of it.