Who else likes CNC and BDSM?

[cascadiabound]

I've never participated in a CNC scenario, but it does feature occasionally in fantasy or verbal role play/or when he tells me that he's going to subject me to a CNC scene as a way of getting me all amped up. I know it does something to me because when we fall down that rabbit hole together I get obscenely aroused and the sex is absolutely banging.

I think I'd want to feel physically forced. Blackmail situations aren't really my jam. But manhandle me, tie me up, disorient me to where I am and who else is present, gag and/or blindfold me as a part of it and make me feel the helplessness of the scene, maybe throw in free use elements, sprinkle in fear (cut my clothes off with a knife, connect pain to my arousal), multiple men, exposure or risk of exposure, etc and it all seems to wrap me up in giving it all over after squirming and straining and objecting and more.

I think I fantasize about these kinds of elements at times to take the teeth out of memories and past history. If it's all with consent inside of a safe framework even if it feels very terrifying in the moment, it can help me reclaim myself and also revel in the deep tender aftercare immediately after which I can reframe every moment in a new and better way

 

[lil_jenni]

I think I fantasize about these kinds of elements at times to take the teeth out of memories and past history. If it's all with consent inside of a framework even if it feels very terrifying in the moment, it can help me reclaim myself and also revel in the deep tender aftercare immediately after which refrain every moment in a new and better way

Same for me, although I don't think of it as aftercare with Hubby. It's returning to the loving relationship we always have from the intense session I needed at that time. That reality, although it was very hard for me to accept I was worth it (and I still feel that way sometimes), is what makes CNC truly therapeutic and satisfying.

I had done some CNC prior to Hubby, as well as milder forms of giving up control in a controlled way. But those times were more about easing a buildup of pressure than a true release. Having that person I trust with everything be the one to whom I give control has enabled a true release when I need it.

 

[subbyclarajane]

Like I’m not a sub/slave but I sure do like being used and fucked like a rag doll while also having a ball gag shoved in my mouth and all of my holes used. Hard. Being tied up or tied down is extremely hot and one of my favessssss!

I’ve never been gangbanged but I sure would love to be fucked till I black out and woken up to more cock.

ummmm yes same.

 

[subbyclarajane]

So... my gf and I have been through "situations". I wouldn't call mine violent, but hers were. She's been describing desires that are CNC, and she really gets off on it. I'm pretty... hesitant... given my history and hers. I don't want to overdo it, but I'm also very gentle and I don't get off on being rough. But I really do all I can to give her what she wants.

Any thoughts on easing toward it? A safe word has been part of our play for a while. But I guess I'm looking for a progression.

(per the above, though, I do like to be roughed)

 

[milfylata]

So much to experience. Never had a bdsm or similar encounter - closest was my hands being tied with a scarf and me sucking him off. Leaving this comment here so that I can follow the forum and read all your experiences!