When I first realized...

[GreenEyeBiChick]

When did you realize you were Bi/Gay?

Hi Everyone,
I'm new here, so this is my first"official" thread to start. Please bare with me if this has been done before...
When did you know when you were bi or gay? I remember being in like, 2nd grade and touching my friend's vagina. Also, when I was around 11 I fooled around with a friend that lived down the street with me. We were playing Truth or Dare just so we'd have an excuse to kiss eachother, lol. Now THAT was some good stuff!
I enjoy reading everyone's posts, and am looking forward to replies to this one. I get hot just thinking about it.

Mandy

 

[chromefreak]

I think I was around 7 or 8 at first. My interest in both genders developed naturally and in a healthy manner from there.

 

[Betticus]

I had it beaten out of me at an early age, around six or so.

Chromefreak, exactly what kind of car is that in your av? I want to say it looks a bit like a Grand National but I can't really see anyone swapping out the turbo buick motor for a supercharged one.

 

[CJontherocks]

Just recently, actually. My first male-male sexual experiences were at a very early age, but I always had plenty of reasons why "bi" didn't apply to me. I ran out of excuses when I decided I wanted more than just monkey sex.

 

[MidnightsBlue]

Around 8 or 9 but didn't act on it until about 2 years ago.

 

[GreenEyeBiChick]

How 'bout describing our first experiences?? That could be fun?!?

 

[egoble]

I knew when I was pretty young. We used to compare on sleepovers. Got to the point that sleepovers were just a time to play with eachother's and see who got the hardest.

Eventually we did more, but this thread just wanted to know when we first realized it.

 

[Etoile]

Hi GreenEyeBiChick, welcome to Lit!

You will probably want to try the Search feature of the bulletin board. You can search just within this GLBT Chatter section. We have had multiple threads about "first experiences" and "when did you realize" before. There is even one that is sticky at the top of this forum. Read up on what others have done, and feel free to chime in!

 

[GreenEyeBiChick]

Thanks for the welcome, Etoile. Sorry about the multi-posts, I guess I have some more Lit exploring to do!

 

[LindaL]

In college I had my first girl-girl crush. There was some drunken kissing and fondling, but it never went anywhere. I denied that part of my sexuality for many, many years.

In my mid 30's I finally admitted to myself that I enjoyed seeing women make love to each other in adult movies. And I was 39 when I had my first truly intimate experience with another woman.

 

[Regis2001]

I first realised I was bisexual at school. There was this one boy I developed a very close friendship with, then he left to go and live in a different town with barely a day's notice. I realised afterwards how I really felt about him, and ahy I was so upset that he's gone.

Sadly, he was as straight as a ruler. Bastard.

 

[RavenousRae]

I've known since I was in elementary school that I thought girls where just as interesting as boys, however I didn't realize that there were different classifications for this. I believe when I was in middle school and my mom finally told me that my Aunt was a lesbian and that her girlfriend, the woman I had also called "Aunt" since I was little was her lover, then I started to think and begin to understand that what I felt for other girls was more than just an "interest." So although I don't think I defined myself as bisexual until late high school, I always knew that I had equal fascination, both mental and physical, with men and women. I shared my first kiss with a girl when I was very young, elementary school, but since then I have not been lucky enough to meet another lesbian/bi-woman in any areas I've lived in to have a relationship with.

 

[RadicalFlower]

i am going to half to say 8 or 9 ..when me and my other little girlfriends would play house with each other..and i felt good around them we would touch each other chest and all and pretend we were sleeping together we never got caught though ....BUT i never relised it big time untill here recently..i have never acted on it in my adult life yet....But i would like too someday ..
i love to see two woman Holding each other ...