What's your greatest insecurity?

[ToTaboo]

I'll be all dumb an earnest and say that I am always assuming that I'm dull and bothering someone.

If it means anything, I appreciate your contribution. I read through some of your posts and they made me smile. You're not dull, you're not bothering, and I appreciate you being here.

 

[ToTaboo]

There is a character limit on replies, so i can't even begin with this.

easier to ask what are my greatest securities.

I'll bite. Sincerely, what's 1 think you genuinely like about yourself?

 

[Bry1313]

Extroverted introvert here, I never organize the event but I definitely want to be there. So much anxiety from that, and then when I get home from the event, I need so much time to decompress.

 

[ToTaboo]

Being vulnerable and someone taking advantage of that.

I've been there, and it can be hard to trust again after. But finding people you do feel comfortable being vulnerable around is everything

 

[Leigh81]

Giving up my CPA designation & not working. I feel that I should be doing something other than being a "housewife".
I need a part time volunteer position with animals or continue with being a dog trainer.

 

[ToTaboo]

Not being enough. Never being enough...

You have people in your life that love you. You are loved. You are appreciated. You are enough.

 

[ToTaboo]

That no one can ever like let alone love me. That I am merely, begrudgingly, tolerated by everyone. So I push people away before they have the chance to abandon me.

That's lonely, and I'm sorry you feel that way. If it's any consolation, the you that you expose here is liked. Not just tolerated, you're not someone everybody has to walk around in these spaces, you are liked. You are appreciated. You are valued.

 

[ToTaboo]

I don't have emotional insecurities really..
I'm insecure about my physical scars.

My insecurities are largely physical as well. It's hard looking in the mirror and seeing anything other than what you don't like. But there's a lot about your body that's lovely and beautiful. Those are the parts that others see. With your scars, you are beautiful.

 

[ToTaboo]

Giving up my CPA designation & not working. I feel that I should be doing something other than being a "housewife".
I need a part time volunteer position with animals or continue with being a dog trainer.

Being a stay at home spouse can be a whole lot! If you write an itemized list of all you do every day, I'm sure it'd be a mile long.

Of course, you should pursue what makes you happy. There's no reason you should limit yourself, but the reason you want to work shouldn't be because you feel worthless or less. You're not!

 

[ToTaboo]

Extroverted introvert here, I never organize the event but I definitely want to be there. So much anxiety from that, and then when I get home from the event, I need so much time to decompress.

People are exhausting lol. I get that, and it sucks feeling stuck between wanting to hang out and being overstimulated when you do. Finding smaller groups helped me a lot

 

[eric_erosfan]

Class jumping, while what the American dream is based on, is extremely hard in reality. The impacts of poverty do not simply disappear with having money. While not a millionaire, I still hold my breath when paying for a full cart off groceries and that has not been an acutual issue since I moved out of my childhood home. I know the money is there but I will still feel like a fraud.

Yep. Or when there is an actual glitch with your card and people behind you in line assume that you're some poor person trying to buy more than you can afford. Someone born rich, they probably never have that feeling when their card fails to read.

 

[orangecurious]

I'll bite. Sincerely, what's 1 think you genuinely like about yourself?

Nothing, Really
I have good music taste. Well, i think so.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Nothing, Really
I have good music taste. Well, i think so.

You're writing is amazing.

 

[Photog1rl]

I guess I can add being invisible to the list
Thankfully those that I value notice me.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

So so many.
How I look, what I say, if I fit in, am I too much or not enough. Does anyone even notice anyway?
Am I needed wanted and accepted or am I just tolerated and pitied

 

[Photog1rl]

So so many.
How I look, what I say, if I fit in, am I too much or not enough. Does anyone even notice anyway?
Am I needed wanted and accepted or am I just tolerated and pitied

We need a hug reaction

 

[orangecurious]

We need a hug reaction

seconded

 

[AveryElle]

More insecurities than not. Biggest is probably that I'm just a stopover until someone finds something/someone better.

 

[Xerxes82]

I mean, I'm pathologically incapable of believing a woman could be sexually or romantically interested in me.

My gf and I have been together 2 years, have a healthy sex life given our medical issues and communicate effectively. And I STILL havw days where I'm convinced she's just playing until she finds someone better.

 

[JustAnotherFlower]

I mean, I'm pathologically incapable of believing a woman could be sexually or romantically interested in me.

My gf and I have been together 2 years, have a healthy sex life given our medical issues and communicate effectively. And I STILL havw days where I'm convinced she's just playing until she finds someone better.

You are worthy of love and are attractive in both mind and body. *big squishy bosomy hugs*

 

[Chillygirl]

After 2 failed marriages I worry I’ll always be looked at as disposable by my partners

 

[Crownvic]

After 2 failed marriages I worry I’ll always be looked at as disposable by my partners

I used to think that way...but I discovered it made me stronger..

 

[drobert44]

Afeard i wont be able to fuck my hot granny when I see her next.

 

[Deleted member 6808749]

Afeard i wont be able to fuck my hot granny when I see her next.

Really? Bit odd that.

 

[Deleted member 6808749]

After 2 failed marriages I worry I’ll always be looked at as disposable by my partners

Currently watching my 2nd marriage fall apart. Knew it was coming but still hurts. I'm too old to start again and just want to curl up into a ball