What's your greatest insecurity?

[ToTaboo]

We all have insecurities. Everyone has something about themselves that they don't like, and it sucks looking in the mirror and feeling your eyes drawn to that perceived flaw.

One thing I've found that helps me is hearing that other people have similar experiences. Others feel the way that I do. It makes me feel like I'm not alone.

So, in the interest of positivity, what are your insecurities? What do you dislike about yourself?

Anyone commenting, please keep positive and uplifting! Let's all chance a bit of vulnerability and be rewarded with love and acceptance!

 

[Donotrustanybody]

0 insecurities

I am close to perfect


I love myself a lot

 

[Mrtenant]

My cock is really just too huge. And the great big balls with way too much jizz. I worry every time, it's just too much. I have to wrap that hog with athletic tape to my leg to keep it under control.

 

[eric_erosfan]

An unserious thread but I'll give a serious answer. I grew up extremely poor. But now I am a millionaire and when somebody tells me to wait to go up to a buffet line at a conference or wedding, I get PTSD because underneath I am still that poor kid who had to wait in line to get a meal and worried that I would do something wrong and they would yell at me and not let me eat.

 

[crazychemgirl]

That I’m not intelligent at all and have just been faking it and some day everyone will discover this.

 

[NRJLIVES4ever]

My penis. Way too big.

 

[bashfull]

Fear of success. And I'm not sure exactly when that happened. I let my spouse (soon hopefully to be ex) beat me down over time and I started doubting myself

 

[Sgts19]

My penis. Way too big.

Can I borrow it for the weekend my wife might want something different

 

[orangecurious]

There is a character limit on replies, so i can't even begin with this.

easier to ask what are my greatest securities.

 

[LustfulIntentions2]

I'll be all dumb an earnest and say that I am always assuming that I'm dull and bothering someone.

 

[AmberLGreen]

That one day I will lose a little bit of shine off my perfection

 

[crazychemgirl]

I'll be all dumb an earnest and say that I am always assuming that I'm dull and bothering someone.

This for me as well.

 

[LustfulIntentions2]

This for me as well.

I'm sorry, because I have way too much first hand knowledge of how our brains lie to us and make us feel this way.

 

[Pad_Foot]

Losing friends and not being sure why.
Essentially self mind fucking.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Being vulnerable and someone taking advantage of that.

 

[UnquietDreams]

I'll be all dumb an earnest and say that I am always assuming that I'm dull and bothering someone.

This for me as well.

And me as well. I am very unlikely to start a PM with anyone, in any tone because I figure it will be unwanted. "You miss every shot you don't take," yeah, but you also don't hurt from every punch you don't take as well.

 

[AmberLGreen]

And me as well. I am very unlikely to start a PM with anyone, in any tone because I figure it will be unwanted. "You miss every shot you don't take," yeah, but you also don't hurt from every punch you don't take as well.

Try looking at it from a different angle. Right now you are not having a conversation with somebody because you are worrying about it being unwanted. If you message them and they don’t respond or say they don’t want to chat, then you aren’t having a conversation with them. You are in the same place with regards to the conversation but you don't have to worry about whether it would be unwanted or not.

 

[UnquietDreams]

Fear of success. And I'm not sure exactly when that happened. I let my spouse (soon hopefully to be ex) beat me down over time and I started doubting myself

A friend made me a cup which said, "What could you do if you weren't afraid to succeed?"

 

[UnquietDreams]

Try looking at it from a different angle. Right now you are not having a conversation with somebody because you are worrying about it being unwanted. If you message them and they don’t respond or say they don’t want to chat, then you aren’t having a conversation with them. You are in the same place with regards to the conversation but you don't have to worry about whether it would be unwanted or not.

Here is the angle I am at. I am incredibly shy. (Don't laugh, it takes a lot for me to get past that part, but when I do, I am all in). For me to want to reach out to someone is hard enough. I am --to my chagrin-- still bleeding from recently being rejected and discarded. It is foolish, but there I am. The thought of reaching out and being rejected again may be a bridge I cannot pass.

 

[AmberLGreen]

Here is the angle I am at. I am incredibly shy. (Don't laugh, it takes a lot for me to get past that part, but when I do, I am all in). For me to want to reach out to someone is hard enough. I am --to my chagrin-- still bleeding from recently being rejected and discarded. It is foolish, but there I am. The thought of reaching out and being rejected again may be a bridge I cannot pass.

I am sorry that you have gone through that and I hope that it is a bridge you can consider crossing again in the future

 

[dawn_of_night]

Here is the angle I am at. I am incredibly shy. (Don't laugh, it takes a lot for me to get past that part, but when I do, I am all in). For me to want to reach out to someone is hard enough. I am --to my chagrin-- still bleeding from recently being rejected and discarded. It is foolish, but there I am. The thought of reaching out and being rejected again may be a bridge I cannot pass.

Wow, this hits the nail on the head...
Seriously though, I'm here to attest, it's their loss. I have had no greater pleasures here(recently) thank getting to know you.
And I say that from my most insecure ass, because it is larger than my heart which also speaks truth but in my less bluntliness.

 

[BellaBestia]

That no one can ever like let alone love me. That I am merely, begrudgingly, tolerated by everyone. So I push people away before they have the chance to abandon me.

 

[UnquietDreams]

I am sorry that you have gone through that and I hope that it is a bridge you can consider crossing again in the future

Thank you.

Wow, this hits the nail on the head...
Seriously though, I'm here to attest, it's their loss. I have had no greater pleasures here(recently) thank getting to know you.
And I say that from my most insecure ass, because it is larger than my heart which also speaks truth but in my less bluntliness.

And I love you too, sweetheart.

 

[StillRain]

My penis. Way too big.

Bazooka.

 

[StillRain]

That one day I’ll risk a coffee and there will actually be no bathroom around when it hits.