What's the Most Important Part of a Relationship?

juicylips

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Honesty?

Trust?

Faithfulness?

Communication?

Sex?

Appearance?


What do you feel your relationship just HAS to have in order for it to work.
JL:kiss:
 
Communication and trust. Pretty much everything else is negotiable.

Honesty? "Sure honey, I don't mind <insert godawful task here>!"

Faithfulness? Hey man, Mel Gibson asked her for a night of steamy passion. I'll give her a break and congratualate myself on my fine taste in women.

Sex? Great sex is never worth being with a total bitch.

Appearence? Hell no. I'm not looking for a really expensive accesory for my suit and car here.
 
Sillyman said:
Communication and trust. Pretty much everything else is negotiable.

Honesty? "Sure honey, I don't mind <insert godawful task here>!"

Faithfulness? Hey man, Mel Gibson asked her for a night of steamy passion. I'll give her a break and congratualate myself on my fine taste in women.

Sex? Great sex is never worth being with a total bitch.

Appearence? Hell no. I'm not looking for a really expensive accesory for my suit and car here.

Wow...I have to admit I'm a little surprised on how low you put appearance. You had to be attracted to her to be in a relationship. And she doesn't have to be faithful either, as long as she fucks someone who looks like Mel Gibson? :D

JL
 
wouldn't it have to be love?

I always say only two things drive us in this life fear and love

well there has to be some kind of love there for the relationship to exist

even if your just fuck buddies, it's the sex you love.

if it's purly pletonic. still you love that person else you'd not want to be around them.

if your useing them, you love what your useing them for (usually money or a car)

still I say it's love.
 
Hi Juicy !!!

I'd say trust, companionship, and compatibility......along with sex, of course.

<wink>
 
KinkyKat said:
Hi Juicy !!!

I'd say trust, companionship, and compatibility......along with sex, of course.

<wink>

Good Morning, KK.:)

Companionship and compatibility. Absolutely.
JL:kiss:
 
Open communication lends itself to honesty, trust, and love...if the love is there.


So my vote, communication.

Oh...and certain knot tying skills are a benefit!


:p
 
juicylips said:


Good Morning, KK.:)

Companionship and compatibility. Absolutely.
JL:kiss:

Mornin, Hon.

* takes another hit of coffee while trying to pretend not to stare at Juicy's AV. LOL

:)
 
I dunno.

Just ask my ex. ;)

I would guess it would be friendship. If you dont like the one you love,it will never last.
 
KinkyKat said:


Mornin, Hon.

* takes another hit of coffee while trying to pretend not to stare at Juicy's AV. LOL

:)

Don't think you're trying hard enough.

I can feel it.:D
JL:kiss:
 
juicylips said:
Honesty?

Trust?

Faithfulness?

Communication?

Sex?

Appearance?


What do you feel your relationship just HAS to have in order for it to work.
JL:kiss:

I'd say Communication. The things I place importance on all rely heavily on it.
Trust comes from having good communication, and honesty, which is a vital part of communication.
If you communicate well with your partner, you know the needs, the desires of that person, so they don't need to look elsewhere for what they need, and that takes care of sex and faithfullness. Appearance? You love who you love, and you don't get to choose the vessle that person comes in.
 
TRUST - Complete trust, without it that it is doomed to fail eventually... <sad smile>
 
At this point in my life, I think it is self-understanding. Love of self.

I am in a mood. I was supposed to say oral sex....
 
lovetoread said:
I dunno.

Just ask my ex. ;)

I would guess it would be friendship. If you dont like the one you love,it will never last.


I think that is one of the most difficult things to work out. You may love them so much, but not like them. It's not a contradiction.

JL:kiss:
 
juicylips said:



I think that is one of the most difficult things to work out. You may love them so much, but not like them. It's not a contradiction.

JL:kiss:

Exactly.
 
juicylips said:


Don't think you're trying hard enough.

I can feel it.:D
JL:kiss:

* concentrates harder

:)

btw...couldn't agree more on the distinctions between "like" and "love"
 
Communication and honesty. . .without a doubt.

Of course, mindblowing sex is always a plus. :D
 
cutie pie said:
Communication and honesty. . .without a doubt.

Of course, mindblowing sex is always a plus. :D


Yeah, what she said... :D
 
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