What's something you've always wanted to ask the opposite gender?

[Stevew0073]

Do men prefer the ultra fit bodies of a female or ones with a little extr? I know sometimes the fantasy is there of the perfect body, but is that really the desire of men in real life?

What areas do you like on women with a bit extra that we would be surprised about?

What matters to you most? The size of a woman or the ability to adjust to your specific needs or wants if you had to choose and why?

I think every male is different. I like nice feet and legs but eyes are the most important to me. A lady with a controlling mind and look that can bring me to my knees is amazing.

 

[tolyk]

Do men prefer the ultra fit bodies of a female or ones with a little extr? I know sometimes the fantasy is there of the perfect body, but is that really the desire of men in real life?

What areas do you like on women with a bit extra that we would be surprised about?

What matters to you most? The size of a woman or the ability to adjust to your specific needs or wants if you had to choose and why?

I can't speak for other men on this of course, but inner beauty trumps outer beauty any time. I look for deep emotional connections. Outer beauty is just a bonus.

I don't have a size criteria. As it's worked out, I've never dated a "ultra fit" woman, or man. I've dated from out of shape to obese. Physical features I enjoy are eyes and asses. And the women in my life have amazing eyes and asses

 

[KamaKamaSutra]

Do men prefer the ultra fit bodies of a female or ones with a little extr? I know sometimes the fantasy is there of the perfect body, but is that really the desire of men in real life?

What areas do you like on women with a bit extra that we would be surprised about?

What matters to you most? The size of a woman or the ability to adjust to your specific needs or wants if you had to choose and why?

I think most men would perfer a more "natural" body for the most part, that includes those with a bit extra.

The size doesn't matter as much as the confidence. Any of us who are a bit more always struggle with it, but I love seeing women, especially, confident in their body and not afraid to be sexy.

 

[thefishfryer]

Do men prefer the ultra fit bodies of a female or ones with a little extr? I know sometimes the fantasy is there of the perfect body, but is that really the desire of men in real life?

What areas do you like on women with a bit extra that we would be surprised about?

What matters to you most? The size of a woman or the ability to adjust to your specific needs or wants if you had to choose and why?

I'm originally attracted by nice hair and a natural smile, but occasionally another physical attribute may attract me. I once approached a girl in a bar as she had beautiful shoulders, it turned out she was a ballet dancer. After the initial attraction it become much more cerebral and about connection in other ways such as humour and commonality of interests.

 

[Shi_One81]

Amish beards on men who aren’t Amish (Amish beard = beard with no mustache)... why do you guys do this? I don’t understand it.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Amish beards on men who aren’t Amish (Amish beard = beard with no mustache)... why do you guys do this? I don’t understand it.

This is not a good look, agreed. What’s the deal with that?!

 

[Shi_One81]

This is not a good look, agreed. What’s the deal with that?!

Right? It’s one of those moments where I want to ask if they own a mirror. But, then I remember I’m supposed to be nice to people and I just smile and nod.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Right? It’s one of those moments where I want to ask if they own a mirror. But, then I remember I’m supposed to be nice to people and I just smile and nod.

You can do whatever you want.

 

[thefishfryer]

I don't understand the current fascination with face fungus. We seem to be returning to the Victorian state of male insecurity.

 

[Beardpositive77]

Amish beards on men who aren’t Amish (Amish beard = beard with no mustache)... why do you guys do this? I don’t understand it.

Some guys' mustaches don't connect to their beard, and some can't grow a healthy mustache.

Other than that....idk!

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Do men prefer the ultra fit bodies of a female or ones with a little extr? I know sometimes the fantasy is there of the perfect body, but is that really the desire of men in real life?

What areas do you like on women with a bit extra that we would be surprised about?

What matters to you most? The size of a woman or the ability to adjust to your specific needs or wants if you had to choose and why?

I've known ( but not slept with) a few female body builders. They cannot maintain that look outside of competition.

Personally, I like a shapely ass, irrespective of size, real boobs, and expressive eyes. If that great ass comes with thick thighs, that's great. If gravity pulls down the weight of the real tits, no worries.

Glasses,wrinkles etc., see above.

Amish beards on men who aren’t Amish (Amish beard = beard with no mustache)... why do you guys do this? I don’t understand it.

The only guy who ever really pulled that off was Abraham Lincoln. I've had a full beard with moustache for almost 35 years. I would never go to a chinstrap / Amish / Honest Abe. It's weird.

Off to condition my beard.

 

[Interested_Girl]

If men had to choose 3 things that attract them to a woman, what would they be?

 

[Tedfkats]

If men had to choose 3 things that attract them to a woman, what would they be?

1. smile
2. eyes
3. attitude

 

[Interested_Girl]

1. smile
2. eyes
3. attitude

Want to elaborate on attitude?

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Breast implants and scars around the ariola?

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

If men had to choose 3 things that attract them to a woman, what would they be?

1. Show me who you are. Actions really do speak louder than words. Truth is better than fiction.

2. Tell me what you think, even if you think I might not agree. (I already know my opinion, what's yours?).

3. Smile, but only if it's real.

Plus one of those unconventional physical traits I keep mentioning would get me to look up in the first place.

 

[Callmetim]

If men had to choose 3 things that attract them to a woman, what would they be?

1. Intelligence. Smart is sexy. The organ between the ears should be far more coveted than the one between her legs.
2. Face, eyes in particular. Slim, average, curvy, none of it matters; it is your face that I will remember the most.
3. Chemistry. You both know when you click. If you don’t, you likely won’t.

 

[Tedfkats]

Want to elaborate on attitude?

Well. Thats hard. Its the je ne sais quoi.
Sexiness would best describe it. How a woman carries herself. If she carries herself with confidence and feels sexy (insecurities aside, we all have those), then that is an attractive attitude. Insecurity, not feeling sexy... I just don't find it attractive. There are many women who most would see as plain... but to me... omg... I see it. I see their attitude. I can almost smell their sexiness. On the other hand.. many women who most would find gorgeous... no thanks.






ps. I am ugly AF. This is how i get through life. Fake it long enough......

 

[Interested_Girl]

1. Show me who you are. Actions really do speak louder than words. Truth is better than fiction.

2. Tell me what you think, even if you think I might not agree. (I already know my opinion, what's yours?).

3. Smile, but only if it's real.

Plus one of those unconventional physical traits I keep mentioning would get me to look up in the first place.

And the unconventional physical trait is?

1. Intelligence. Smart is sexy. The organ between the ears should be far more coveted than the one between her legs.
2. Face, eyes in particular. Slim, average, curvy, none of it matters; it is your face that I will remember the most.
3. Chemistry. You both know when you click. If you don’t, you likely won’t.

What does chemistry mean to you?

Well. Thats hard. Its the je ne sais quoi.
Sexiness would best describe it. How a woman carries herself. If she carries herself with confidence and feels sexy (insecurities aside, we all have those), then that is an attractive attitude. Insecurity, not feeling sexy... I just don't find it attractive. There are many women who most would see as plain... but to me... omg... I see it. I see their attitude. I can almost smell their sexiness. On the other hand.. many women who most would find gorgeous... no thanks.






ps. I am ugly AF. This is how i get through life. Fake it long enough......

Ah yes, confidence. How so many of us lack it.

I don't know what you look like, but I'm sure that isn't true.

 

[Deleted member 3041612]

men:

What are things women innocently do that attracts your attention?

 

[Interested_Girl]

men:

What are things women innocently do that attracts your attention?

Good Q!

 

[Tedfkats]

men:

What are things women innocently do that attracts your attention?

Trick Question:

Do you mean really innocently? Or seemingly innocently? Hmm???

 

[inkandiridiumnibs]

If men had to choose 3 things that attract them to a woman, what would they be?

Personality
Confidence
Eroticism (the state of mind, not the physical aspect)

 

[Interested_Girl]

Personality
Confidence
Eroticism (the state of mind, not the physical aspect)

Personality is pretty broad, what are some traits in their personality that attracts you?

 

[Callmetim]

What does chemistry mean to you?

When after an hour of talking it seems like only ten minutes have passed.
When after that hour, you’re both comfortable asking and answering the uncomfortable.
When silence is not awkward, just a pause for mental digestion.
When you tell them the worst things you’ve ever done and they don’t care.
When eyes are not something looking at you but an opening into their soul.

You click. The switch is on, and you hope never to become unplugged.