what to do

[Guest]

with someone who keeps me guessing as to what she really wants? I consider this person a friend but they think I hate them.
Maybe I should give up but she is beautiful and funny.
Suggestions on how to treat this internet relationship?

 

[MissTaken]

No, many of us have been led down a garden path with empty promises. Men play games too. Really.

However, drinking doesn't solve anything.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

She continues to play games with you and yet you still ask what you should do about her ... why don't you make your life a lot easier and just stop talking with her and forget about her.

Find a woman who will not play games and make you smile rather then a woman who makes you jump thru hoops, no ?

 

[loveyamon]

with a woman who continues to play games. First she says she really likes me and wants to meet and then sends me some bullshit email about wanting to just be "friends" and yet she doesnt act like a friend. She has so much hate for me and its hard for me to understand why.
She says there is another guy who she is seeing and doesnt know if she should be w/ him or not. Y'know, this is what leads me to drink. A person makes me hope for something great and then shreds my expectations.
But, I guess its just me right?

Cut your losses before it costs you anything. People like that usually aren't content with themselves. They will hurt you , because it's about them.

 

[Guest]

She continues to play games with you and yet you still ask what you should do about her ... why don't you make your life a lot easier and just stop talking with her and forget about her.

Find a woman who will not play games and make you smile rather then a woman who makes you jump thru hoops, no ?

you are right. Just when you think you know a person, they show another side.

MissT, women do it more often (from my experience anyway).

 

[Aphrodisiac]

you are right. Just when you think you know a person, they show another side.

Good luck...

 

[Blackbich]

From what I've read, it's probably not you.

I'd handle this person with a very long handled spoon, so to speak. It's appears this person is VERY confused about what they want.

Tread very lightly, dear.

Good luck.

 

[JazzManJim]

I consider this person a friend but they think I hate them.

Sometimes people want to hang onto their notions of someone rather than look and see what really is. You can't crowbar them out of that position, no matter how much you want to.

Seems you've laid your cards on the table and they won't. It's probably time to cut your losses and find someone who sees with clearer vision.

 

[MissTaken]

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MissT, women do it more often (from my experience anyway).

Probably becuase you don't date men?

IT is a people issue.

And an internet issue. I believe the internet objectifies men and women. Having access to so many people in "one" place renders us interchangeable. There is too much candy to select from and that is why I truly respect those who can meet on the net and make it work.

But, if she is waffling, yes, distance is best.

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: what to do

Sometimes people want to hang onto their notions of someone rather than look and see what really is. You can't crowbar them out of that position, no matter how much you want to.

Seems you've laid your cards on the table and they won't. It's probably time to cut your losses and find someone who sees with clearer vision.

you are right, I have been totally honest with them about my intentions.
BTW, great quotes by Homer & ...LOL

*MissT, do you not know about my pref's?

 

[MissTaken]

Re: Re: Re: what to do

*MissT, do you not know about my pref's?

Oops!

I will shut up now.

*blushing*

So, you meet the wrong women and I meet the wrong men on line, agreed?




Actually I have stopped using the internet as a dating resource, for many reasons. That is why I have such strong feelings about it.

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: Re: Re: what to do

Actually I have stopped using the internet as a dating resource, for many reasons. That is why I have such strong feelings about it.

I have tried dating services here called cupid.com and one called ***personals.com and they didnt work. So yeah, no more net affairs.

 

[just pet]

Relationships aren't easy, ever.
I have heard it said:
10% of people love you
10% of people hate you
80% of people could care less

Find that 10% that appreciates you and don't waste your time on the other 90%

Even when we know it is time to let go, it is still painful.
I wish you well.

 

[Guest]

besides, there is someone else I am interested in, someone who is a real lady, not a little girl

 

[just pet]

besides, there is someone else I am interested in, someone who is a real lady, not a little girl

Well then, there you go
Free to play in other yards

 

[BgMma]

Since I don't know all the details, the only thing I can say is to make your feelings completely clear.

If she can't get what you mean from being frank, then she either doesn't care, or isn't interested.

I don't know what else to say to that!