What should I use?

[average_joe23]

First off, Hi everyone. Now my question, I tried to milk my prostate tonight but was unsuccessful. I first tried a tampon, I think I started feeling the sensation but wasn't sure, I then tried one of those 4" hard plastic vibarators. both objects were hard to keep a grip on because of the lube. What is the right toy/household item to use? I have read many threads describing the feeling but not one that I remember anyone saying what works for them, do I need something longer than 4" and if I do, what can I use?

 

[average_joe23]

If anyone likes, please PM me with suggestions, Thanks.

 

[EJFan]

I have read many threads describing the feeling but not one that I remember anyone saying what works for them, do I need something longer than 4" and if I do, what can I use?

i'm pretty sure there are all sorts of suggestions in the "milking a man's cock" thread in the HT cafe. many stories are recounted and methods/implements discussed in there.

the only thing i can really proffer is that there are toys specifically designed for the stimulation of the prostate. i can't give any names or any links, but a search of any adult toy site will surely find something for you.

good luck!

 

[LoboBoy]

use a dildo. Don't use a tampon. It'll dry out your rectum and you can tear inside. You want to use a decent amount of lube too.

 

[SweetErika]

Welcome, Joe!

A g-spot vibe/dildo is great for prostate stimulation because it has a curve that makes for an easy reach (so you wouldn't have to angle the tip up toward your tummy to get the right spot). We're partial to our Hitachi Magic Wand attachments, but have used all sorts of vibes and fingers.

One of the silicone or Pyrex/glass g-spot toys would probably be great, especially because they can be boiled or thrown in the dishwasher, then used vaginally as well. I get excited about multi-taskers and toys we can both enjoy.

There are also anal toys specifically for this; the Aneros is one, but I've heard it's a little overrated for the price (around $45 for a molded piece of plastic, I think).

There's a Household Toys and Lubes thread in The Blank Manual sticky at the top of this forum that might have some ideas, too. You know, someone mentioned using the back of a slightly bent metal spoon on their g-spot. Something like that might be worth a try, though make sure it's a very smooth curve with no sharp edges, and you're extremely careful not to hurt yourself. I'd imagine something kind of spherical or egg-shaped with a handle would be the safest out of the household options.

Whatever you use, make sure it's clean and either can be sterilized or you always use a condom. Nothing ruins the fun like an illness!

ETA: You shouldn't need something longer than 4 INSERTABLE inches, as the prostate's only a couple inches in usually. It'll need to be long enough to hold onto comfortably and firmly (don't want the ER to have to go in and retrieve it, right?) while pressing toward your abdomen though.

 

[SubNebGuy]

your finger, so you can bend it and hit the prostate.

straight objects will lack the proper angle to hit it.

 

[Exciteher]

your finger, so you can bend it and hit the prostate.

straight objects will lack the proper angle to hit it.

I agree. Use finger first until you figure out where your prostate is, and how and which parts of it responds to different strokes, pressures and etc... then you have a better chance of figuring out how to use a toy or "insertable" of some sort. Can use a finger cot, condom or glove on your finger if you want. Between 2 and 3" up there, right behind your cock. You'll know it when you find it.

 

[Curious_Red]

The wife and I have tried many times but it's never happened. She's got the magic wand thingy and boy it feels good but it's never been milked. I've had pre-cum hanging from my head for about a foot or so towards the ground (which is WAY more than I usually have) but never any milking. But, it's always fun to try!

 

[christian1971]

Lube???

We have been using an Oil based lube but now I am reading that some sites say there good to use others say there not to use water based? But water based are very slippery at least with these lube it does the job?

 

[rrod69xx]

use.

use anything that is not to long, not to wide, and not sharp.
Check out adam and eve they have some prostate ticklers that will help. THey also have some anal specific lube that you can buy. This all cost money but its for fun right. Unless you decide to find some other household items to try.
I;ve found with a double dong I've been able to stroke out about a cup or so of slick clear fluid. sometimes its a little yellow and has that smell. But most of the time I can just rub my prostate till it feels like I;m peeing. excellent orgasmns