What makes a good/worthy sub?

[eastern sun]

That's what I try to be for my Doms anyway and they're always happiest with me when I am my most authentic me, however that may express itself.

This has not always been true for me, which just proves that the measure of "goodness" and/or "worthiness" depends a lot on the needs and desires of the D.

Once that is clear, the s can decide for him/herself whether or not the relationship is meeting his/her needs.

 

[where]

Well, to give the explanation I've given before "Just do as you're fucking told." Anything else is relationship-specific I'd say. Hell, even that part may be too relationship-specific for some.

Yup.

Not into renovation. I either like 'em or don't like 'em, but I'm not going to rebuild 'em.

Tinker about, maybe.

So it comes down to chemistry.

And doing what the fuck you're told.

See, this is where i 'm going wrong. I NEVER do as I'm told!