What do you look for...

[PlayfulLilDarlin]

I'm not sure what I'm looking for. I think given previous relationships I'm doing much better at realizing what I am looking to avoid. This is a good question to think about.

 

[NastyNyx]

I work at vandeigh industries …

Hey Jd Hope you're good.

 

[Lady2020]

Can you fing commuincate.

 

[Lady_Libra_]

When you are looking to date what do you look for in a new partner? What matters to you the most? What do you not really care about? Is it really all about sex?

Look for someone with manners who knows how to carry on a conversation. Witty enough to slip in those small innuendos at the right moment and make me laugh.
What matters most is someone who can fill my cup the same amount that I fill theirs.
No it’s not all about sex, but it’s nice when the spark is there.

 

[drobert44]

Look for someone with manners who knows how to carry on a conversation. Witty enough to slip in those small innuendos at the right moment and make me laugh.
What matters most is someone who can fill my cup the same amount that I fill theirs.
No it’s not all about sex, but it’s nice when the spark is there.

Makes perfect sense......

 

[Mgwb11]

I'm not sure what I'm looking for. I think given previous relationships I'm doing much better at realizing what I am looking to avoid. This is a good question to think about.

I think that's where I am.

Actually, I know one thing I want, and that's communication. It's too easy to hurt and be hurt by poor communication.

 

[KatieDoes]

I’m not looking, but if I were:

Competence. Someone who has their shit together (for the most part) and can make or fix things is very attractive to me.

Emotional intelligence. Again, someone who has their shit together (for the most part). I find the ability to recognize and communicate emotional needs to be incredibly alluring.

Confidence. Someone that knows who they are and likes themselves. A healthy enough ego to be open and vulnerable instead of posturing with arrogance.

Empathetic. Someone that cares about other people and the world around them. I like people that are actively trying to make the world a better place for everyone, not just themselves.

Curiosity. Someone that loves to learn new things, see new places, try new activities, meet new people, hear other perspectives.

This should be a given, but it’s more difficult to find than I’d hope… someone that genuinely likes women. As entire people, not just as dick receptacles. Someone that has women friends, that respects women colleagues, reads books written by women, and listens to music by women.


Chemistry. It’s unpredictable and undefinable, but you know it when it happens.

Physically, I don’t especially have a ‘type’. I’m into both men and women. I do have a thing for dreamy eyes and kissable lips.

 

[LittleSwitchy]

I'll be honest I am really surprised with a few exceptions, no one has really mentioned physical attributes, aside from being physically attracted to them.

That is cause one’s looks are just wrapping. Looks opens the door. It’s what is inside that keeps one’s attention.
If looks are the only interest. That relationship won’t last long. Unless they’re just in it for fuck buddy.
If there’s no connection. No spark. Why stick around?
If there’s nothing they offer other then looks. If they can’t hold a decent conversation. If they’re dumber then a box of rocks. Hell I’d rather talk to a dog. Least Fido is entertaining.

 

[English_guy_bkk]

Sadly but truthfully someone with low expectations. A lady who is a rubbish dancer is a bonus so l look good in the spotlight. One that gets my humour after a while and is willing to hang on in during the tough times (Monday through Friday afternoon)
I'll cook and sweep daily up to a point.
- Pipe smoking ladies are more than welcome.
- A good sense of humour is good.
- No Sunderland fans.(joking)

 

[English_guy_bkk]

Sadly but truthfully someone with low expectations. A lady who is a rubbish dancer is a bonus so l look good in the spotlight. One that gets my humour after a while and is willing to hang on in during the tough times (Monday through Friday afternoon)
I'll cook and sweep daily up to a point.
- Pipe smoking ladies are more than welcome.
- A good sense of humour is good.
- No Sunderland fans.(joking)

That was long winded..get a grip!

 

[fma20fma]

moderate spending capacity and a stout penis with end piercing and a desire and craze for frequent and regular bareback anal sex.

 

[Inthesewalls]

Really just someone I can be sweet and soft with who is reasonably intelligent, kind, at least somewhat self aware and good at communication. Someone who is nowhere near perfect but, doesnt desire to stop growing. Open to the world and all it has to offer. Someone who is similarly perverted as I with a considerable sexual appetite. Someone I can be silly and serious with. Someone who is constant and trustworthy.

 

[BongoGal]

...a stout penis...

I had never thought of a penis as 'stout', but now I want to find one.

 

[magic_rat]

Reasonably intelligent, reasonably attractive, and the desire to fuck like an animal on demand.

 

[Backagainpart4]

Intimacy. To know and be known. Connection beyond the sexual. Intelligence and a sense of humor.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

When you are looking to date what do you look for in a new partner? What matters to you the most? What do you not really care about? Is it really all about sex?

When I look for a new online partner, I look first for chemistry, good chatting availability, emotional availability and a great sense of humor and someone who wants the same things as me and who is willing to put in an equal amount of effort. Great sexual chemistry and mutual physical attraction is very important to me too. Oh and they also need to be generous and kind with a loving heart and a dirty mind.

To boil it down to one word though, intimacy is what I look for and what my heart desires.

 

[BongoGal]

I will not say that I look for partners who remind me of me, but I think I kinda do. I definitely do not believe in my case that opposites attract. Variety can be perfectly fine, but I can't imagine being attracted to someone who generally likes things I hate and hates things I love.

 

[oldsoul24]

Intelligence, maturity, masculinity, tall, sense of humor, strong but not an overly muscular body, ability to hold a conversation that doesn’t have to be centered just around sex

 

[fma20fma]

I had never thought of a penis as 'stout', but now I want to find one.

stout is slightly thicker and shorter. it is best with minimum lube bareback anal.

 

[Saltfountain]

If there's no click, its a clunk...

Got to be able to chat and be excited for the next message before sex and looks get involved! No matter how 'sexy' we are physically now, it's all going south sooner or later, so if looks and fucking are the only attractions then you're fucked. As it were...

Also, apart from one or 2 litsters, most of your time won't be spent fucking. So if you don't desire the non fucking bits, it's the same result.

And being a Sunderland fan is an obvious head start...

 

[fma20fma]

what is sunderland?

 

[Saltfountain]

It's an English city with a football team. My team

And it was a poke back at the guy earlier

 

[fma20fma]

thanks

 

[Backagainpart4]

Things need to click. A VGK fan that actually understands the game would be fun to talk with.

Kinda annoys me when someone pretends they are a hockey fan then talks about halftime and quarters, and has no idea what icing means.

Don’t pretend you are knowledgeable about a particular subject. Just be yourself.

 

[Chatmehard]

what is sunderland?

Best fans in the land