Rob_Royale
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I think Pandaburr pretty much nailed it right there.
What do you look for...
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“We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.”
Britva415
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Something in between.
AnnyMouse28
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Thank you for being honest. A lot of people will say of course it is not just about sex. When most know that is a lie. Sex is a major part of a relationship. Many relationships/marriages break up when one of the parties change on how much or what type of sex they want.
Coranhorn
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That's the key, finding someone who matches your interests but still helps you grow as you help them grow
Britva415
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lifeis2short2b
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There is a big difference dating for long term and dating just for sex. I'm sure every guy and gal can relate to that
Coranhorn
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Depends. You could find exactly what you are looking for while being with them. And as long as you both understand the dynamics of your relationship, that's fine too.
AnnyMouse28
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Can't one be looking for more than just sex and not (necessarily) be looking for something long term?
I know for me, I just want to find someone to do things with, someone to hang out with, go out to dinner, festivals, travel, etc. Sex is not the most important part for me. But I am not foolish enough to think that it would be a forever thing.
Baseballcoach43
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Something healthy
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No bullshit.
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jackthedriver
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when dating i think its the ladies eyes and her overall style that sway my decision
English_guy_bkk
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The upside down smile really floats my boat.
lifeis2short2b
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Yes that's why there is a difference.
mikelike123
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Things I look for are personality first. They need to have a sense of humor. They should also be sexually adventurous. In terms of body shape, I've dated thin, in shape and larger ladies. In my experience, the larger ladies are the best lovers. I'm sure that's not always the case. That's just the way it's been for me. I've also made love to woman significantly older than me. They were great lovers, too.
ToPleaseHim
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Intelligence, kindness, similar values, sense of humor, geekiness, and stability are essential to me. Taller than me is a plus (I’m pretty tall…) and dominant in the bedroom is a big plus. I like smart, confident men. Being able to handle my ADHD is pretty important. I loathe arrogance. Must like dogs.
Edited to add: This is not a personal ad. Please do not send me any more PMs telling me you’re exactly what I’m looking for. I’m extremely happily coupled. The thread title says “What do you look for in a partner,” not “What are you looking for in a partner.” I’m not looking.
Edited to add: This is not a personal ad. Please do not send me any more PMs telling me you’re exactly what I’m looking for. I’m extremely happily coupled. The thread title says “What do you look for in a partner,” not “What are you looking for in a partner.” I’m not looking.
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Thank you for saying this, everyone I know doesn't believe I can just spend a nice time with a lady and not have sex with her. Admit it bothered me for a while, then as I aged I just didn't care what they thought.
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YesIamReal
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I think marriages end for a few reasons. This one is one of them. I think in part it is also just remarkably easy to walk away from a marriage today once only one partner makes that decision.
I say that as someone recently (2 years) separated and still going through a rough divorce (at least from mine and the kids' point of view).
But I have also just started dating. I am attracted to all sorts but physically it usually comes down to someone with nice proportions, has aged relatively well, which likely has more to do with taking care of themselves, but a lot to personality. So so many just don't seem to be looking for a partner or a relationship but for a travel companion. "I love to travel", "Have been to 40 countries, want to visit 40 more", etc. Some of us still have kids to raise and a career. We would like a normal relationship that doesn't include constant dinners and travel. (A bit of kink would be nice too.)
It is sad to see how many women in their 40s and 50s aren't taking care of themselves. I don't know if it is the same with the men as I haven't seen their profiles online. But the standards they are setting for what they look for is really high, likely a problem of online dating.
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Someone with a cute Mini Mouse Avatar.
Right now I'm looking for a fun companion who enjoys the same things - going out to eat, museums, similar tastes in music to go to concerts, enjoys hockey and football. I don't date much and really have not dated since the beginning of Covid
Sexy_Singer
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Chemistry.
Jd192235
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I work at vandeigh industries …
