What do you like about BBWs?

I know this does not pertain directly to the question I started but since there are so many BBWs who have posted on here themselves and who still are battling to overcome self-esteem issues, I wanted to share something...

Today I was about to go lay down and take a nap but decided to shower first and I just started looking at my southern regions in the mirror, doing some errrr ummm maintenance. But was just looking at myself and studying myself, and got incredibly, incredibly down and thought MY GOD! WHO WOULD WANT THIS?!?! I was just in tears... But I decided instead of laying down to come look on the web at pictures of other women, as comparison. (Don't get excited guys!) LOL) And after looking on there... I'm not that depressed anymore. There are some I think I will have nightmares from...looked like creatures of the deep!!! So if you start feeling down, start perusing the web!!! LOL
 
I love the softness of the skin, how the curves just flow, and I also love big breasts and a nice round ass
 
Reading through for first time, will post in minute... but had to say: PAHAHAHA!


edit: hahaha - still laughing! I didn't realize how close I was to the end of the thread. FANTASTICLY wonderful!!! I am a Bountifully Busted and Bootied Woman, and I love it. The only reason or concern I have for losing weight is for my health and also to increase my stamina! I want to be able ride on top for longer... mmmmm!

Thank you to allllll the men and women here, we are all fab-u-lous!

Hello and welcome. :) Nice to see you.
 
I've been reading and browsing the various BBW threads on Lit for a long time, even contributed to some. I'm a BBW, have been all my life. Like some here, I remember being teased in school growing up, even in college. It seems though, that the only people that like and appreciate us are on Lit. I'm on a few dating sites, and there seems to be no guys that like or prefer BBWs. Likewise with meeting people out in the 'real world' lol. I'm a confident woman - probably more confident than anyone I know, it just gets frustrating that I can't seem to meet any of these BBW lovers out in the world.

Well I have the same problem as you as I cant meet anyone either. Very frustrating.
 
I so hear ya and feel ya Chelleb!!! All the guys who like BBWs seem to be on here. I had a hard time in school too and I always got ridiculed for being pudgier than anyone else. So now I grow up trying to get out of a mindset of "I'm just disgusting!" I see men look at me in the store or places and I don't think he's being appreciative, I think he's looking at a ghastly car accident instead! LOL And if he's being flirty, I think oh he's just being overly nice. Because I sure didn't get a phone number!!! I think some guys (and don't get mad at me fellas...I said SOME...LOL) ...do really want the curves but don't want to face the ridicule of others. Maybe I'm wrong. I didn't date until I was 21 and then the guy asked for no intimacy at all, not even a kiss. I think he was waiting on me to lose more weight. He would even check up on me when I was walking at the park with his mother to make sure I was walking. I walked 3 miles a day with constant blisters on my feet for that SOB! So that didn't last long. I've only had one long-term committed and intimate relationship for 11 eleven years which is over now...and we met online. He only gave me a chance because he says then he fell in love with my personality. We got married and he even told his buddies I was the best lay he had ever had in his life, which he had many, (which made his best friend who didn't even like a curvy gal start practically stalking me because he wanted to find out why...lol), but when we first met my husband kept making me promise I'd lose weight, constantly, and I was so scared of being alone and never having another chance, I accepted. STUPID MISTAKE! Then as years progressed he became more emotionally abusive.....so it's a hard life being a Curvacious Goddess....LOL! I've only been approached in person, once in my life, by a chef who told me that my ex was wrong when he said I was pretty, he said I was beautiful. I almost hit the floor! Because I actually felt he meant it!!! But couldn't do anything about it at the time, and that's as far as he went. Oh and in school I went to a crowded high school where during class changes we were packed like sardines. I was constantly getting my ass grabbed and don't know the culprit. I always believed I was just being tormented but now sometimes I actually do wonder if it was someone shy who didn't have the balls to come forward!!! Hee hee! Well there's my biography of tears of the years.....you can all wake up now....LOL!


Well that story made me sad I must admit. The happiest day of my life was the day I graduated high school. Now true I am not female but was always bigger and was always being picked on so i know what it is like. Also like you I have only really had one relationship. And if I saw you in the store i would be looking at you and checking you out. :)
 
I know this does not pertain directly to the question I started but since there are so many BBWs who have posted on here themselves and who still are battling to overcome self-esteem issues, I wanted to share something...

Today I was about to go lay down and take a nap but decided to shower first and I just started looking at my southern regions in the mirror, doing some errrr ummm maintenance. But was just looking at myself and studying myself, and got incredibly, incredibly down and thought MY GOD! WHO WOULD WANT THIS?!?! I was just in tears... But I decided instead of laying down to come look on the web at pictures of other women, as comparison. (Don't get excited guys!) LOL) And after looking on there... I'm not that depressed anymore. There are some I think I will have nightmares from...looked like creatures of the deep!!! So if you start feeling down, start perusing the web!!! LOL

Dont think that. I know I sure as hell would. And I am sure some others do as well.
 
Dont think that. I know I sure as hell would. And I am sure some others do as well.
Aww thanks Craig for both comments. You're sweet. And a gator fan too huh? My cousins go to UF and I'm from Florida originally. Woo hoo GO GATORS! Especially Tim Tebow...hot tamales!!!
 
Nothing better than the thrill of eating a woman's pussy and feeling a pair of plump thighs squeezing against my head. Love it.

I think that we as women of size love that too - the feeling of holding a mans head between our thighs...mmmmmmmm ;)
 
Aww thanks Craig for both comments. You're sweet. And a gator fan too huh? My cousins go to UF and I'm from Florida originally. Woo hoo GO GATORS! Especially Tim Tebow...hot tamales!!!

Your very welcome and I mean both. :) Yeah after this past weekend I am still recovering from that lose. That one really hurt. You know i look just like Tim Tebow.... NOT. LOL
 
:eek: there are men who like big women????

where were you people???

lol why does no body tell you its OK to look the way i do until its too late!
 
For the zaftig ladies out there in this thread, I'll relate an experience I look back fondly on. I was taking a train once during a festival here when public transit is crammed beyond belief, in the middle of summer. And I squeezed onto this train, and somehow found myself up against the backside of this very lovely and absurdly curvaceous young woman. I was still at the age in my life where I had not really acknowledged that I was turned on by larger women.
And as more people piled into the train behind me, I was pushed forward and brought into hips-to-ass contact with this woman. Now, I was extremely shy at the time and would never have initiated any sort of contact with a stranger on the train, but it was hard not to get a little turned on by the blue jeans frottage that we were experiencing. And it didn't help that I could very easily look over her shoulder and down her cleavage. And whenever we went over a bump, that lovely wide ass rubbed against me, and I could tell by the way that she looked back over her shoulder that she was acutely aware of my presence. And I wasn't sure if it was appreciated or not. But as we got out of downtown and crowd began to thin, she didn't move forward and away from me; our bodies stayed in closer contact than they needed to; and I knew then that she was aware, that she wanted that contact too. Unfortunately, somebody slipped between us, and there was no way I could discretely bring myself back against her.
And as I stood watching her from a few feet away now, I really became aware for the first time how much this sort of physique turned me on. And I wanted to tell her this; maybe I felt a bit guilty about achieving some level of sexual gratification from this innocent stranger. But there were too many people around to speak to her, and my stop was approaching. So I took out my notebook, and wrote a little note about how gorgeous her body was and how I loved being in proximity to it, and then I delicately slipped it into the back pocket of her jeans.
In my fantasies, I sometimes think of her, and imagine her finding that note, and saving it; I imagine that if she ever doubts her beauty, she takes it out and remembers how turned on her body made this stranger. Of course, I also imagine her pleasuring herself as she reads the note, because all of my fantasies end up as sexual fantasies.
So ladies, be aware that there are men out there, every day of your life, who see you and are aroused and intrigued, but so often we're either too shy or in circumstances that prevent us from acting on that arousal.
 
For the zaftig ladies out there in this thread, I'll relate an experience I look back fondly on. I was taking a train once during a festival here when public transit is crammed beyond belief, in the middle of summer. And I squeezed onto this train, and somehow found myself up against the backside of this very lovely and absurdly curvaceous young woman. I was still at the age in my life where I had not really acknowledged that I was turned on by larger women.
And as more people piled into the train behind me, I was pushed forward and brought into hips-to-ass contact with this woman. Now, I was extremely shy at the time and would never have initiated any sort of contact with a stranger on the train, but it was hard not to get a little turned on by the blue jeans frottage that we were experiencing. And it didn't help that I could very easily look over her shoulder and down her cleavage. And whenever we went over a bump, that lovely wide ass rubbed against me, and I could tell by the way that she looked back over her shoulder that she was acutely aware of my presence. And I wasn't sure if it was appreciated or not. But as we got out of downtown and crowd began to thin, she didn't move forward and away from me; our bodies stayed in closer contact than they needed to; and I knew then that she was aware, that she wanted that contact too. Unfortunately, somebody slipped between us, and there was no way I could discretely bring myself back against her.
And as I stood watching her from a few feet away now, I really became aware for the first time how much this sort of physique turned me on. And I wanted to tell her this; maybe I felt a bit guilty about achieving some level of sexual gratification from this innocent stranger. But there were too many people around to speak to her, and my stop was approaching. So I took out my notebook, and wrote a little note about how gorgeous her body was and how I loved being in proximity to it, and then I delicately slipped it into the back pocket of her jeans.
In my fantasies, I sometimes think of her, and imagine her finding that note, and saving it; I imagine that if she ever doubts her beauty, she takes it out and remembers how turned on her body made this stranger. Of course, I also imagine her pleasuring herself as she reads the note, because all of my fantasies end up as sexual fantasies.
So ladies, be aware that there are men out there, every day of your life, who see you and are aroused and intrigued, but so often we're either too shy or in circumstances that prevent us from acting on that arousal.

:) thats really kind of beautiful.
as a big girl i find it hard to keep my confidence, I'm married and i know my husband love me and my body. but i have to admit its always nice to hear that someone appreciates your appearance and I'm sure she kept it :) i would have.
 
I think that we as women of size love that too - the feeling of holding a mans head between our thighs...mmmmmmmm ;)
MMMMM....I'd love to have your hands grabbing my long hair as I'm down between your lovely and thick thighs!!!

Hey Craig bring that head over here..I will put it there for ya....and keep you busy!! hahahaha:D
Hey Beautiful Kat!!! Can you keep me busy while I'm down there!!??

:eek: there are men who like big women????

where were you people???

lol why does no body tell you its OK to look the way i do until its too late!
We are everywhere!!! And yet, it seems that we can't seem to find you lovely women or if we do you are already taken!!!

:) thats really kind of beautiful.
as a big girl i find it hard to keep my confidence, I'm married and i know my husband love me and my body. but i have to admit its always nice to hear that someone appreciates your appearance and I'm sure she kept it :) i would have.
You should have no problem with confidence b/c we love you lovely ladies!! It's not always about your appearance but who you are. Just b/c you are not a small woman doesn't mean that us men don't appreciate you!!
 
BBW's

Are very caring when it cums to satisfying their partner. I like that
 
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