What do you like about BBWs?

[iharb2006]

I a word, well three.

I love curves.

 

[tweetygal]

What is a SSBBW?

I use that for a different answer - I say it's Southern Sassy BBW..... and that is how I describe myself. I amnot offended by the term BBW at all - been one all my life. I got past the "queen size" and always loved buying pantyhose that were "Big Mama"...

And as much as I love this thread and all the ones geared toward the more voluptous women, you guys will pardon us if we are still a little skeptical about our new found sensuality. You see, we still remember (or I guess I do) the unkind words as we walked past, the sad looks, the comments of "such a pretty face if only...." and let's not forget the old adage of "fat girls are fun to fuck - they are so grateful"....

It is only in the last five years or so that I have embraced my body - and realized what potential I have inside and that's what counts. I think with maturity (aka menopause) my self confidence came out and I over came the emotional abuse of my first marriage and my current relationship. I am an advocate and speaker for a local woman's group sponsored by Dove that talks to the young girls who have the low self esteem and self worth comparing themselves to the super models on TV and in magazines. I am proud of the fact that I can finally admit - yeah - that's all ME and laugh about it.

Has it been easy? No. And I still get comments from guys who say - you're just too much woman for me referring to my size and I say - Sugar you have no idea...

Okay- enough of my rant - whewwww I don't think I've ever posted such a long reply...... that's what a good night's sleep and a couple of cups of coffee will do.....

 

[ilickum]

I use that for a different answer - I say it's Southern Sassy BBW..... and that is how I describe myself. I amnot offended by the term BBW at all - been one all my life. I got past the "queen size" and always loved buying pantyhose that were "Big Mama"...

And as much as I love this thread and all the ones geared toward the more voluptous women, you guys will pardon us if we are still a little skeptical about our new found sensuality. You see, we still remember (or I guess I do) the unkind words as we walked past, the sad looks, the comments of "such a pretty face if only...." and let's not forget the old adage of "fat girls are fun to fuck - they are so grateful"....

It is only in the last five years or so that I have embraced my body - and realized what potential I have inside and that's what counts. I think with maturity (aka menopause) my self confidence came out and I over came the emotional abuse of my first marriage and my current relationship. I am an advocate and speaker for a local woman's group sponsored by Dove that talks to the young girls who have the low self esteem and self worth comparing themselves to the super models on TV and in magazines. I am proud of the fact that I can finally admit - yeah - that's all ME and laugh about it.

Has it been easy? No. And I still get comments from guys who say - you're just too much woman for me referring to my size and I say - Sugar you have no idea...

Okay- enough of my rant - whewwww I don't think I've ever posted such a long reply...... that's what a good night's sleep and a couple of cups of coffee will do.....

This is just another reason that I have great love and respect for Curvacious Goddesses, I find you to be woman of inteligance and great understanding of other peoples true selfs. My time on lit and my great love for my partner ( A curavious Goddess ) ,Has been such a joy and honor talking and learning to be a true man from the talks I have had and the friendships I have made.

 

[inspector46]

I use that for a different answer - I say it's Southern Sassy BBW..... and that is how I describe myself. I amnot offended by the term BBW at all - been one all my life. I got past the "queen size" and always loved buying pantyhose that were "Big Mama"...

And as much as I love this thread and all the ones geared toward the more voluptous women, you guys will pardon us if we are still a little skeptical about our new found sensuality. You see, we still remember (or I guess I do) the unkind words as we walked past, the sad looks, the comments of "such a pretty face if only...." and let's not forget the old adage of "fat girls are fun to fuck - they are so grateful"....

It is only in the last five years or so that I have embraced my body - and realized what potential I have inside and that's what counts. I think with maturity (aka menopause) my self confidence came out and I over came the emotional abuse of my first marriage and my current relationship. I am an advocate and speaker for a local woman's group sponsored by Dove that talks to the young girls who have the low self esteem and self worth comparing themselves to the super models on TV and in magazines. I am proud of the fact that I can finally admit - yeah - that's all ME and laugh about it.

Has it been easy? No. And I still get comments from guys who say - you're just too much woman for me referring to my size and I say - Sugar you have no idea...

Okay- enough of my rant - whewwww I don't think I've ever posted such a long reply...... that's what a good night's sleep and a couple of cups of coffee will do.....

I'll vouch for tweetygal. She's one hell of a woman.

 

[azsprty]

i dont like a thing. The thought of a fat ass muffin top fat roll woman makes my dick curl and me vomit..BLAH...GO AWAY

 

[Lady_Fiona]

i dont like a thing. The thought of a fat ass muffin top fat roll woman makes my dick curl and me vomit..BLAH...GO AWAY

If you don't like this thread bollox off and find one you do like. No one asked you to post here, if you don't like the subject just troll off and find one that you can pass a comment on without being a twat.

 

[manic_obsessive]

Was that really neccesary? I don't understand how it can make you feel validated to try and ruin a thread that people like. Go find somebody else to bother, azsprty.

 

[webman252]

i dont like a thing. The thought of a fat ass muffin top fat roll woman makes my dick curl and me vomit..BLAH...GO AWAY

Talk about a thread killer! Fuck him and the horse he rode in on. I am sure he is hung like a pimple.

 

[braincum]

To get back to the far more pleasant subject at hand, as it were

I was fortunate to share a wonderfully large and loving lady's innermost graces a while back. After much badinage, we ended up alone together, finally. Before we first took off the an item of clothing, she asked me what I found attractive about her, a BBW (and not yet proud of it, either).

Without even having to think I said what a wonder it was to cum together with a fluffy gal because there is just so much more of her body for an orgasm to course its magical way through. I truly enjoyed the feeling of squashing a buxom armload close between us to feel the searing beauty of her cumming and cumming.

Both of us then found our pleasures were doubled, tripled afterwards...

 

[craig30]

i dont like a thing. The thought of a fat ass muffin top fat roll woman makes my dick curl and me vomit..BLAH...GO AWAY

Well thanks for that very informative input there. Maybe you should take your own advise and GO AWAY.

 

[bayupilot]

Curious question to all the fellas who like BBWs.....why do you? I am one and never felt sexy or attractive til MusicLover2009 came along....blows kisses at him! So I was wondering what guys thoughts were on that. Also, how big do you like your gals boys?

I have only known 3 BBWs. They were the best lovers I ever Had....and they ALL knew how to kiss! I'm amazed at how many women don't know to kiss. And of course, they all recoil from the suggestion that they need some instruction! Kissing is always at the start of a fantastic encounter.

 

[Ginger_Girl]

Talk about a thread killer! Fuck him and the horse he rode in on. I am sure he is hung like a pimple.

Reading through for first time, will post in minute... but had to say: PAHAHAHA!


edit: hahaha - still laughing! I didn't realize how close I was to the end of the thread. FANTASTICLY wonderful!!! I am a Bountifully Busted and Bootied Woman, and I love it. The only reason or concern I have for losing weight is for my health and also to increase my stamina! I want to be able ride on top for longer... mmmmm!

Thank you to allllll the men and women here, we are all fab-u-lous!

 

[KinkyMichigan]

Reading through for first time, will post in minute... but had to say: PAHAHAHA!


edit: hahaha - still laughing! I didn't realize how close I was to the end of the thread. FANTASTICLY wonderful!!! I am a Bountifully Busted and Bootied Woman, and I love it. The only reason or concern I have for losing weight is for my health and also to increase my stamina! I want to be able ride on top for longer... mmmmm!

Thank you to allllll the men and women here, we are all fab-u-lous!

I couldn't have put it better myself. You are all gorgeous. *smiles* Welcome!

Mmmm "Bountifully Busted and Bootied Woman"...I like the sound of that!

 

[Spenser41]

i dont like a thing. The thought of a fat ass muffin top fat roll woman makes my dick curl and me vomit..BLAH...GO AWAY

You know something Azshole, You are RUDE and CRUDE and you need to learn some freakin manners. You must be extremely immature because your choice of words tell me you barely made it out of high school.

 

[GoldunAngel]

Talk about a thread killer! Fuck him and the horse he rode in on. I am sure he is hung like a pimple.

OMG...that is great!!!! Honestly who shit in his cereal? Thank you guys for cumming to our rescue!!! LOL

 

[nomgone]

OMG...that is great!!!! Honestly who shit in his cereal? Thank you guys for cumming to our rescue!!! LOL

LOL. Nicely put!

 

[operationorgasm]

Has it been easy? No. And I still get comments from guys who say - you're just too much woman for me referring to my size and I say - Sugar you have no idea...

I, like you, recall all of the bullshit, hurtful words people would spew at me for no apparent reason regarding my size. As much as they can hurt, I've learned to tune it out (or try, at the very least). Those folks, I pity. It's clear to me they're the ones with some sort of issue and unhappiness (much like the jackass somewhere up above trolling to make himself feel better about his apparent lack of self-esteem). Misery loves company, after all, so why not try to drag you down with them? Ignore them. They're clearly doing it for attention, so if you deprive them of that, you take away their power. Or, smile and thank them. That one always confuses them . My personal favourite, however, is 'You haven't got what it takes to take what I've got' when I meet someone who's unworthy. It usually comes hot on the heels of having my appearance insulted up one side and down the other. Of course, they always assume, because they're so arrogant, that this can't be true. After all, they're God's gift to women, right?

...yeah, and I'm Superman.

 

[CreekPrincess]

Talk about a thread killer! Fuck him and the horse he rode in on. I am sure he is hung like a pimple.

OMG!!!! I almost peed in my pants laughing at your response to that asshole! That's great!!! And applauds all the sweet gentleman who came riding in to our defense! I love it!!!!

 

[CreekPrincess]

Oh and for all my peeps on this thread, I started a new fun one to entertain the gents and get the ladies to post... check it out.

About what a lady would do on a first meeting.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=32693294#post32693294

 

[chelleb]

I've been reading and browsing the various BBW threads on Lit for a long time, even contributed to some. I'm a BBW, have been all my life. Like some here, I remember being teased in school growing up, even in college. It seems though, that the only people that like and appreciate us are on Lit. I'm on a few dating sites, and there seems to be no guys that like or prefer BBWs. Likewise with meeting people out in the 'real world' lol. I'm a confident woman - probably more confident than anyone I know, it just gets frustrating that I can't seem to meet any of these BBW lovers out in the world.

 

[CreekPrincess]

I've been reading and browsing the various BBW threads on Lit for a long time, even contributed to some. I'm a BBW, have been all my life. Like some here, I remember being teased in school growing up, even in college. It seems though, that the only people that like and appreciate us are on Lit. I'm on a few dating sites, and there seems to be no guys that like or prefer BBWs. Likewise with meeting people out in the 'real world' lol. I'm a confident woman - probably more confident than anyone I know, it just gets frustrating that I can't seem to meet any of these BBW lovers out in the world.

I so hear ya and feel ya Chelleb!!! All the guys who like BBWs seem to be on here. I had a hard time in school too and I always got ridiculed for being pudgier than anyone else. So now I grow up trying to get out of a mindset of "I'm just disgusting!" I see men look at me in the store or places and I don't think he's being appreciative, I think he's looking at a ghastly car accident instead! LOL And if he's being flirty, I think oh he's just being overly nice. Because I sure didn't get a phone number!!! I think some guys (and don't get mad at me fellas...I said SOME...LOL) ...do really want the curves but don't want to face the ridicule of others. Maybe I'm wrong. I didn't date until I was 21 and then the guy asked for no intimacy at all, not even a kiss. I think he was waiting on me to lose more weight. He would even check up on me when I was walking at the park with his mother to make sure I was walking. I walked 3 miles a day with constant blisters on my feet for that SOB! So that didn't last long. I've only had one long-term committed and intimate relationship for 11 eleven years which is over now...and we met online. He only gave me a chance because he says then he fell in love with my personality. We got married and he even told his buddies I was the best lay he had ever had in his life, which he had many, (which made his best friend who didn't even like a curvy gal start practically stalking me because he wanted to find out why...lol), but when we first met my husband kept making me promise I'd lose weight, constantly, and I was so scared of being alone and never having another chance, I accepted. STUPID MISTAKE! Then as years progressed he became more emotionally abusive.....so it's a hard life being a Curvacious Goddess....LOL! I've only been approached in person, once in my life, by a chef who told me that my ex was wrong when he said I was pretty, he said I was beautiful. I almost hit the floor! Because I actually felt he meant it!!! But couldn't do anything about it at the time, and that's as far as he went. Oh and in school I went to a crowded high school where during class changes we were packed like sardines. I was constantly getting my ass grabbed and don't know the culprit. I always believed I was just being tormented but now sometimes I actually do wonder if it was someone shy who didn't have the balls to come forward!!! Hee hee! Well there's my biography of tears of the years.....you can all wake up now....LOL!

 

[dchockeyman]

I so hear ya and feel ya Chelleb!!! All the guys who like BBWs seem to be on here. I had a hard time in school too and I always got ridiculed for being pudgier than anyone else. So now I grow up trying to get out of a mindset of "I'm just disgusting!" I see men look at me in the store or places and I don't think he's being appreciative, I think he's looking at a ghastly car accident instead! LOL And if he's being flirty, I think oh he's just being overly nice. Because I sure didn't get a phone number!!! I think some guys (and don't get mad at me fellas...I said SOME...LOL) ...do really want the curves but don't want to face the ridicule of others. Maybe I'm wrong. I didn't date until I was 21 and then the guy asked for no intimacy at all, not even a kiss. I think he was waiting on me to lose more weight. He would even check up on me when I was walking at the park with his mother to make sure I was walking. I walked 3 miles a day with constant blisters on my feet for that SOB! So that didn't last long. I've only had one long-term committed and intimate relationship for 11 eleven years which is over now...and we met online. He only gave me a chance because he says then he fell in love with my personality. We got married and he even told his buddies I was the best lay he had ever had in his life, which he had many, (which made his best friend who didn't even like a curvy gal start practically stalking me because he wanted to find out why...lol), but when we first met my husband kept making me promise I'd lose weight, constantly, and I was so scared of being alone and never having another chance, I accepted. STUPID MISTAKE! Then as years progressed he became more emotionally abusive.....so it's a hard life being a Curvacious Goddess....LOL! I've only been approached in person, once in my life, by a chef who told me that my ex was wrong when he said I was pretty, he said I was beautiful. I almost hit the floor! Because I actually felt he meant it!!! But couldn't do anything about it at the time, and that's as far as he went. Oh and in school I went to a crowded high school where during class changes we were packed like sardines. I was constantly getting my ass grabbed and don't know the culprit. I always believed I was just being tormented but now sometimes I actually do wonder if it was someone shy who didn't have the balls to come forward!!! Hee hee! Well there's my biography of tears of the years.....you can all wake up now....LOL!

That was me grabbing your ass, and trying to slip a hand down front as well

 

[soflabbwlvr]

I think we are drifting from the original question posed in this thread, that is, what do guys like about BBWs? But you raise some interesting points. Unfortunately, the ridicule in school that you experienced is consistent with the general antipathy exhibited toward all kids who are outside the norm, for whatever reason. Weight is an easy target because it is so obvious. And to make matters worse, a preference for curvier women usually does not become clearly developed until long after puberty has passed. Boys mature more slowly than girls, and by the time a man realizes that he has a preference for a softer, full figured woman, has has already seen countless images of 120 lb. waifs that we are programmed to believe are ideally shaped. It takes a profound epiphany for a man to realize his preference, and a moment of growth for him to accept and embrace it. Not all men reach the second stage.

I so hear ya and feel ya Chelleb!!! All the guys who like BBWs seem to be on here. I had a hard time in school too and I always got ridiculed for being pudgier than anyone else. So now I grow up trying to get out of a mindset of "I'm just disgusting!" I see men look at me in the store or places and I don't think he's being appreciative, I think he's looking at a ghastly car accident instead! LOL And if he's being flirty, I think oh he's just being overly nice. Because I sure didn't get a phone number!!! I think some guys (and don't get mad at me fellas...I said SOME...LOL) ...do really want the curves but don't want to face the ridicule of others. Maybe I'm wrong. I didn't date until I was 21 and then the guy asked for no intimacy at all, not even a kiss. I think he was waiting on me to lose more weight. He would even check up on me when I was walking at the park with his mother to make sure I was walking. I walked 3 miles a day with constant blisters on my feet for that SOB! So that didn't last long. I've only had one long-term committed and intimate relationship for 11 eleven years which is over now...and we met online. He only gave me a chance because he says then he fell in love with my personality. We got married and he even told his buddies I was the best lay he had ever had in his life, which he had many, (which made his best friend who didn't even like a curvy gal start practically stalking me because he wanted to find out why...lol), but when we first met my husband kept making me promise I'd lose weight, constantly, and I was so scared of being alone and never having another chance, I accepted. STUPID MISTAKE! Then as years progressed he became more emotionally abusive.....so it's a hard life being a Curvacious Goddess....LOL! I've only been approached in person, once in my life, by a chef who told me that my ex was wrong when he said I was pretty, he said I was beautiful. I almost hit the floor! Because I actually felt he meant it!!! But couldn't do anything about it at the time, and that's as far as he went. Oh and in school I went to a crowded high school where during class changes we were packed like sardines. I was constantly getting my ass grabbed and don't know the culprit. I always believed I was just being tormented but now sometimes I actually do wonder if it was someone shy who didn't have the balls to come forward!!! Hee hee! Well there's my biography of tears of the years.....you can all wake up now....LOL!

 

[blu_ox1]

I love nothing more than the feeling of a woman's skin against my skin. A woman-sized woman, with her curves and the warmth of her flesh, is absolutely intoxicating. Nothing better than the thrill of eating a woman's pussy and feeling a pair of plump thighs squeezing against my head. Love it.

 

[CreekPrincess]

I think we are drifting from the original question posed in this thread, that is, what do guys like about BBWs? But you raise some interesting points. Unfortunately, the ridicule in school that you experienced is consistent with the general antipathy exhibited toward all kids who are outside the norm, for whatever reason. Weight is an easy target because it is so obvious. And to make matters worse, a preference for curvier women usually does not become clearly developed until long after puberty has passed. Boys mature more slowly than girls, and by the time a man realizes that he has a preference for a softer, full figured woman, has has already seen countless images of 120 lb. waifs that we are programmed to believe are ideally shaped. It takes a profound epiphany for a man to realize his preference, and a moment of growth for him to accept and embrace it. Not all men reach the second stage.

Very nicely put indeed!