KillerMuffin
Seraphically Disinclined
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I've been thinking about that movie "The Accused" lately. I haven't seen it in a long time so I'm not going to be totally up on it, but essentially what happened is this girl, Sarah, was a total bar slut. She wore "fuck me" like a neon sign. Micro-skirt, tiny little shirt with no bra, the whole kit'n kaboodle. Basically the morals of an alley cat. She's in this bar and gets gang-raped by these three men on a pool table. She just wanted fun, not fucking and she made that very clear. There are spectators egging the rapists on and howling like it's a football game and the cheerleaders are naked.
Anyway, she goes to court against her rapists and they get off with a slap on the wrist and she's pretty much indicted as a slut. She goes up against the spectators next and manages to get them heavy sentences for their part in it.
Back to my point now.
Can women "ask for it?" This girl was handing out free samples on this bar and the general opinion of the rape trial was that she got was she was asking for. I realize that rape situations can be avoided by a little forethought, but how much blame can be placed on the rape victim for the rape? Is it always rape if she's a total slut? Like that old expression, you can't rape a whore.
Personally, if she doesn't want it and they give it to her anyway, it's rape. I don't believe that a victim has any culpability in a rape no matter how she dresses or acts in public. I think that in circumstances like where they're both naked and into heavy foreplay and she says no then, that's a little different, it's still rape, but that's just a dirty thing to do to a guy. I understand that some women cry rape when no such thing ever happened. I'm not interested in those situations at the moment, new thread topic. Outside of those scenarios, I don't think a girl can ask for it.
Anyway, she goes to court against her rapists and they get off with a slap on the wrist and she's pretty much indicted as a slut. She goes up against the spectators next and manages to get them heavy sentences for their part in it.
Back to my point now.
Can women "ask for it?" This girl was handing out free samples on this bar and the general opinion of the rape trial was that she got was she was asking for. I realize that rape situations can be avoided by a little forethought, but how much blame can be placed on the rape victim for the rape? Is it always rape if she's a total slut? Like that old expression, you can't rape a whore.
Personally, if she doesn't want it and they give it to her anyway, it's rape. I don't believe that a victim has any culpability in a rape no matter how she dresses or acts in public. I think that in circumstances like where they're both naked and into heavy foreplay and she says no then, that's a little different, it's still rape, but that's just a dirty thing to do to a guy. I understand that some women cry rape when no such thing ever happened. I'm not interested in those situations at the moment, new thread topic. Outside of those scenarios, I don't think a girl can ask for it.