Unable to climax while sitting on his face…advice needed.

[NancyPan]

Did you ever ask her why she didn’t want to ride your face anymore?

Of course. Unfortunately, it’s age. Her knees sometimes hurt, her legs sometimes cramp, but also she likes me on my knees on the side of “Her” bed as She looks down on me and I beg to be allowed to worship Her. In some ways, as we’ve gotten older, She’s wanted to just sit back or lay back and have me “do the work” to provide her orgasm with my tongue, mouth, and her vibrator. Fine with me!

 

[NancyPan]

I rode his face today, and again didn’t climax…then I laid down and he worshipped me while prone, and that’s when I was able to climax. I’m wondering if maybe when I’m riding him, he’s just not hitting high enough on my clit & that’s the reason I’m not climaxing….hmmm

Do what works for you! Your O is most important!

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Despite many many tries, I’m unable to climax while riding my partner’s face. I’ve tried sitting facing different directions, no affect. In general I love having my pussy worshipped, so I’d love some tips for how to climax in this position.

I know what the problem is. It's very hard to explain, I'll have to show you

 

[secretthing]

Something that helps for me to come in a new position is get myseld super close to coming using a method that I know works, like with a vibrator or in a comfy position, then when I am super close I push myself over the edge doing the new thing. Maybe try that?

 

[Deadfreak]

Make sure he's breathing

 

[Tom_Brown]

Get a new partner!

 

[MistressVenus]

Get a new partner!

Aw Tom, I’d like to stick with him as he’s eager to please.

 

[Poeticwolf]

Aw Tom, I’d like to stick with him as he’s eager to please.

apparently he's not the only one eager to please you hehe

 

[magic_rat]

Despite many many tries, I’m unable to climax while riding my partner’s face. I’ve tried sitting facing different directions, no affect. In general I love having my pussy worshipped, so I’d love some tips for how to climax in this position.

Maybe it's just not the right thing for you. My partner climaxes more easily in some positions than others. You know your body better than anyone here so only you know whether you can resolve this or not.

 

[Tom_Brown]

Aw Tom, I’d like to stick with him as he’s eager to please.

I never said to get rid of him. Maybe have someone teach him?
It’s a win-win!

I’ve always gotten my wife off orally. After 15 years of me asking, she had sex with another man. He fucked her multiple times that night, and had her cumming with his cock, but could not get her off orally.

After one of their sessions that night, I went down on her and had her cumming pretty quickly, so I thought that I was pretty good. But a year later, I set up a masseur to try and seduce her.

She was very reluctant to indulge (at first) but then he got her to cum with his fingers and she gave him head. Soon after, he went down on her and I never saw her cum as intensely as she did, when he ate her pussy. She even squirted (which she rarely does).

She came so hard that she begged him to fuck her.

Later, she told me that he was the best at eating pussy that she ever had. She assured me that I was a close second, but he was better.

 

[subdudeme13]

Despite many many tries, I’m unable to climax while riding my partner’s face. I’ve tried sitting facing different directions, no affect. In general I love having my pussy worshipped, so I’d love some tips for how to climax in this position.

Have you tried having him go down on you till you get close and then have him lay down and mounting his face to climax. There is something so sexy about having a woman straddle my face. I am not sure how it makes you feel to mount his face. You might bring out your sadistic side. i get the part about making sure he is breathing but one Domme i loved would cover and pinch my nose so I couldn't, I loved it. Maybe if he was struggling a little bit that might help push you over the edge.

 

[subdudeme13]

Maybe he isn't building up the pleasure and anticipation correctly. Maybe you aren't feeling it with him, the desire, the comfortable submission. A steady, patient method generally works. It could take some time, but it may have more to do with you than your partner. Extra stimulation is always a plus

Have you tried this?
https://xhamster.com/videos/i-fuck-your-face-on-the-bench-xhMArqy

 

[subdudeme13]

Despite many many tries, I’m unable to climax while riding my partner’s face. I’ve tried sitting facing different directions, no affect. In general I love having my pussy worshipped, so I’d love some tips for how to climax in this position.

You have gotten some good tips and advice. Get a chance to try any!
Also, I think you might want to tie him spread eagle on the bed, just to remind yourself he is there for our pleasure!

 

[Beachsyrf]

Had to research & find this thread because last night, my long-distance-relationship gf of 15 years, for the first time EVER, crawled up on top of me, grabbed the headboard rail and said "I want to sit on your face ..."

Now, I'm telling you, we both love when I worship her pussy (which she keeps baby-smooth) and she almost always gets off when I do that but she has never even suggested this. She is usually very content to lay back and let me do what I do .... which usually includes paying attention to her butt, as well; orally & digitally ... she responds very well to that and I can always tell when she's climaxing by her contractions ....

But last night was a legitimate "first"! It was a thrill and the combination wondering where (from whom) she might have learned this new trick and her desire to take the lead and be assertive was quite the turn-on.

As she mounted my willing mouth these thoughts led me to wondering who she'd learned this from and whether (of course!) he'd fucked her afterwards. The image made me quite horny & I imagined I was eating a warm creampie from her VERY wet pussy. Very erotic ....

But to the OP's opening question, I quickly figured out that this position required that she set the pace and point of contact. She was able to squat onto my face, holding the headboard rail with both hands and lower herself and slide up and down.

She was basically using my face & protruding tongue as as a touch point for where she wanted contact; back-forth, side to side & the weight with which SHE chose apply .... she did not climax in that position but I could tell she enjoyed being I control and showing me something new. She was definitely not self-conscious!

Later, when we were relaxing in the afterglow, I told her how much I had liked that side of her. I even mentioned I'd like her to do that one time after I cum in her. She has not ever responded very well to the notion of my eating a creampie from her but I still bring it up from time to time ....

 

[Beachsyrf]

This is pretty hot .... might have to try this some time ...

https://xhamster.com/videos/cuckold...QE*MTc0Mjc2NDA4NC4xLjAuMTc0Mjc2NDA4NC4wLjAuMA..

 

[GrumpyGator]

Despite many many tries, I’m unable to climax while riding my partner’s face. I’ve tried sitting facing different directions, no affect. In general I love having my pussy worshipped, so I’d love some tips for how to climax in this position.

Take charge grind his face how you want. I love been rode like a cheap saddle. Ride it like you own it.

 

[Jw75766]

Despite many many tries, I’m unable to climax while riding my partner’s face. I’ve tried sitting facing different directions, no affect. In general I love having my pussy worshipped, so I’d love some tips for how to climax in this position.

I guess it depends on what gets you off. Is internal pussy stimulation your thing, is clit attention? My wife loves anal stimulation while I'm going to town on her. There's a lot of variables that could play a factor. What really gets you off?