FelicityJohns
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- Oct 23, 2014
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The right one will find you at your worst and bring out your best, and be there no matter what.

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The right one will find you at your worst and bring out your best, and be there no matter what.![]()
I believe that a connection between two people is a living thing. Something to be fed and nurished, and enjoyed.
Trying to answer questions about it . . . . How? . . . .Why? . . .What is it? - isn't always a good thing. If you dissect any living thing too much - you can kill it.
Trying to fit it into some category, make it fit some pattern,
force it to be anything other than what it is - all takes away from its wonder. Better to leave some things unknown, and just enjoy the joy and beauty while it lives.
Not sure yet why things are lining up like they are. Spent the last 2 weeks fighting to get things done for surgery ASAP. 1 week lost to a stupid office manager who screwed around not getting the MRI referral in when she was supposed to. 1 week of extra extreme pain due to the required chest x-ray by a medical professional who had me raise my arms overhead for a side shot causing huge tears of the adhesions in there.
I've had to kick an ass to get that MRI which was the hardest one ever pain wise due to those adhesion tears. Tomorrow was the follow up to set the surgery date (I had hoped for next week) but now the robo system called to cancel that appointment.
Why?? Why the extra trouble, the extra pain and still no surgery lined up???? Where is the lesson in that???
The greatest thing you can show someone is that they truly matter to you.
The worst, is that they don't matter any more.
I believe I see too much of the latter around here.